And an autistic MALE specifically

For starters, as an autistic person most authority figures will definitely go on a power trip or a disciplining rampage out of nowhere on you

2nd, if you're bullied good luck trusting anti bullying programs and advocates to speak on you, you're just gonna have to deal with the consequence of over-expecting or lower standards

3rd, the moment most people get a clue you're in the special education department, you're done for. Get ready to deal with tons of dehumanizing language, rejection and marginalization in school and other social circles. Yes, even when you act your most mature be prepared for a lot of marginalization and questioning. This is why I hate the over-praise the pros and positives of being autistic always get.

At least if a woman is raped she has plenty of institutions and resources that would be willing to take action

If you're autistic, it will take a hate crime for people to start stepping in