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what the cuck did i just read
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 12:50 PM
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the same WSJ that called pewdiepie a neo nazi?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 08:02 PM
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I know what Floyd means. As a person whos boxed before. When you feel at the peak of your reflexes, skills, stamina and strength it's a wonderful
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:31 PM
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ah yes jordan peterson talks about the shadow quite a bit too. Obviously he's very heavily influenced by Jung. I may have to pick up some copies of Jung's work. I'll add this as food for thought. I'm butchering jp here: He said something along the lines of "There is no morality for the weak. They have no choice. True morality is when you know all the evils and powers you contain and are capable of but choose not to use it. Like a sheathed sword"
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:28 PM
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top notch post dude. Seems like the active effort to prevent the degredation of content is working
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:19 PM
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I used to think that about philosophy but the deeper I look into, the more it seems to make sense
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:16 PM
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I chose a good day to poke my head in here. Just the affirmations to keep me going.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:11 PM
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The best I can think of is go out clubbing with a few of them Why clubbing? Why not meet during the day at starbucks or for a stroll in the park? If they have their own place then you go to theirs. It's as simple as that. Maybe im missing something but it seems like you're making it harder than it needs to be?
/r/askTRP08/10/17 05:33 PM
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need to give some more information than that if you want advice
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:41 PM
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with more muscle, your metabolism will increase, and hence you will burn more fat. Like /u/vandaalen said, do stronglifts 5x5. I'll be slighter kinder and expand on his advice. You said it yourself, you are fucking weak. It's embarrassing that you can barely do a push up. Eating on such a deficit will inhibit your strength gains. Your priority right now is to first get stronger. A simple way is to learn the correct form for squats, bench press, deadlifts, overhead press and barbell rows. Learn t…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:04 PM
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Good mentality to have. Stay away from danger as much as possible but if confronted by it with no way out, you still have some chance to get out of that situation unscathed.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 09:07 PM
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I still think he needs to read the book first before confirming these truths. Observing this will just make him mad at this point. No way should me quit reading. Sure, reading walls of stuff off the internet (yes, most people here probably spend too much time in this sub rather than getting on with their life) is a waste but reading some classic literature or some real interesting non fiction can only serve a man well in becoming "cultured" among a whole host of other benefits.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:01 PM
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I know I could probably just fuck her and gtfo but I don't want those rumors going around lol. Those rumours only enhance your pre selection tbh
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:31 PM
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you're holding onto to blue pill fantasies still. Read The Rational Male and truly understand the power in spinning plates. Once you do you will likely get past this phase
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:30 PM
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you have more patience than i do is all I will say
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:28 PM
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not eating enough lifting too much too quickly not using proper form not having a planned workout routine not stretching enough focusing too much on chest and arms, avoiding leg and back workouts. not being consistent in frequently doing these workouts
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:26 PM
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there are some awesome bite sized youtube videos about stoicism. Also, when it comes to books, the ramblings of Marcus Aurelius in the form of Meditations is seen as a go to.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:22 PM
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I would say listen carefully to what the endorsed members (ones with the flairs) have to say. After reading the progression, it looks like she will indeed hold it against you. At the very least she will use this to control you in certain ways. Be very careful.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:20 PM
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No porn for you buddy. I would recommend no fap hard mode until the end of the year. No looking at porn, no masturbating. Only orgasms you can have are induced by your plates.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:35 PM
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Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:20 PM
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Take it as a compliment. If someone's saying bad things about you, you must be doing something right for them to be jealous about
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:18 PM
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Dance classes. Partner Dancing to be more precise. Maybe Salsa or Bachata or any other one you like the look of the most. I can't recommend this enough. But do it, initially, just to learn the dance. I've been doing this for 3 months, intentionally not trying to sleep with anyone, just going to dance class, enjoying the dance, and having a laugh with some hot (not always though lol) women. It also could possibly help with approaching. After these classes there's usually a social and being the ma…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:16 PM
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I'm putting myself in your situation. As in what would I do? So here's what I think I would do. First yes, I would feel like a piece of shit. You know you're better than this. If the drink is to blame, then stop drinking, at least temporarily, and if you decide to start again, know your limits! There's always the option to quit. I would think long and hard about this. Now that you've dealt with yourself, time to deal with others. Wait for your GF to message you and see how that goes. You have to…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:58 PM
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Just by reading the title I KNOW you have to move on.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:45 PM
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Every woman is different, Every woman is the same. This line hit me hard. It all just clicks especially if you've read the sidebar. It could be a mantra up there with "She's not yours, it's just your turn"
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:34 PM
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I havent been on here for a while, wasnt even planning on logging in but this looks almost as if I wrote (check my post history on whiny brown guys if you really want to) I couldnt agree more, and u/alphajatt that is an awesome username :P
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 11:52 PM
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"best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the 2nd best is today" There's already some good advice so I will generalise mine. It's all about discipline and consistency. Little but often. Don't expect to move mountains day one. Just do a bit every day and you will get to the point where you look back and realise how much you've changed. This takes many months, even years. You have to be in it for the long haul
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:49 PM
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if your skeleton is narrow they'll notice that you've an odd body, there's no bypassing yes, yes there is. As Frank Zane would say it's all an illusion. Basically, he would look at his silhouette and try to improve on that. For a man we know it is optimal to have the "V-taper" Or like you said, wide shoulders and narrow hips. To play into the illusion, one must first build their shoulders. Second would be to build back width. And third is to be low body fat to keep the waist narrow. Now in the g…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:06 PM
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a blow job
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:49 AM
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Whenever someone complains about their looks/insecurities. This link should be shared with a reply "So what's your excuse again?"
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:03 PM
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That way I see it is, like the old saying "Fake it til you make it". If you do this for long enough, you get used to it and it becomes who you are. I adopted this with clothes and other areas. Now I'm comfortable in those areas.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:13 PM
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It's uncanny how similar my response was going to be to this
/r/askTRP18/03/17 10:15 PM
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When she comes back tomorrow, invite her in to see the wood you have inside
/r/askTRP17/03/17 09:15 PM
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Ignore, she will probably come back to you
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:54 PM
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If you really want to know then check my post history. There's smatterings of the transformations I've made from an incel to decent success
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:52 PM
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ok that was funny haha
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:51 PM
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This phrased it so much better than I could
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:50 PM
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Ask them to hangout if thats what you want. Invite them out drinking if thats what you want. In conclusion, do what you want.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:30 AM
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It's a numbers game. Most will not get anywhere.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:29 AM
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If it's in the beginning? Not much. If she's in it for the long haul with you? Then yup it will affect her like anyone else. In this case you are her "Chad".
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:28 AM
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Every time I come on here I try to. There are a few others I see doing this too. Problem is, I can't be on here every 20 minutes to tell them to stop hiding behind that excuse.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:25 AM
