what would you suggest to a 16 years old going his own way?

IvanMrb · 2019-02-08T19:49:38+00:00

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advanced_banter · 2019-02-08T19:52:52+00:00

Enjoy yourself! Just whatever you do, do not get a woman pregnant

tramese · 2019-02-08T19:57:37+00:00

Money + Health = Freedom

Older_Miggy · 2019-02-08T19:56:21+00:00

Never let anyone talk you out of it. Plenty will try.

No1Buck · 2019-02-08T19:48:07+00:00

Start lifting now. Start shoveling money into investments ASAP. Get a vasectomy ASAP. Don't major in something worthless. Don't get married.

DK-Growth · 2019-02-08T19:59:22+00:00

Get a gym membership. I started lifting at 15-16 too, went hardcore with lifting 4-5 days a week and high protein diet for the past 3 years, am 19 now 6”4 220 pounds lean, feels so good to be physically better looking and much much stronget than 99% of the male population. Secondly start reading books (business, self improvement, philosophy, etc) Lastly try to start a business young. Good luck. When I was 16 I was depressed as fuck, now I’m doing better than everyone around me, just discipline yourself and stay consistent.

username----------- · 2019-02-08T20:02:17+00:00

Non mi aspettavo un altro italiano, io ho 17 anni e anche se sono mgtow è piuttosto difficile ultimamente combattere contro la mia biologia, sono molto tentato dalle ragazze e ho l’istinto di proteggerle, molto difficile da combattere

IvanMrb · 2019-02-08T23:35:25+00:00

I don't know how conservative of an Italian you are, but I know that a lot of Italians have the same family based Latin Catholic values that we hispanos do. So I'd suggest that you don't compromise yourself in favor of those values, since the time to embrace them was killed when feminism came in full effect. Make your mission in life your priority, don't ever make a woman your priority. Even if you find a decent girl, remember that she's not yours, it's just your turn.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-02-08T22:40:45+00:00

Do not pay attention to the morons you're going to see obsessed with social status. Work on yourself. Work hard and do things you are passionate about.

Don't ever get sucked into blue pill life if you do decide to date. Always remember they don't love you they love what you can do.

Good luck and have fun doing what you want to do.

Liburnian · 2019-02-09T07:18:32+00:00

At 43 I'd advise you not to emulate bitterness of older red pilled men, we've been through shit and you still haven't. Nothing wrong with that, it's just life. Work to establish yourself to the fullest potential, don't go chasing girls with no vision in life and no money to show her a good time. Yes, sometimes it costs money too, it's not all sex. The older you get the more this will be the case. Have in mind, no matter how well a girl maybe glued to you, she'll drift away some day for someone else. Don't get too attached and needy, but apreciate her time for what it is if she treats you right. Especially if she breaks up with you fair a square. That's rare. Work to be a well measured person, not easy in this world out of ballance in so many ways... but such personality trait will benefit you grately in life. Excessive devotion or excessive animosity will do you no good. Doesn't matter how justified your circumstances and reasons are, man's destiny is to be a ship at sea on a windy day. Know where you are sailing, then some winds will actually work for you.

Emervila · 2019-02-08T20:07:54+00:00

Sports like football or any other that involves a lot of people, being in a team is better than just things like tennis also enjoy video games...

You seem christian, I recommend you theist philosophy that will help you understand a lot of things. I, myself, reading John Lennox's books, he's by far one the best.

StupidDebate · 2019-02-08T20:48:38+00:00

Get a mountain bike

Crackhouseee · 2019-02-08T20:55:12+00:00

Have fun and set goals, I became who I am today by making mistakes. No such thing as a cheat book to life, only good advice.

IvanMrb · 2019-02-08T21:29:01+00:00

All I would say to my younger self is to drink protein shakes. They taste as good as chocolate milk, but they are filling and do not cause blood sugar crashes. I would also switch from coffee to caffeine pills because the pills have no sugar and do not cause a crash.

It took decades to realize sugar was fucking up so many things. School would have been a lot easier if I knew about protein shakes.

edit: you make the shakes in a blender from protein powder and milk. Do not buy pre-made stuff since that would cost 10x as much.

MonkModeKhan · 2019-02-08T23:14:01+00:00

Start lifting and working out, even if it’s only a little bit. Everyone starts somewhere. Do not concern yourself with other people’s opinions. Your peers change their minds, are inconsistent, do not think rationally, and are quick to judge you and cast you out. Do not put all of your faith in them, whether they’re friends or girlfriends, but still enjoy their company.

Get some experience with girls while you are young, but use your red pill knowledge in all instances.

thottttttttttttt · 2019-02-08T23:18:43+00:00

Go get laid just for the experience, it really ain’t that special and it’s quite overrated but you have to realize that first hand.

IvanMrb · 2019-02-09T00:16:14+00:00

The money you invest between the age you are now and the age of 30 will matter far more than any money you save from 30 on up. Invest every spare cent you possibly can. If you're thinking about spending money on some luxury you don't need, ask yourself if you wouldn't really rather see that money multiply many times over in an Index fund or 401K by the time you reach retirement age. It's worth sleeping on a beanbag or riding a bike instead of a car in the long run. It really is.

You will also notice that this advice fits perfectly with your decision to go your own way. If you examine the lifestyle behaviors of the people who are antithetical to our viewpoints, they're all about spending lavish amounts of money nearly constantly, either as a form of escapism or social validation. Look at the bar scene and the other hobbies of the bluepilled, and say no more. Let them keep all those temporary false positives. You're going to set yourself up for a happy and healthy retirement, my friend, and you're going to be better off in the long run.

ThrowThrowThrone · 2019-02-09T00:46:22+00:00

I would suggest you're probably not ready for the lifelong commitment, so don't beat yourself up too bad when you "fail" and get into a relationship or two. Just learn from them and eventually you'll be back. We'll be here.

IvanMrb · 2019-02-09T02:11:22+00:00

I suggest you don't get addicted to sex. At that age it is best to practice abstinence. Once you have sex. Well, sex is basically the weapon that a woman uses against you for the rest of your life. Protect your mind by not exposing yourself.

If you are from a divorced family. It is highly likely that you also will divorce. Seriously consideration should be given to getting the vasectomy or else your love for your child could be used as a weapon against you for 18 years. You will be extorted, attempted force suicided, and also a motion will be filed in court in conjunction with your happiness to sabotage you.

IvanMrb · 2019-02-09T02:46:28+00:00

Learn how to deadlift. Especially heavy deadlifts, go after a decent 315lb deadlift(3 45lb plates both sides.)....but build up slowly. Start having cold showers everyday to build a Iron Will and discipline. I would say sleep around a bit. You need to experience pussy enough to know it’s not all that great. But be careful. Write a list of things you will not tolerate from women. If they do one of those things break up with her and end it no matter how you feel. Realize a mans brain matures in his middle to late 20s so don’t be hard on yourself.... And lastly. Find what your heroes journey is and go after it, and don’t give a shit about what gets in your way.

IvanMrb · 2019-02-09T07:02:11+00:00

Learn a skilled trade like knowing how to fix stuff around the house or a car. I have suggested learning how to be a machinist, you would be surprise how much machining work is really needed in the world.

eightgaydiamonds · 2019-02-09T10:54:57+00:00

Learn about money

Title	what would you suggest to a 16 years old going his own way?
Author	IvanMrb
Upvotes	33
Comments	58
Date	February 8, 2019 7:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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