I just wanna say I feel so so sad that so many of y’all feel that the only way to be happy with your life is to go your own way! Everyone deserves to love and be loved and I’m sorry that you have stoped believing that! I think there is a perfect person for everyone and maybe you just haven’t found her yet! I know you have been hurt in the past but that doesn’t mean all women are bad. There are a lot of single women out there just waiting for the right person and that could be you but you’ll never know because you have cut yourselves off from society. First and foremost you have to respect a women in order to be respected back. Women don’t just exist as sexual objects for men and if y’all truly believe that is a women’s sole purpose for existence then you should go your own way because no woman should ever be with a man who would treat them like they are objects. There are shitty women and shitty men out there but there are also a lot of good women and men out there but once you stop believing that you close yourself off from ever finding that!! So please don’t lose hope! You have to be the best version of yourself to find the best person for yourself. And when you’re not happy with yourself you can’t be happy with someone else. I think a lot of y’all just need to learn to love yourself and believe that someone out there is capable of loving you. Idk why I felt the need to say all that and I’m sure a lot of y’all won’t even care because your hearts are so hardened by woman who have hurt you but I just want y’all to know we’re not all bad and I hope this gets through to some of you! Have a wonderful day! :)