Original Thread

TL;DR: BB goes to party with crush. He plays video games while she bangs two dudes. BB gets upset, walks home and crys to Reddit while in bed all day. Disregards the truth.

She drove, we chatted, I made my interest apparent. She seemed to reciprocate. As the night went on and the liquid courage started loosening everybody up, she started getting kinda flirty and feely with a lot of people. Should have been my red flag to get the hell out. Nope.

Dude drives with the girl to a party. He reveals that he has a crush on her, so naturally she feels flattered and reciprocates interest back. Once they arrive at the party, they get a buzz going and Mr. Beta suppresses his gut feelings of her red flags once she starts letting her inner slut free.

We ended up at another house with two guys who we had been hanging out with at the party. Me and guy #2 played FIFA while she sat on the couch with guy #1. They ended up making out. I figured they were going to have sex and I would just have to live with it because she was my ride home.

Guy #1 chats up with the crush while beta boy and Guy #2 play video games. The poor guy knows what's going to transpire and yet he would rather play with some other dude than talk to his crush. He takes no initiative action, justs lets it happen while he feels overpowered by Guy #1s SMV. "You'll go hungry watching other guys fish".

Guy #1 gets up and taps guy #2 on the shoulder, and whispers something into his ear. Guy #2 sets his controller down, tells me "it's all you dude." She's on the couch cheesing, and the three of them all head down the hall into the same bedroom. I was still in denial until I heard the bed shaking and her squealing. I sat numb for maybe five minutes before going outside and smoking cigarettes until they made me sick. Tried to go back inside and lay down, but I made it maybe five minutes before I decided I had to go home. It was about a two hour walk. I'm pretty sure I'm not leaving my bed today.

At this moment, he should have know she gives absolutely no fucks about him, at least sexually. The damn guy was still basically telling himself that "she's not that kind of girl", up until he heard her moans. AWALT. Once he had enough, he does his own version of the "Walk of Shame" and proceeds to being in bed all day, depressed over a woman doing what they do best.

edit - To the people who keep calling her "whore," "slut," "bitch," etc, I don't agree with you and you're really not helping anything at all.

No fucking way. He denies it so much that he's delusional. The obvious step is to move on, however he'd rather keep digging his hole. "She's the one for me, she's not like other girls"

edit 2 - She keeps trying to call me. I really see no benefit to anyone in answering.

Well, duh! She's gotta make sure she still has her orbiter. She likes the attention, and you're too deep in your "oneitis" fantasy to know any better.

edit 3 - There is just no way I'm going to be able to keep up with all these replies. I'm going to call her and add an edit here later.

There it is. Finally gave in to the temptation. Regardless of what was said, she knows for sure that you're SMV is lower than hers. Could have shown her otherwise but this boy doesn't know any better.

edit 4 - I'm familiar with the red pill and I won't be joining them, so you can save those suggestions.

The icing on the cake. Disregards information at hand that would help him in his time of need. I wouldn't doubt if he is rather content with the Beta lifestyle. "You have to understand that most of these people are not ready to be unplugged and many are so hopelessly dependent on the system, they will fight to protect it".

I have a feeling this won't be this young man's only heart break. I do praise him a bit for walking out instead of waiting for a ride, though perhaps he could have stuck around to demonstrate that her actions didn't phase him. Others thoughts on this aspect?

Lesson(s) learned: Don't sit around thinking about the girl some other guy is hitting on. Shit or get off the pot. If she tells you her interest in you but shows interest in another guy, RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, don't cry about it. AWALT. They don't care about your "feels", only theirs.

PS. Please excuse my current formatting. I'm on mobile and will be fixing any errors when I get on my PC.