At the beginning of the post, sorry for my bad English. A girl and i have known each other for more than 6 years and we have common things remarkably. Lately she's got her job so we are completely ready to get married in terms of both mentally and circumstances. Although we have been always friends and never seen each other before. We've been friends only on social media. Yeah it's idiotic i know but we haven't been close before.

Now she moved to a city very close of mine and said this is the nearest moment we have, why don't you visit me? She had asked this question a few times before but I'm a mgtow member so i didn't give a shit about that :) actually I didn't know about mgtow but when i learned about it i realized my lifestyle was already like this. I mean I'm a man who goes his own way all the time. But this girl is not a regular one for me. She's always been nice to me. And i will go to see her soon and will decide about our future and i guess it most likely will be positive.

I'm an average guy in terms of looking and economic situation so is she. I was thinking of marriage seriously but when I've started to read and see some of the posts on this community and witnessed to some people's experiences on the reddit, my decision has started to get blurred and i started to scare of marriage. My question is do we have to always stay away from women? Does it really have to end in a bad scenario? What should I do now? Thanks for your precious ideas.