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That's the link. Read the content fully. Make sure you use the correct form. Eat well. If you find it hard to gain weight, count calories and be consistant on this. If you still aren't gaining weight, add 500 calories to your daily intake. If you think it's impossible to gain weight, you're not eating enough. It's good for a beginner but you may find a lack of arm work, rear delt and vertical pulling work. I'd add dips and facepulls on bench day whilst adding pull ups to military press day. Pay …
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:24 AM
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lose weight, fat will melt off your face and you will be half decent looking i bet. Sort your teeth out too. Embrace the baldness. Stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:14 AM
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Walk up to them and say "hi my name is. Nice to meet you" and have a chat. This will be very uncomfortable. But that's you'd do it.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:12 AM
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Start lifting. I'd recommend stronglifts 5x5 Sort your wardrobe out. Wear better fitting clothing. I'm guessing you're an awkward fuck if you can't make friends. Im sure there's resources here to help you on that. Sorry can't help you on that, I never had a problem making guy friends. Leave the clubs for gaming, you can play with your gamer friends at home. Debate club seems beneficial so keep that up. Keep at one sport you enjoy the most. If you show passion and dedication, they will respect th…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:10 AM
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oh you
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:01 AM
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A few options. Easy one is to ignore it and text her when you next want to meet up. Other one is amused mastery sort by saying "lol waht" or something like that. Just dont go beta on it. This is a shit test
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:00 AM
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The next time you contact her is the next time you want to organise a fuck. Otherwise let her text you random bs "hi" messages. Text for logistics. It's that simple
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:57 AM
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First date was fair enough. When logistics are a problem then fair enough. But the 2nd date should have been an F-close. I will tell you this now. Taking her for a meal before you've fucked her is very beta. I would bail the meal and try one more time by inviting her over to yours or a local bar. Remember Plausible Deniability. Tell her to come over to "see my dog" or "I have to show you my many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany". If she resists just ignore and escalat…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:55 AM
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The odds are definitely against you. I'd avoid it for now, build some muscle and get visible abs (burn fat). Then take some new badass pictures. If you're not in the top 10% of men online you are as good as trash Well, imagine the scenario where every swipe is a match and half them send a message fairly rapidly and are dtf. It makes sense for them to filter out some people quite strictly along the way. That in itself is abundance mentality. The ability to leave at the drop of a hat. Should we al…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:48 AM
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How do you use your snapchat? I very rarely put up a story, I can see it could be handy but Im really not sure how to post regularly otherwise it would be pretty mundane like most of my friends snapchat stories
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:02 PM
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You give no details on your height/weight, how long you have been trying this stuff. Idk why I'm answering tbh. This should be on on asktrp. Maybe it triggers me when Indian men complain like this. (I'm British Indian).
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:22 PM
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Ask this on asktrp or fitness
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:26 PM
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jump into the rabbit hole completely. Read the sidebar in its entirety. TRP isn't easy, if it was, everyone would swallow it whole and not throw it back up.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:38 AM
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Seems like you know what to do, time to execute it! I'd also say that it's now when it counts the most to have some sort of routine. Make sure you dont skip gym. Make sure you're doing everything you say you will do. It's easy to do when you're motivated, But the ones who rise to the top are consistantly applying themselves even at moments they feel like they've hit rock bottom.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:33 AM
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breakup if you arent satisfied rather than cheating
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:30 AM
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Then again, you, I mean you TRP, are bitching about women who cheat. You talk about your ex wives, ex girlfriends who cheat on you. You blame women for lack of loyalty. Are you fucking kidding me? You are the ones who fuck them. You are the ones who create the problem. You let women cheat. Guess how? You escalate and fuck them. These people are usually at the anger phase, whilst those who rationalise making married women plates have passed this point and accept AWALT. Also, the world is cruel ba…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:29 AM
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All the post is good but this one bothers me. It gives a feel as if you think you're better than the "typical" Indians
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:21 PM
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Indian accent will hinder you. Try to reduce it or get rid of it as much as possible. Also, why would people think you're leeching off of them by just talking and being friendly? Apart from that advice is the same as for everyone else.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:19 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:12 PM
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Renting it is always a great way to have some sort of passive income
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:11 PM
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This. Anecdotally this happened to me. I was getting some attitude from this HB7, not major but she was a bit of a bitch. Well, an hour later I'd fucked her real good and we were hanging out with some other people afterwards and her attitude did a 180. She was actually kind of cute. Seeing those two sides of her fairly quickly showed me the mask these bitches hide behind. Bear in mind my friend had told me beforehand she's a major slut so she fits OP's description as well.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:07 PM
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would be better to also ask on the fitness forum. Also would be nice to give your stats and your routine. We aren't mind readers.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:00 PM
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You don't "make" someone fall in love with you. Attraction can't be negotiated. If she doesn't give you IOI's or she's rejected you. Move on. There's a few billion other women out there. if they were in my shoes and had no other choice They would create another choice. Why is there no other choice? This is your problem. And also, if you know it's the wrong mindset, fucking fix it you beta phaggot. Give her a reason to want you. Why would she want a guy the has to go through his friend to ask her…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:59 PM
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yes if you take minimalism to the extreme, you're wearing the same thing over and over. The way I like to think of it is being able to mix and match outfits like this video or this. Yes it's with formal outfits but just extrapolate that to whatever your style is.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:03 PM
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So long as you dont go overboard with eating lmao. If you're skinny then I wouldnt even worry about it.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:47 PM
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either this or just laugh at her as if you dont give a fuck cos you really dgaf. Depends on the context tbh
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:43 PM
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There was a post by an endorsed member a while back that said, if you got laid more then 10 times in your life, you are in the top 10%. He based this on answers given by men. This means there are a whole lot of men not getting laid. Sounds familiar but do you have a link to it? That is actually quite crazy to think that's top 10%.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:29 PM
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Its not that difficult to be a girls best. Meet them early, be in the top 20%, have the trp knowledge advantage and give them the dicking of a lifetime. You do this and they will be very eager to please you. Btw. Opting out because a girl can dump you at any moment is a really weak mindset. Shows how low self esteem and emotionally fragile he is too.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:18 PM
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Ok kiddo, im 22. 5"9 and 160lbs and 15%bf, just from your face i can tell you're about 20%bf. People generally think their bf% is lower than it actually is. You need to keep lifting (what is your program btw?) but lose the chubby cheeks and get a more defined jawline by losing fat. You will look so much better without acne. Also you have nice eyes btw (no homo) Haircut is ok i guess, but surely you can do better? For me personally, I always get a fade nowadays, thinking of getting a fade with a …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:54 AM
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Shouldn't have invited the new girl over. Two better options were, leave now and hit new girl up or stay and tell her you're busy. Tbh you handled it ok in the end. It may work in your favour with the new girl even. Bitches love drama.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:30 AM
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You need to eat a LOT more
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:18 PM
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siderbar ----------------->
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:27 PM
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Spin plates and you will soon come to accept it
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:24 PM
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It's even more true if you're on the skinny/"hardgainer" side because chances are you over estimate how much you eat. This should make you realise where you may be going wrong, but I'd start at 3k calories rather than going for that mammoth amount he eats. That's exactly how you become fat lmao. I also remember watching a video of JJ Watt saying he eats something like 12 eggs per day and around 9k calories. Granted he is a pro NFL player, trains stupidly hard and weighs nearly 300lbs. On anotehr…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:22 PM
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if you said that with conviction then that would be hilarious. A&A is always good
