I was a slave to my sexual drive for many years, and that slavery put me in many silly situations and diverted my energy from more valuable pursuits. I realise that if it was not for sex I would've had far fewer interactions with women, as beyond sex most of those women and I did not have much in common. Don't get me wrong I do have good female friends now, but those platonic bonds are built on true substance with no sexual desire on my behalf.
It seems silly now looking back on it, that such a base desire exercised such control over me, but hindsight is 20/20. I think I needed to be as promiscuous as I was to get it out of my system and exhaust that desire. I no longer consume pornography, masturbate very infrequently, and have no desire for casual sex. I still appreciate the beauty of the female form when I see it, as I would appreciate the beauty of nature in general, but it doesn't have the same magnetic pull on me.
So my humble advice to my fellow MGTOW, find some way to master your desires. Best not to allow women to control you with their sexuality and the way they beautify and ornamentalise their selves on any level. If you are inexperienced with women and are frustrated by that, get out there experience them; if you want easy sex, employ the services of a reputable and non-coerced sex worker(s); exhaust your desire for sex, sexual novelty etc.; just don't lose your manners or good character in the process, or get addicted in the process (easier said than done).
TL;DR: Whatever it is, whatever your way, be the master of your lusts. I feel this is extremely important, as in the arena of sexuality women often and easily disarm men.
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