First time posting my thoughts don't know the format but I had thought or feeling that I had to share with my fellow redpillers. I realize anger can be a good thing it helps with improving yourself whether it's working out or just trying to change oneself. However for a man to truly be happy one must get over your anger. It's a process that just happens if you give it time. I got over my anger by committing to something I loved to do which was salsa dancing. At first I just went out and drank and danced which was fun but I just did it because of the anger I felt for my failed relationship. My success with woman was hit or miss which contributed to my anger a little. It wasn't until I completely committed myself to learning how to salsa dance that my anger finally went away I replaced my anger with something much better happiness and hope. Now my interactions with people are on a totally different level, when I dance now woman come to me and when I do ask someone to dance it doesn't matter her age or her looks I do it for the joy of it. I think that finally letting go of my anger and replacing it with something positive has led me to this point of my life where I'm truly happy for the first time. Now I do prescribe to Red Pill commandments I work out regularly and I'm in better shape than I was in high school, I also read and try to improve every aspect of my life. But it wasn't till I committed myself to something I enjoy doing that my life truly changed. I'm about to turn 36 and this is the first time I felt truly happy. So I am posting this because this subreddit has helped me on my journey and I hope I was able to pay it forward with my first ever post!