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:15 PM
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In essence, being an inadvertent asshole means having an opinion and not caring what she thinks about what you have to say
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:12 PM
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This was me in a nutshell. You get nowhere being modest. Being cocky naturally draws people to you. Your friends will be more interested in you. Some (both men and women) will even shit test you. It may even get you hated by some. But people having an opinion about you is better than them being indifferent towards you. That literally means you left no impression on them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:11 PM
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Abundance. If you have abundance, you won't care if some chick curves you because you have so many other plates in line
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:06 PM
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the last 6 months, I've been hitting the gym hard, but in december I began stalling. Start of January, I changed my diet around from not just "eat a lot" but to one with structure. Straight away my lifts were going up again. No stalling for 2 weeks to up the weight 2.5kg. Diet and sleep are such big players at work.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 03:04 PM
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maybe in india, but i know a few indian guys in western countries that go to india and find a young wife. All the younger generation of guys know these girls are like that so they just disregard them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:58 PM
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sounds like me haha. Having to drop subtle RP truths to my parents because they keep hinting at marriage.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:51 PM
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check out omarisuf on youtube for help on squat form and ankle mobility
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:18 AM
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This is all well and good but stoicism is not suppressing your emotions. Controlling them and suppressing them are two different things.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:19 AM
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get a power rack and you can do pullups on it plus get a dips attachment. For lat bar just focus on pullups. You dont need leg extension/butterfly extension. Squats and deadlifts are enough for now. Barbell training is the best place to start. Also eat a lot of whole foods. Eat some big meals, with a meat/protein source in each meal
/r/askTRP25/01/17 11:40 PM
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Find a few other girls to fuck
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:40 PM
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For upper body, do dips and pullups. For legs i'd start off with simple squats with some sort of progression to single leg squats. I'd also do hyperextensions for the back
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:21 PM
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Fair enough, it also depends on whether he's high bar or low bar squatting. But also, he did manage to get a 200kg+ squat from it
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:41 PM
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I agree with this. IRL this seems to be the case. Indian women seem to have a higher guard on them but with Tinder it's the complete opposite. I get way more matches with Indian women and they're way more receptive.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:38 PM
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Would you consider helping another guy? This is my test in whether to help.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:05 AM
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I tried this and they think I'm an ultra fuckboy all of a sudden lmao. Saying that, they do listen to what I have to say. I will say this though. If you do it, don't use any RP terminology. An example would be taking the line from 40 year old virgin "Dont put the pussy on the pedestal" and Feynman's "Treat women like whores".
/r/askTRP14/01/17 12:00 AM
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well ok then. Change has to come from within. Baby Steps. But I guess the easy way out would be to not even try to lose fat and build muscle, in the process improving your facial aesthetics by losing the double chin and getting a defined jawline
/r/askTRP13/01/17 11:54 PM
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I get this to some extent. It kind of takes me "out of the moment" which kills the mood for me a bit
/r/askTRP13/01/17 11:49 PM
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there is some truth in this seeing as Western standards of beauty permeate every corner of the globe, hence why if you go to india, there's an absolutely huge market to whiten the skin.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 11:45 PM
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In all honesty, the best mindset to have is abundance mentality. If you don't understand this concept, you really need to read through the side bar. But what it is, is imagine you had a choice of many women, you approach this current girl you're pursuing, how would you take it if you're rejected? Your ego may take a hit, but at the end of the day you have all those other women waiting for you so you shrug it off and move onto the next one. Now, this is easier said than done. It's hard to develop…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 11:42 PM
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What did you do exactly? Whine that they were bullying you? Or did you stand your ground and say ok that's enough, you've had your laugh and joke but now you're crossing the line. If they still give you shit then just spend less time with them and find other friends.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:45 PM
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Usually it's a mix of BJJ and Muay Thai with some wrestling/judo thrown in the mix. If you specifically want MMA, find an MMA gym. If you want boxing, find a boxing gym.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:36 PM
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My question is does this really matter? If so, how would you use that information to help you out?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:34 PM
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Overthinking it like crazy. Escalate and see what happens. If you get LJBF then you say "no thanks" and move on. That's literally all there is to it.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:31 PM
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I'm Indian and I don't even understand them.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 10:29 PM
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First of all, there is nothing wrong with squatting "too low" as long as your form is good. Look at Alan Thrall's old squat technique which got him lifting heavy weights. Second of all, if you change you form that drastically, then lower the weight! My guess is that you're body was used to ATG but you cut it short which put pressure on your knees because your glutes and hamstrings weren't engaged properly at the right time. But that's just a guess. This could help
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:20 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. It is all about sexual strategy
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:05 PM
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This reminds me of Al Pacino's speech in any given sunday. One inch at a time.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:47 AM
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David Attenborough to be precise
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:05 PM
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Your problem was that you focused on that one rather than working on having more options. I'm down to one plate at the moment. Ironically, I've paid her less attention now she's the only one because I'm aiming to add to the harem Well, u/Auvergnat put it better and more eloquently
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:28 AM
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By just reading the title I'd say yes. Just read the body, yes it's beta. Tell her to come over
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:33 AM
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As an Indian I endorse this message. But yeah, to all those bitches who claim it's so much harder for them. So what? This isn't a competition. You don't compare to how other people are doing. You compare to how you're doing relative to before, and build on that foundation. Of course it's good to compare to others and gauge whether you could progress quicker but in the end it comes down to stop being a bitch
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:28 AM
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It's a great film but that's despite the romance. The journey he went on was epic, felt sorry for Forrest cos he was retarded and you can't really expect him to understand that he needed to move on
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:32 PM
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ahahaha holy shit that was funny
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:30 PM
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What I'd do personally. Although for my own morality, it being an LTR and there being commitment from both sides, I'd explicitly break up. But hey, that's just me.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:07 PM
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I'd break up and spin plates personally, but if for some bizarre reason you want to commit to her after she basically showed how little of you she thinks, then basically you need to provide her with a reason to respect you more, or by taking her power away. What I am getting at is, not escalating at all, just masturbate and bite the bullet for a bit. She will escalate herself, unless of course she's getting dick from somewhere else.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:54 PM
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Don't pay for them. Or only pay after you know you're getting pussy (even then I don't pay one time and she pays the next)
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:48 PM
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I would tell her something along the lines of "I'm disappointed that you feel this way.. I thought we had a good thing going between us. I'd rather get to that point organically, like we have been doing" Kind of ripped off from GLL, it's a solid guide for maintaining plates in general.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:45 PM
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do you still enjoy it when you're getting thrashed? Do you enjoy it more when you're up by a big margin and bragging about it? When it's fun and games it's all about bragging rights basically.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:28 AM
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yes but your program doesnt have deadlifts so how can you be tired from deadlifts
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:25 AM
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do it anyway
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:23 AM
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the routine is fine but you said this in your post: I'll be unable to do Starr's recommended high pulls, inclined bench presses, deadlifts etc.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:13 AM
1

