Hey eveyone. I'm 20 years old. I just got out of a five year relationship with a high school crush that went so well I actually planned to marry her and start a family. It was the tradcon dream. What stopped that from happening? I didn't like random guys dicks in her. You see, we both agreed to save our virginity for each other, that went out the fucking window a month into college. A fucking month and one party is all it took. So that plan was thrown out, I was destroyed and alone for the first time since I was 14. I rebuilt myself but I can't figure out what to do about sex and relationships.
I thought about one night stands, but that would just be supporting the thing I see as a problem. It would also be hypocritical to do that when I got mad at my ex for doing it. I would also need to dedicate a ton of my time, and money, into seducing girls which doesn't seem worth it to me. But I also thought, laws aren't for men, they are against us, most of society is against us, getting into a relationship nowadays is a death sentence because they can change their mind on a dime and take everything from you. You can give them everything, deal with all their issues, spend so much time working on the relationship, and they can throw it away and forget about it the second they see an attractive dude. Women as we know have zero self control and will try to fuck them. You can't be better than every dude on earth, someone will be better than you and all it takes is her to find him. Then I thought, ok, what about a women who sells sex? I could go to vegas or something. That could work later when I'm more financially stable but it will be pretty costly on my end and doesn't solve the problem of me being sexually frustrated right now. Which could cause me to women but also have zero idea what I want. It would fulfill my curiosity about sex but I feel like it would leave me feeling empty in the end, much like porn did.
What do you guys suggest I do? I see relationships as suicidal time/money pits and hookup culture as degenerate and over all destructive to society. Should I try to go monk mode? Anyone here done that in their early 20s?
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