Allot of RP advice requires you to be "bulletproof" and to never take things personally. How exactly?

LongSchlongAIDS · 2017-02-20T15:34:09+00:00

First, there is an ask trp for questions.

I'll answer this anyway. To not be fazed by things requires you to not take life so seriously. Detach your identity from physical things or ideologies so when they're attacked you don't take it as an attack on you personally. Also, anything out of your control shouldn't piss you off because there is nothing you can do about it.

If the girl bumps into your keep walking. She probably wasn't paying attention. If she pushes you on purpose joke about it. "Hey next time I got to charge you. Touching the merchandise ain't free."

Shiva-Lingam · 2017-02-20T11:20:43+00:00

If you let small things like that get to you, you're definitely not alpha, you're not even trying to be alpha, you're not even beta, not even omega - there isn't a word yet to describe it.

Just let it go. In modern society it's hard to be 100% alpha 100% of the time as sooner or later you meet people who might want to "challenge" your alpha status. Even a 6'2" bodybuilder and martial artist I knew had his fair share of idiots who weren't scared and wanted to mess with him.

Just try to be the best you can (both in general and alpha-wise) and improve on that daily - at some point there will be less people challenging you and you might know how to deal with most of them, but it never really stops.

privacythrowaway2003 · 2017-02-20T15:04:55+00:00

Girl catches you off-guard when you're not in "gaming" mode. Physically pushes you as you walk by, you feel a little offended. What do you do to cope with this growing anger? Get more angry and let it snowball?

Why is this your example?

I have literally never had a female try to physically push me other than little playful shit, in which case I warn them once that I will hold them down and tickle the shit outta them if they continue. They always continue

Sounds like you just need to find some ways to deal with your anger, rather than fantasizing about the next time a chick pushes you.

desno · 2017-02-20T15:06:01+00:00

Abundance.

If you have abundance, you won't care if some chick curves you because you have so many other plates in line

yomo86 · 2017-02-20T16:17:40+00:00

No one is fully 'alpha'. That term is just a buzzword for a concept. Several users of this forum will handle issues regarding money, women, power etc. more wisely than I will.

However, what makes you a man is your steadfastness, your view on the world.

We can teach you the ropes, but how you climb them is up to you. Yes, sometimes women can be annoying, can catch you off-guard. This happens. I don't over-think it. If she acts against my principles, I will say something - stoically. If it happens again. I will hand out consequences, beta or not. A pimp is never considered 'beta' if he is nice, childishly angry or aggressive when he has a strong hand on his hoes and enemies and keeps problems at bay.

Imagine Chad in a relationship. Jane is giving him the 'silent treatment'. Chad will ask her once, maybe twice what's wrong - that is perhaps considered 'beta' by some. But remember if he does not get his dick wet, he will have other 'tang by the end of the week.

Instead of being water, adapting to all kinds of changes, be the fucking rock.

[deleted] · 2017-02-20T15:44:57+00:00

Therapy. I'm serious. See a psychologist and have them help you with any anger issues or anything else you're coping with. It can be a life changer.

favours_of_the_moon · 2017-02-20T16:53:15+00:00

If she can access your Lizard Brain, YOU LOSE. And she always wants to win.

Title	Allot of RP advice requires you to be "bulletproof" and to never take things personally. How exactly?
Author	deepfatthinker92
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Comments	13
Date	February 20, 2017 10:48 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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