Eat more. Also ummm... this is the routine Monday: full squats, 5 x 5 clean-grip high pulls, 5 x 5 bench presses, 3 x 5, 3 x 3, plus a back-off set of eight reps chins, 4 x max incline dumbbell bench presses, 2 x 20. Wednesday incline bench presses, 5 x 5, plus a back-off set of 8 reps light squats, 5 x 4 good mornings, 4 x 8 straight-arm pullovers, 2 x 20 weighted dips, 4 x 8. Friday: full squats, 3 x 5, 2 x 3, and a back-off set of 8 flat benches, 4 x 8 shrugs, 5 x 5 straight-arm pullovers, 2 …
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:11 AM
1

But before that I lost 50 kg Good start, and keep up the lifting how do you think I should proceed with this girl I've been texting with Wrong mentality to have. You're trying too hard if you're putting this much thought into it. I know that RP is not about girls It's about sexual strategy so I kinda is. Now, I told her "I was thinking about calling you tonight." Oh god this is so beta. Also, if you've got nothing of substance to say, don't say anything! Less is more. Set up a date instead. She …
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:53 AM
2

id rather LTR an ugly bitch than LTR a single mother. I cant see myself fathering another man's child
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:36 AM
8

I read the article and copy & pasted that and sent it before reading this comment. It really is a great example of how you talk RP in real life situations
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:34 AM
1

I am white Got it in one haha but I prefer Asian, Latina, and black women myself. It's not about your preferences. It's about the average woman's preferences.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:17 AM
3

Are you white? The racial bias on tinder is ridiculous. I do still get matches, but I was astounded when I saw my white friends swiping on tinder and matching so frequently. IRL we're fairly similar SMV and photos are fairly similar which leaves skin colour in the mix. Saying that, I still use it but it's not getting me regular action.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:43 PM
1

