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So I read all the comments on my last post and even after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was doubting if I made the right decesion. I wasn't going to update because I didn't see a reason to do it, but after the the last couple days I came to a final conclusion.I want to clarify that I broke up with my girlfriend because of how easy it was for her to disrespect me behind my back, not because of the actual height difference.
After I broke up with her she continued to apologize to me. She would send me letters and call me a lot. In one of the texts I actually responded to, she asked if we could meet up and talk. Without going into to much detail, she wanted a second chance and overall sounded very remorseful. I was about to agree, but something she said made me realize I would be making a mistake if I did. She said, "I'll remember to respect from now on." That sentence made me realize that I made the right choice by breaking up. Since when do you have to be reminded to have the bare minimum of respect for your partner?
Either way I'm glad I didn't give her a second chance. I don't know if any of you care at this point, but there's the update.
On a sidenote, the other day I was hanging out with one of my female friends who happens to be taller and I guess she saw us and started texting me that "she doesn't need me," started saying that my friend was a pig and that I moved on to fast. Blocked her and had a laugh I know for a fact I made the right choice.
[–][deleted] 48 points49 points50 points (0 children) | Copy Link
All that means is “I’ll keep talking about you but not when you can hear me”. Glad he saw through her BS.
[–]kayfab36 points37 points38 points (7 children) | Copy Link
I had back pain in 2007 my ex cunt bitch girlfriend told me that she was not going to date an handicap man all her life, in 2009 i had a burnout from work she asked me how i was gonna pay the bills...
In 2008 she had a panic attack i waited at the hospital 14h with her, she lost her job in 2011 i supported her...
In 2006 when my father died of colon cancer i went to the hospital i had stomach pain she told me i am not gonna waste my day with you go alone....
This is what good men do for women and how those cunt bitch repay us....
[–]PipBoyTInkerer15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Briffault's Law. Sorry you went through that, brother.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Well what did you expect? Friends are always there for you on hard times, just as you are for them. Can women be friends? I don't think so.
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[–]kayfab4 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
problem with men is that we think its gonna get better with time, and we just accept those cunts as they are its normal in a couple that one love more then the other etc....
But its not....i am glad she left she was a serious pain in the ass.
Back in 2009 i had met another girl that drove me nuts she was amazing we had everything in common but yet i stay with my ex bitch cunt girlfriend, i was faithful etc... but when the time came for her to cheat and dump me she did not care about the house we had or nothing...
[–]hrm08941 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Brother, don't be fooled--this is typical chameleon behavior.
[–]kayfab1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I know this was a long time ago 2009 but its just to say that when i was with her i felt good we laugh etc had a lot in common compared to my selfish cunt ex girlfriend and i was faithful and never cheated nor dumped her for that girl.
[–]hrm08940 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That's just how it goes. You live and you learn! You're a free man now, and that's all that matters!
[–]strainer12324 points25 points26 points (3 children) | Copy Link
I dated this girl who would constantly remark to me how she usually dated men that were way taller than me, she was inferring I wasn't tall enough in between the lines, it was so obvious and it kinda got to me after a while, after repeating the same stupid thing, I broke up with her, I knew what was coming, she would just throw herself at the first taller guy that flirted with her.
[–]madethewrongmistake8 points9 points10 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Shit test. You need to get aggressive about that at the first sign of it. E.g. “oh really, well how about you get the fuck out of my face and go find somebody else that want to put up with you”. Then silence. Don’t leave. Ignore. They have to leave. They won’t. It’s not MGTOW to own her like that, but you wouldn’t be there if if you were either.
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Too bad most men have been conditioned to be docile in the face of women's disrespect, or else you're labeled as "oversensitive" or "insecure." When it comes to height especially, they'll say you have a napoleon complex if you don't tolerate this kind of bullshit (but women are of course allowed to get mad if you talk about their weight).
I'm glad more men are refusing to budge so easily, despite how we've been trained by society. You know, lines like "happy wife happy life" aka "just blindly go along with whatever milady does."
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Yes it is a shit test no doubt. I hate shit tests. Not because of what they are, cause it's natural for them to do that, but because the odds are against men. And they do it in places and times that are not appropriate. Like at work doing business or the grocery store, etc.
[–]realChebz25 points26 points27 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad to see a happy ending. Let's hope he stays by his decision and doesn't "feel lonely" one evening and get back with her. The only thing wrong with that post is commenters calling her "shallow". She's just a typical female who wants her alpha Chad - tall and handsome. But she's afraid she wont do better at this point being a midget herself, hence all the begging and apologizing.
She's just like every other woman out there really. Calling her shallow is akin to calling your dog "stupid" for not being able to play chess.
[–]miscanonta12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Unlike yesterday's post about that psthetic simp whose wife cheated on him after drinking too much alcohol and he still forgave her, this guy is smart and has enough self respect for himself to leave her.
Still though, he had to explain in the edit that it was more than a joke about his height and that's why he had to leave her. Fuck that. Joke or not, the have been together so long, and then laughing about his height constitutes a harmless joke? Fuck those commenters who forced him to give him that explanation. He doesn't need to defend himself one bit here.
[–]Frog_g11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Pack her stuff and tell her you've had it up to here with her.
[–]PipBoyTInkerer8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Her taller branch wasn't ready to grab yet, which explains her wanting to get back together and "remembering to respect" him... long enough to secure the branch that is.
[–]Cfaraway1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done.
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
My fiance knows to respect me at all costs, actually take that back, my fiance WANTS to respect me at all costs.
What kind of woman wants to be with someone they don't respect?
A woman who wants a reason to complain for the rest of her life.
Mine looks at me almost daily, saying how happy she is to have met me and the life I am helping create for us.
Chose better
[–]AlchemistEmerges2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Beware Greeks bearing gifts.
[–]Malefics0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a load of this clown