[LOL: the Wall is Real] Should I [28F] feel concerned that most of the men I date seem eager and almost determined to have sex, but not to necessarily date me?

DavisR001 · 2019-08-19T02:21:18+00:00

Women created the hookup culture, n now they dont like it. Shocking.

FlyGuwop · 2019-08-19T02:20:42+00:00

She’s finding out she’s only good for 1 thing

DangZagnut · 2019-08-19T02:39:15+00:00

But I want him to spend money on me and give nothing in return.

52-75-73-74-79 · 2019-08-19T03:22:54+00:00

How good is the guarantee that she spent her early 20s doing the exact same shit to dudes and now doesn’t like it because the shoe is on the other foot

mrk68 · 2019-08-19T02:37:50+00:00

I know a guy who I’d say is top 10% in my city’s dating pool. Right now he has (5) different women he hooks up with regularly, but that number increases around the holidays. He is a live example of redpill. Why would he ever try and actually “date” women if they drop their panties after a few minutes of conversation? Its what happens when 100 women chase after the same 10 men. The women become worth a dime a dozen to him and they have to start sucking quickly just to keep his attention. Women have created their own dating mess with hypergamy and technology.

OldRoad · 2019-08-19T04:06:10+00:00

I think that the men and women in the dating world evolve in behavior, in a way, based on their experiences in the dating world.

For example, when I tried to date, I tried to be one of the nicest guys in the world. I thought that that was what women wanted, and that that would make women more likely to date me. Plus, I wasn't acting -- I also thought that it was just plain a good thing to be a nice guy.

I really didn't have much success with dating for how much I tried -- I just had a small number of romantic relationships. So, by itself anyway, if being a nice guy has any effect on helping one with dating, it's not a very big effect, from my experiences.

So, I think that's what the woman in the original post is seeing the effects of. I believe that, over time, if there is no significant reward in dating for being a nice person, then fewer people are going to focus on that, with their efforts in dating. If women choose men for dating for other reasons, then probably, sooner or later, guys are going to pick up on that, and that will be their focus if they want to date. If people want this to change, then they have to change whom they reward by choosing to date them.

Captain_REEcard · 2019-08-19T06:05:03+00:00

She's probably picking the wrong guys to give a chance to. She's attracted to the ones that just want to fuck. The ones that would wife her first, she's not attracted to them. They're not alpha enough.

I've seen it so many times by now, it's not even funny anymore. Sorry about her troubles (not sorry), but my advice to her would be to buy cat food and enjoy the decline like the rest of us, lady.

[deleted] · 2019-08-19T15:17:26+00:00

I wouldn't even invest two dates in her. If she isn't sucking or fucking the first night, then she's to the bottom of the list.

If You Play The Game: The interesting thing is that women have devalued their pussy, which is their most valuable asset, and began pursuing only the top 20% men. If you're in the top 20% of men, then there's no reason not to spin plates and have a rotation of hookups. The thots riding the CC give it away for free, so why would I pay for something that I can get for free? Their is no incentive to give your time or resources to a woman: none. Pump and dump. She's complaining? Replace her. Wants to date? Nope. Only do things that bring you value.

edgysecularist · 2019-08-19T22:50:50+00:00

THOT just wants other people's money

Hellse · 2019-08-19T23:52:53+00:00

In the comments OP there admits to using OLD.

LOL no wonder all you're finding is dudes that wanna smash you dumb whore.

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