I've read nmmng and rational male. Just pick one at random, read it. Pick another at random, read it. Then read the last one. There's overlap but you can read it in either order. Don't think too hard about it. Just get on with it!
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:38 PM
1

This is fantastic
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 02:29 PM
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But the problem is I've never dated a 9 before and I got no money to take her out to decent places You're putting her on a pedestal. Treat her like the 6's and 7's I haven't called her yet and I was wondering if I should just let this one slide. You've talked yourself out of it already lmao. Take her to some pub or cafe and only pay your share if you're that broke. It's better than not trying.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:28 PM
1

It's so simple and yet I forget to do this. Thank you for this reminder. Hopefully down the line when I make this a habit, I'll then make a similar post with my own take on this (which I've now made a note of haha)
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:21 AM
1

thanks, for checking. Under further investigation I think you're correct when you say "maybe it was isolated to one or few editions"
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 01:51 AM
1

Do you know which editions include this chapter? I'd rather get it on kindle if i could, if not I will have to get the paperback
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:47 PM
2

interestingly enough I was talking to a family member about how I'm reading non-fiction now, knowing he reads a lot. I didnt want to say I've read the Rational Male, No more Mr. Nice Guy and books of that ilk so i mentioned I'll be reading marcus aurelius' book soon, which he also has read and then went into how he's interested in stoicism and how to apply it. But after this he said it's still good to read fiction books and gave some examples of classical literature he's read. Kind of weird how …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:34 PM
1

that's exactly why it's bad
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:34 PM
1

she needs to do something about it
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:35 AM
2

is that not just anxiety that you won't fit in?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:32 AM
3

i'd add insult to injury and say "It's a joke, not a dick. Don't take it so hard"
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:29 AM
1

I think you hit the nail on the head here
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:19 AM
2

In case you couldn't see it, i was poking fun at your comment which implied i should have blind faith in what you say.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:12 AM
1

attacking my intelligence because I asked for sources for that claim?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:11 AM
3

sounds like they're being shy
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:18 PM
1

read the side bar
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:44 PM
1

Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:44 PM
1

If it's muscular, then that's fine and you're just strengthening your weak lower back. Ask in /r/fitness for better advice
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:42 PM
1

I agree it is a massive difference, but as you said: if you have a high IQ and if you can't it means you didn't put in the work And why didn't they put in the work? Because they thought they were too good to talk to other people. So really rather than hamstering away that they are too smart for these people, they should be trying to connect in other ways. As someone who's known to be really smart and studied maths, I do get into discussions about space and physics as well as philosophy and other…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:30 PM
1

1% are above 135, 10% are above 120. I think it's roughly around those numbers, so we really are talking about a small subset of men
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:12 PM
1

Trust me... you just don't know how to relate with these folks... if you just opened your mind a bit..... sooner or later you just CONNECT with them.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:10 PM
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i can't find the passage in the sources provided saying that communication breaks down with people more than 30 IQ points apart. Without that this is just ego massaging. "I'm too smart for these dumb women"
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 02:47 PM
2

i guess bars or restaurants would be boring Don't assume. Just go to a bar, buy the first round and let her buy the 2nd and move from there
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:12 PM
1

first of all, this is for asktrp. Second of all, all this information is on the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:11 PM
2

Maybe you're gay?
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:18 AM
1

I live in Venezuela Holy fuck dude, I heard it's a socialist hell hole with runaway inflation! Thought about moving?
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:16 AM
1

Then don't let her
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:14 AM
2

because you're a beta bitch. Just from this post it's clear that you're needy. You're obviously low SMV. I can barely build muscle because of my poor genetics Genetics is not a factor at this newbie stage of muscle building. It's a combination of these: * Poor Programming * Poor diet * Poor rest/ not enough sleep I hate it when people say they have poor genetics, even moreso because you said you're indian because I'm also Indian.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:12 AM
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He was more jacked? Lift You have a small dick? Consider jelqing (careful on this one as if you do it wrong, it's not a place you want to be) Apart from that, read the sidebar, plate spinning is what you need.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 12:35 AM
1

everyone has flaws. You've stared at that face all your life so you're being overly critical of it. In fact, I have a noticeably bent nose (just about) which i probably will fix at some point but im doing ok despite the asymmetry. People here will tell you to lift, get a fashion sense, read the sidebar plus some books, and that's a good place to start. However, many here feel your pain. For some it "clicks" quickly and success comes with a few minor tweaks. For some, a big overhaul needs to happ…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 12:30 AM
1

Hehe I can say the same to you. The tools are here on how to maintain a plate.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:52 PM
3

come back aftet doing it for a year and ask this again
/r/askTRP08/12/16 02:10 AM
1

I can tell you that among, guys, I was an "alpha" and if I abused my status, it most definitely looks like bullying. At the time I didn't think it was but looking back, I definitely bullied people without realising. On the other hand I was a beta bitch in front of women....
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:18 AM
1

yup I didnt touch on the physical escalation in my comment but I definitely picked up on it. Very handy. "Pickup" is definitely the area i need to learn most in. Once you fuck a girl, it's on easy mode. But atm that's the tough part for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 01:13 AM
1

