I still feel sexually attracted to women (thank God for testosterone!), but have unlocked the code of their power. Between Red Pill knowledge and a decent list of past sexual relationships, I've come to the understandable conclusion in asking myself:

"Why even date, when I know what's coming?"

Here's the predictable pattern:

1.) We date and start having sex

2.) We decide to be monogamous (I prefer monogamy and steady sex with the same woman)

3.) You tell her you're not into marriage. She says she's "ok" with not being married.

Sounds pretty sweet, doesn't it? Your getting steady poon and she's so behaviorally loving you feel like you've hit the sexual lottery. "Thank God the dry spell's over" you tell yourself.

The problem is that first 3 to 6 months of hot sex and loving behavior she's dishing out can affect us much more than we want to admit. We start to have feelings for her, to care about her. Her sweet behavior will convince you she cares about you too. But, alas, intimate bliss that you've been craving is temporary. It might take 6 months, a year or two or more, but make no mistake, they're all (women) eventually going to throw down the gauntlet...

"where's this relationship going," she asks?

You remind her, "hey, you said you were "ok" with not being married."

She retorts, "that was then, I FEEL different NOW."

So now you're fucked. Damned if you do (Marry her), damned if you don't (don't marry her and she walks).

You tell her you can't marry her. So now, your "turn" is over...adios amigo...hit the road Jack. She's moving on to greener pastures.

You try to act tough, but can't run from the harsh truth: All you invested; your time, your effort, your money, and yes, your heart brought you to this:

Painful loss.

So, after this painfully predictable loss, you ask yourself, do I:

1.) Date women but don't stay with them for any length of time? (hit and run). (If you're an "average" guy, you know what a relentless drag it is just getting women to give you their number--let alone getting them to bed)

or,

2.)* Have another monogamous sexual relationship, knowing she's eventually going to drop the marriage A-Bomb?

or,

3.) Spend my time and energy on taking care of myself: my body, my finances, my hobbies and enjoy life to the fullest--under the circumstances. (If I get really horny, I'll simply rub one out to a little porn, or, if needed pay for sex from a pro (the money saved from not dating will easily pay for this).

These days, I prefer #3.

I don't date women any more because I love* them.