MGTOW Fathers of daughters, how do we raise them?

Aladdin70 · 2020-01-28T17:43:34+00:00

Teach them to be respectful to men. to not manipulate and lie on them.

Teach them to be independant and not need a man to fulfill her desires in life.

Teach them that it's easy to break a man's heart even as a child and some men will resent them for that and do awful things.

TigPlaze · 2020-01-28T17:54:41+00:00

That's a tough one. I would definitely warn them about the evil hate movement that is feminism.

Octoxo · 2020-01-28T18:44:26+00:00

I know trad-wives and female anti-feminists don't get a lot love in this sub, but I can't imagine a better outcome for your daughters. I am not exactly sure how best to accomplish that outcome. If you're overbearing teaching trad-con values, it can backfire and you will get a pink-hair CC girl with a septum ring. For instance, social media is clearly toxic AF, but I think it's better to teach them how to navigate it rather than ban it and make it a desirable taboo. Lead by example not by dictate. Expose them to good music before the discover Billie Eilish and Taylor swift. Talk about how awesome Hillsdale is before they discover Berkeley. Good luck.

veasel79 · 2020-01-28T18:19:49+00:00

Acceptance that’s how, all we do is try to make them accountable, make appropriate decisions, understand and be confident in who they are, and how to be respectful over entitled, but you have to accept once she mingles with other girls as she grows it’s basically over .

I know this, I have 2 daughters. A 19yr old and a 11yr old . My 19yr old had her entire life in front of her, she was on the national honor society and was owning her niche in marketing, receiving scholarship offers etc. other high school girls and cheer moms exposure slanted all that and she went boy crazy to fit in got together with a slob dickhead and threw it all away within a yr, add on her mom who sees no big deal about her 16 at the time trying to have sex because well ShE DId ! And it’s over.

My 11yr old is a great super bright happy considerate little girl, but it’s starting already, other girls just talk about cute boys and getting attention. So it’s only a matter of time.

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jamocadyn · 2020-01-28T18:28:19+00:00

Take away their cell phones and cut your access to the internet. Watch only 1950s family TV shows. Then be the example of what a man is supposed to look and act like. Do not be a simp. Do not treat them like princesses. Make them "handle their shit" ALWAYS. Expect a higher standard from them. Note they "come out of the box" already wired to manipulate males you have to work within these parameters. It would help if you have a very strict mother (as in their grandmother) who can call them on their female BS when they're acting up. Most importantly stress the sanctity of FAMILY.

Oatmeal_or_Porridge · 2020-01-28T18:54:34+00:00

Teach them to love God with all their heart, mind and soul.

Tell them and show them that you are a strongbox, that they can tell you anything and you will never share it with others (and you must never fail in this, one failure and you are no longer trusted with sensitive topics).

Sometimes when my daughters were young, I would say, 'I'm going to talk to you as an adult' then tell her about sensitive topics and afterwards would say, 'okay go be a kid now'. It gave them a way of talking about sensitive topics, where they could go into 'adult mode'. They picked up on this and they would say, 'okay i'm going to talk like an adult now', then tell me their questions, then do the 'i'm a kid now'. (this seems silly but don't forget, you are dealing with a kids mind)

Tell them the 'why' of things, I told my daughters not to go into the empty house in our neighborhood and why, the other day (shes 28 now) she told me she and her sisters were going to do it anyway (she was about 8) but then started thinking about what I said. So tell them your reasoning, not just 'no you can't'.

Show them, when you can, all about cars, how to check the oil, air pressure, change a tire with them (just to practice), etc. My other daughter also told me she really likes knowing how to do these things and was glad I taught them. Also teach them to repair things around the house (door knobs, hinges, draw slides, show them how plumbing works, etc., same reasons.

Very important one. Sometimes my kids when they were small, would be very rowdy, bad mood, etc. As they ran by I would grab them, hug and hold them, tell them how much I love them and that they were my favorite! (I secretly told all my kids they were my favorite :-) ) Everyone needs to be hugged but especially kids.

One of my kids was having a hard time in middle school, she was kinda depressed. I started telling her, 'You're a winner. I can see it in you.' She didn't quite know what to make of me saying that out of the blue but I kept saying it every couple of days, and she started to have a different look about her, she was more confident and happier. Kids need to be told that they are winners...

Give them things that they can be successful at, sometimes easy things, sometimes hard things (and help them achieve them) so they can learn success comes from working diligently and not to quit.

When you talk about women (feminism) to your young girls, speak of it as a political thing, that way they don't feel attacked for being female. Like, for example, explaining why its better to have kids first and then a career because biology pushes women to have kids and a nest, else they will always have this nagging feeling of missing something. See, explain the 'why'... then let them decide. And that men have biology pushing them also, but in different ways...

Always lay breadcrumbs to topics, and remember, they are always watching you and listening to you. My middle kid (20 something now) told me the other day why she penny pinches is because of all my arguments with their mom over money (made me sad to hear but I was young then) . What you do now, how you act now, and how you show them things WILL affect them when they are adults.

Cheers.

Title	MGTOW Fathers of daughters, how do we raise them?
Author	Acorn-Acorn
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	January 28, 2020 5:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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