what about it? Also, on top of what he said, if you have the money, find a gym and start lifting instead. Follow Starting Strength with dips added to bench day and pull ups added to the other. Also if you can, get a job for some extra money. At 16 you will have to settle for something menial, but hey I'm sure it will give you a lot of extra money. Sort of related to body is clothing. Try to understand men's fashion, or even street fashion. e.g slim/skinny jeans (no bootcuts) is the main one. Loo…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:10 AM
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Great post. The song, as you said, is filled with LMR. I really enjoyed it. As for the actual content, it gave me a perspective I didn't really think about. For sure I'll pick up on some of those!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:52 AM
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I may look in shooting ranges and cutting down trees. Mainly the first one. I'll look into it. Hopefully it's not too tricky, I'm in the uk. I dont want to do anything too physically taxing as I'm adamant on making some strength goals in the gym as quickly as possible. Otherwise I'd try indoor rock climbing as a new venture and see where that goes. Already have a beard which I've found the "sweet spot" for. (Short, shaped beard looks best on me) The rest don't really stick out to me, except the …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:38 AM
1

plates fall and break, it happens sooner or later.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 02:23 PM
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you've been doing it for 25 years, it's what you do. I'm betting he's never grown a beard in his life. Probably some stubble when he didnt shave for a few days. There's a big difference
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:17 AM
1

how long has it been? Sounds like she wants to move up from a plate then. Alternatively it could be your frame.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:10 AM
1

imo having a partner who has the same goals/same program as you is the ideal
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:47 PM
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Spend less time with her then. If it's getting annoying, you can half jokingly say "Maybe I should visit them instead then?" Literally don't give a fuck. Watch her get horrified but then stick to you like a fly on shit.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:45 PM
1

You need to up your smv. Easy ways, read the sidebar. Lift. Get a good fashion sense. Eat well. Revel in your new found confidence and knowledge.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:37 PM
1

Big 3 is all well and good but don't neglect OHP, rows and pullups. The latter two will develop your back and in fact help increase your bench and ohp. If you can't do pullups, im sure there's assisted pull ups machines or lat pulldowns to do before attempting bodyweight pullups. As a rule of thumb you should be able to pullup more than you bench. So if you bench 80kg at 70kg for 5 reps. Then you should at least be able to do 5 pullups with 10kg strapped to you
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:34 PM
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unicorns don't exist, that's the point. Putting her on a pedestal. At the most plate her again, she should have to earn her way back up the ladder
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:29 PM
1

that's why you read the sidebar content
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:26 PM
1

Then the plate breaks and you continue to spin the other ones
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:25 PM
5

If it were me, I would have said something cocky like, "Stop lying, you're already in love with me"
/r/askTRP27/11/16 11:37 PM
2

You will find a lot of red pill in Rap music (real rap) agree 100%. It got me back into it when I realised this
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 11:33 PM
1

Yup. One plate I have is really "cute" in that sense. You feel like taking care of them. I have to snap out of it sometimes and remind myself not to get beta
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:56 AM
2

In November? Must be Australia. I say go for it if you want. I'm not even that swole and I wear wife beaters sometimes
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:54 AM
1

Laugh in her face and "punish" her
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:52 AM
2

ZMA (zinc) Bulk powders is like 90 pills for $10, no way is that too expensive. (You take 1 per day) Also lift heavy things
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:48 AM
1

You missed the part where she became a plate for some time whilst you spun other plates. That part is vital in fully understanding TRP
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:45 AM
1

This made me laugh way more than it should have
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:42 AM
2

I'm only 19 Found this place younger than most here, including me, but I feel I have a large sprint to run to catch up to the train of youthful carousing, which left the station a few years ago at this point. At 19, and as a guy, believe me, you are not that far behind. To be honest, in retrospect I have no idea what I did in my years of high school while everyone else was out having a good time. By "everyone" you mean the the clique of "cool kids" which was hardly everyone. You're more "normal"…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:27 AM
2

plenty of inter racial marriages happening, although i hope that's not your aim. Yes, as an Indian, I have attracted, or maybe gone for indians more frequently but I don't try and hide behind the fact that I'm stereotyped to be like Apu and let that get me bogged down.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:18 AM
1

Hamstering at its finest. Funnily enough, TRP made me appreciate rap/hip hop more. Here's a lyric from it: If she ain't fucking she's got to go, tell her don't waste my time
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:15 AM
1

In addition to this, try to meet her for coffee or drinks outside of class. If she says no then you know where she stands. Just do what the above says and focus on others. If yes, then go for it! It also shows clearly she's not to serious about her bf and you know she is plate potential and nothing more.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:12 AM
1

Stop thinking like a beta. You've not fucked up at all, if anything, next time you see her she will be more eager to please you to prove her worth to you. I've just read your post again. Talking? For a few months? Please tell me your fucking otherwise you're basically an orbiter, and if anything, that comment was good to get you out of that position
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:07 AM
2

No lmao. A good trick is learning who to use your fingers, that certainly gave me confidence when they moan way before I'm even thinking of sticking my dick in them, and now I dont even give a shit and basically do what I feel like doing (which made me realise how dominant i like being) Also on a side note: nofap actually helps. It makes you more aggressive in bed which will definitely work in your favour
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:03 AM
1

I am still the loser who lost my virginity at 21. I know a guy who lost it at 24, now at 26 he's having 3somes and basically fucking more than his dick can handle. Don't look to the past. Look forward. Rather than focusing on women (believe me, I've been in a similar spot) just find some people there you know and enjoy yourself! Especially at an engineering school ball, there's no point competing! As for "feeling lonely". Keep busy! Read books, Lift, Meditate. Do something productive! Watch some…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:00 AM
1

that's changed a lot, with the advent of people using game theory in poker, you see a lot of a younger crowd in it today. I think if you look at the last 5-10 years of WSOP winners, probably 7 or 8 of them were under 30
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:48 AM
1

they may be ugly, but you still want to fuck them. Either you do or you don't want to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:45 AM
1

if you are of high enough SMV, a woman's hamster may come to the conclusion that there's something wrong with you to avoid hurting their egos, but it still hurts that you're giving the 4 all that attention and not the 10.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:44 AM
9

