Someone I know [25yo male] recently got engaged and intends to get married in november, having already started to spend money on the party. I asked him if he wished to have kids and when. He replied that he intended to have kids in the future, maybe in 5 years, when his theirs finances were better.

I don't have a crystal ball, but I think the child will come sooner than expected and before he considers his finances to be in order. Maybe the amount of MGTOW content turned me into a skeptic, maybe I saw too many outliers in my life. So I invite you to share your knowledge and experience. "Young" wives [also 25yo] recently married have an habit of waiting until their husbands finances are in order before having kids?