Now that PewDiePie and The Rock got married, it made me remember something from my marriage.

When I was married, the ex would always tell me what I'm "supposed to do". That all of a sudden "I'm supposed to" know things about her that I didn't. Or that "You're supposed to" be aware of her every move. It always used to frustrate (beta) me because these things were all used against me when I was married. Me being beta at the time couldn't fight back cause it made me feel bad about myself. Before marriage though, none of these "supposed to" things existed and I was accepted as is.

Now with these guys that I love getting married, I feel it just opens them to this kind of emotional harassment. Probably not now, but after a few years these will be the centre of every argument.