Agreed, it ties in with the whole "she's not yours, it's just your turn" attitude. I see it like a roller coaster. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:42 AM
1

I just do cardio to not get fat lift and maintain a diet by counting calories instead
/r/askTRP27/11/16 01:35 AM
1

get your test levels checked out.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:41 AM
1

What's KHV? Also, spinning plates is fundamental to the red pill. I bet if you stopped masturbated, you'd want to put your dick in anything, at least i do. And if you don't even feel the urge to fuck, then as other commenters said, you may be low test
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:29 AM
0

if she's taken aback and just acting shy, then a simple "Because you're cute" would work imo
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:25 AM
1

disagree with rub one out, for exactly the reasons op gave: it just makes me not care about sex as much so I'll be less aggressive in bed
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:21 AM
2

a fast and hard rhythm followed by a slow and soft rhythm. i.e. 6 hard thrusts followed by 10 slow ones, slowly increase the fast thrusts and decrease the slow ones. Or if you want to be a tease, just slow down for a bit and fuck em slow for a bit. On 2 separate occasions I've had girls beg me to resume pounding the shit out of them again haha. Viagra can help too.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:20 AM
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It's not a shit test. Looks genuine to me. This. If it were a shit test, she would try to be more sly about it or more confrontational. It might not be a dealbreaker if that's her wording. and if it is then she knows where the door is. IMO, a look of confusion as to why she wants to know would suffice.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:17 AM
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I wouldn't go for women I inherently find unattractive, but hey, sometimes you see a 5 and for some reason she turns you on. Fuck it. Go for it. I've found most guys hamster too much saying "oh she's ugly anyway". Much better to go for those who are 4's and 5's who you wouldn't mind fucking than to set your standards so high that you're rarely fucking. Obviously this is for people starting the journey, not those well on their way to a harem of HB7+ women
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:14 AM
14

Fingers can be enough, believe me.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:05 AM
1

It's a gradual process. A day will come where you look at yourself almost in disbelief at how far you've come. And you know what you do then? You keep on going onwards and upwards.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:03 AM
1

re read the side bar and rollo's book "The Rational Male" if you want convincing on why plate spinning is the way.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 01:00 AM
2

you clearly are very new. Read the sidebar. EDIT: Didn't realise you're a woman. Check out /r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:07 AM
1

just because they are nerdy does not make them exempt from AWALT. I'm plating a philosophy student and fucked a lawyer and businesswoman recently, all showed their AWALT
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:02 AM
3

I'm more attractive every new week because I'm working on it. Believe me, this will start feeding your ego. It has with mine. Read my later bullet points.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:01 AM
1

she says that I should date around I dont get the conundrum. The mantra is spin plates.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 12:59 AM
2

Do more questions. Find a resource for similar style questions, and go through them. Review the ones you get wrong. If there are glaring weaknesses, go over those again. As someone who is pretty smart, I notice a major difference when I finish the exams before summer and when I get back into university after it (summer break is like 4 months... who the fuck studies then?). The key is practice practice practice
/r/askTRP25/11/16 12:57 AM
3

First, stop being a little bitch Second, become attractive. How? Lift, go and check out some beginner strength programs like stronglifts 5x5 or starting strength. Then go onto something like coolcicada's push pull legs when your lifts start to stall. Supplement this with a solid bulking diet (calorie surplus) if you're skinny and a deficit if fat As you lift gain more test, you will gain a more prominent jawline, along with losing bodyfat. If you have a weak jawline, try growing a thick beard. I…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 12:46 AM
6

I used to hate this cocky attitude from others. Now I'm "that guy". A girl, on talking to her for 20 minutes once called me an arrogant prick. My reply? "Humility is overrated" Yes, I fucked her good a little bit later.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 12:31 AM
5

they are more than willing to do super freaky shit to make up for that youth with zero questions asked. I was rougher than usual exactly my experience. Although the extra baggage scares me. They generally are quicker to hint at wanting something more and combined with wanting me to "fill them up", I get the hint and hard next.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 02:17 PM
1

make the date near their place.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:16 AM
1

you're basically a pole. You want to get to about 170lbs imo
/r/askTRP18/11/16 08:28 PM
1

that makes a huge difference lmao. Just do it. I guarantee even after a month you will notice the difference
/r/askTRP18/11/16 08:20 PM
1

"it's easier calling you" I make it clear i dont like texting, eventhough it's clear im on whatsapp shitposting with buddies quite often.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:52 PM
1

if you wanna fuck, reply. If you dont wanna fuck, dont reply. Simple as.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:41 PM
1

believe me, at 5"4, if you get to 150lbs lean, you will be a beast. Even at 130lbs, you should not be too bad, i suspect you're "skinny fat"
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:39 PM
1

gaining it that rapidly meant i put on a lot of fat, but most people noticed i'd got bigger and more imposing, but not in a bad way
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:24 PM
1

No, never. I did too but I keep that shit close to my chest
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:17 PM
1

I was 130lbs and 5ft 8 at your age, 6 months later i was 155lbs. How? Lift big, eat big. I recommend starting strength
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:14 PM
3

I'm always left thoroughly entertained by your comments. Not only am I amused but they're spot on.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:57 PM
2

Should be in AskTRP but here goes: What is your stance on telling her you are seeing other girls even thou you have not yet conquered other plates? No need to lie. If you keep it cool, chances are she will probe you (happened to me recently). She will ask questions like "Are there other ones?" or "Do you do this with the other ones?". Take it like a standard shittest, either ignore and laugh it off or A&A
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 03:56 PM
1

100% helped. Been on nofap for 5-6 weeks, and oh boy after a week you just want to nut. What it's meant for me is that I pursue more and don't really care or overthink situations. On average I've fucked once a week. A far cry for my very sporadic sex life before then.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 10:32 PM
1

