Women are mislead by society, just like blue pill beta bob.

TheReformist94 · 2015-12-03T21:53:51+00:00

I think the way society misleads men and women are very different. Just remember that when she does eventual cheat on him with Chad she will be awarded half his shit and still be praised as a hero. Her solipsism will dispense of any shred of remorse save for maybe a little niggling doubt in the back of her mind if her life doesn't work out perfectly.

Society offers men up as willing sacrifices to women. Society may simply mislead women away that they may feel unfulfilled by their actions at some point later in life. You tell me what's worse.

bjs_and_doggystyle · 2015-12-03T21:44:31+00:00

It's crazy how averse society is to people talking about and better understanding social dynamics especially of the sexual variety. You can learn more in two months on TRP than in an entire lifetime of trying to figure it out on your own.

Hell, you could probably learn more in a week here if you were smart about your reading.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-12-03T22:24:16+00:00

Long ago I had a female boss who's husband suddenly lost all his hair.

Even his eyebrows. (Alopecia?)

Anyway, the problem wasn't his appearance, but his sudden loss of confidence.

She divorced him because he "wasn't the same" mentally. And her observation was correct because I had known the guy a little bit from some company parties and his loss of confidence was noticable.

A woman will overlook appearances... but lose confidence and it's over.

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MisterMisogyny · 2015-12-04T00:06:54+00:00

I saw the same post, but the part that caught my attention was

I met him two years ago

In my experience, women tend to get bored with a relationship at around the two year mark. I think it's part of their lizard brain: "if he hasn't gotten me pregnant yet, then I need to find someone else who can/will."

MattyAnon · 2015-12-04T05:42:24+00:00

Women are mislead by society, just like blue pill beta bob.

Nah.... women know the score. Even this one. She knows she's trading off his alpha tendencies against his beta ones. She thought she had a good mix of both... now the alpha is fading.

Oh she might use different words... things like "attractive" and "nice to me" and "romantic" and "exciting" will be used rather than "af/bb".

But she knows. Deep down she knows. Deep down she feels.

This stuff isn't created by society, this stuff is created by female instinctive hypergamy.

In the past two years he has gained a whole bunch of weight and has begun balding and I have noticed that I am not as attracted to him anymore.

She says why she's not attracted.

In effect she's just asking "is the betabux and commitment worth losing the alpha fucks?" but in flowery womanese language.

waldo888 · 2015-12-06T17:27:22+00:00

The real problem here is that this is a conversation that is already her hamster. In no way shape or form does she want her boyfriend to lose weight, work out, get some hobbies and live a more interesting life. She in no way wants this man anymore. She doesn't care enough to help her partner in any way when she can obv find a better one. She love him so much.....but!!! she is looking to feel good without thinking that maybe she never gave fuck at all.

DforDeadpool · 2015-12-04T00:42:36+00:00

So true, OP. They just go around suffering, thinking they know what they want in a man, yet in reality they have no clue. And some are irreversibly changed by the social programming, to feel shame and guilt when they be sexual. Even the ones considered to be redpilled. That's why my rage and anger towards women turned into understanding and empathy. They want to be loved, feel connected with a man they really like, having the perfect honest-to-God relationship, maybe even not intercourse, no poppin' cherries until they get married with that said man. But their inner slut says otherwise. That may be the one of the reasons why they're bipolar.

clonegreen · 2015-12-03T22:26:48+00:00

The reason why people fail to admit they don't want to see their mate turn fat and unambitious is because we're to believe love is eternal. It's considered shallow to see it any other way.

But really it's an indication that your partner is slacking and your entire biology is taking notice.

Trusting your gut instinct is often the right decision but so many are afraid to do so.

livelearndiee · 2015-12-03T22:43:31+00:00

Yep, women will stay stuck on the convention that you have some life long obligation to be super nice just as guys do, and then once they let out their subconscious and natural instincts they may have a field day with it.

When I was very young, I was an orbiter for a while (I could have filled in the position of being a gay best friend), and not just that, mentally and physically weak. I'm sure she was disgusted inside but, yanno, "be nice be nice." Eventually she snapped, I'm sure drinking helped her out, kicked me to the curb, and became a slut for the alphas as the back of her head mind always yearned for.

EDIT: Missed an important point, before she kicked me to the curb there was a phase where we engaged in sexual activity for a while, we were under the influence when I was finally real with her about my desire, but I went on to disgust her even further with weak mentality after that. I just think it's important to mention that I might still have been an orbiter if we didn't start fucking.

MasterUm · 2015-12-04T01:13:37+00:00

WHUT.

Op you miss the point. You totally miss the freaking point. It is not a lie. She's not being lied to. It's been going on forever, "mother knows best" is as old as agriculture.

Females that are giving her the advise ARE LIKELY POST-WALL and for them provider/Beta traits are much, much more meaningful and attractive. They give their honest, best advice. Long-tern, rationally best. Any woman typing in front of her monitor, not seeing the Chad/Bob in question, will use her rational brain to dish out "stay with Bob!".

EXCEPT the behavior of the girl seeking the advice is not governed by that. She's exposed to Chads often, and at some point Bob will be replaced.

But also, yeah, she seems incredibly sheltered. Like, wtf, did she miss school or smth.

exit_sandman · 2015-12-04T10:12:36+00:00

Woman don't understand why they are/aren't attracted to people.

Well, this particular girl does understand why she isn't attracted to him anymore, she just has a bad conscience about it because she thinks she shouldn't be losing her attraction.

Though you're right, this is the fault of society because it constantly tells everyone how they have to feel and behave in order to be "good people^TM ".

anooblol · 2015-12-04T04:39:00+00:00

Yes women are raised to be princesses and to be catered to by men. They don't realize how riding the CC in her 20s will make her unattractive as a long term mate to an alpha until the only man who will commit to her is beta bob.

She thinks beta bob will make her happy because he has money, can take her on trips and is a guy who can raise her kid and send him/her to college. What she also doesn't realize is that beta bob isn't as exciting as chad Thundercock was.

She is supposed to outgrow this right? Doesn't happen. Just like men don't stop being attracted to young beautiful Brittany. Our biology will always rule over the bs story society tells people. Yet society will continue to tell the story because people won't know better unless elitist stop making money from the traditionalist way.

Women are told to be independent and powerful women. They don't know that they aren't capable of making rational and logical decisions that coincide with what's best for them in finding a mate long term. Just like men are taught to be "nice" and to cater to women.

When really the opposite stories are the most useful for the genders. Men should be the independent thinkers and the women should be the ones catering to men's needs.

We are the ones who are building civilization and putting people on the moon. Women are the ones making the babies and nurturing the men after hard days work.

Feminism and society (white knights and plugged in blue pillers) have got it all backwards and twisted. My question is why don't we see that it doesn't work? It never has and it never will.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-12-04T04:48:44+00:00

Society is leading this woman in the wrong direction. Eventually, we all know what's going to happen. She'll stay in the relationship for a while longer, eventually find some Chad who gives her the tingles. And then somehow rationalize the fact that she should cheat on him, and then go ahead and cheat. She doesn't "want" to cheat on him, but she will end up finding it impossible not to. This is the result of women staying in the BP world.

It will "just happen," and of course when it comes right down to it, if he cheats, it's his fault for being a dog. When SHE cheats, it's his fault too. For just not being attractive anymore.

nastynomad · 2015-12-03T23:49:36+00:00

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Title	Women are mislead by society, just like blue pill beta bob.
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Date	December 3, 2015 9:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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