This made me realise I may have encountered one too. What started off as playful teasing soon became soon horrible name calling with bouts of clinginess in between. Can't deny she was a really really good fuck though.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:46 PM
1

Until your self esteem is high - and it WILL be - fake the fuck out of it. This can't be emphasised enough. Only recently have I started to get some real, raw confidence, and let me tell you, fake it til you make it is the way to push through it
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:10 AM
1

/facepalm she's trying to get your attention! She obviously likes you, it's a shit form of teasing. This actually happened to me recently. I was wondering, why is this bitch being so rude to me and no one else? Then it clicked.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:03 AM
1

wish her luck, if she probes you for a critique, say its not your type of music so you dont know. However, if she is LTR potential, i'd say it sooner rather than later. If she will only ever be a plate then that advice works
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:01 AM
3

wish her luck, if she probes you for a critique, say its not your type of music so you dont know. However, if she is LTR potential, i'd say it sooner rather than later. If she will only ever be a plate then that advice works
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:01 AM
3

Should have just enjoyed the dinner and led it "naturally" to a fuck. Also you may have tried to be a bad boy but you probably came off as desperate. Also what kind of question is "WHat are we doing here", you actually sound like a bitch. You're meant to take the lead, not be passive. Escalate physically, not verbally. as for this broken plate, go cold turkey on her
/r/askTRP11/11/16 01:02 AM
1

I really hope he makes a full recovery. But he won't from the sounds of it. Shit is depressing.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 12:39 AM
2

When I got called a fuckboy, it gave me a major ego boost. It meant I was doing it right and just confirmed trp truths. I've never laughed so hard during foreplay... Oh if she knew i was basically an incel 4 months ago
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:32 AM
1

join some clubs/societies that interest you. But you dont need that to get pussy lmao. Just go for it.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:24 AM
1

you've come to the right place my friend. The other replies cover most of it. I'll add, read the sidebar if they haven't already. But what I'll add is, if you need someone to talk to, pm me.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:19 AM
1

As a rapper once said, "If she aint fucking she's got to go, tell her dont waste my time"
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:13 AM
1

Agreed, so long as you dont become blinded by your arrogance and instead use powers of self-introspection, you're on a good, fulfilling path.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 12:11 AM
2

She's not yours, it's just your turn Plus she's a fuck-friend. Convo was fine til you stormed out, at that point I would have said "Oh in that case we better use condoms from now on". You both made no commitment to each other, so you have no reason to be mad.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:02 PM
3

id rather bust quick than not be able to fuck
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:38 AM
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Dont tell them you're in one. If they find out, deny it. And also, if you're in an exclusive relationship then honour your fucking commitment or dump her! There's one plate that a few of my friends know about, this got me in a similar situation to you, but I could hand on heart say I dont have a gf, to which this woman replied "but you've fucked her a few times" and i could say "yep, no strings attached". Funny thing was she didnt believe me and the great quote from that evening was "You're such…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 12:51 AM
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Put yourself in uncomfortable situations. You're going through what I was a few months ago also. I'd accepted trp but didn't have the results to show, Give it time. The change doesn't happen overnight. Baby Steps. You've been doing that already. There will come a time you think you look decent naked, but strive to get the perfect body. You'll look at yourself in well-fitted stylish clothing and think you look good and not feel uncomfortable. Slowly each layer of insecurity peels away until the o…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 12:40 AM
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Why are you happy to let him talk to your brother like that? If someone said that about my brother, I'd let them know exactly what they've got coming to them. On the flip side, your brother really has solid frame and the idgaf attitude is shining through. It's like he sees it as a shit test and really doesnt even care
/r/askTRP09/11/16 12:30 AM
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yes, I understand that. I went from 155lbs to 135lbs in 3 months by eating 1800 calories is what I'm saying. Those calories are too damn low! You must be counting them wrong!
/r/askTRP09/11/16 12:25 AM
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Nice app! It's easier to read these than to keep re read sidebar content to refresh your memory. Also handy to read on a train or somewhere... just make sure no one sees...
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:22 PM
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ok, you need to count your calories again. No way you are at maintenance with 2000 calories intake
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:15 PM
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No matter what I always find myself in the same position halfway where I stop being flirty and start having logical discussions with women. How does a guy stop being logical and serious around women? Treat them like kids, dont take them seriously. See their actions as childish outbursts that you laugh at.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:49 AM
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1) Was coffee the right idea? I understand that alchohol is much better and I am beginning to think it should be alchohol, but $$$... Coffee is fine. 2) Another concern is that she might not be open to makeout if just drank coffee (breath). In your experience is this a legit concern? seriously dude? 3) At what point do I reveal that I am not looking for a relationship? You don't, you keep vague. You're "going with the flow" and "seeing where it ends up" 4) Do I lie about having plates and saying…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:46 AM
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I'm going to be on a 1500 cal deficit. That is a huuuuuge deficit. It's better to slowly lose the fat and build as much muscle than to crash diet. go on a 500cal deficit, if after 2 weeks theres not been any weight loss, drop another 500cal. Trust me, 1500cal at your weight is HORRIBLE. I was maintaining 140lbs on 1800cal (for boxing) and I was suffering. Don't set yourself up for failure. You will start this, struggle and relapse. Also, make sure you keep a rest day between your workouts on str…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:30 AM
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how long you been on trp?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:17 AM
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the self defeating attitude is what's killing you. I made major changes to my appearance before I got to a stage I was comfortable (and thought I was reasonably attractive). You need to have a good hard look at yourself and ask yourself if you're going to be a bitch and run away from women or stand up, make some changes, possibly look into people who are bold and attractive and see if you can do something similar. But at the end of the day, you have to deal with your insecurities. Everyone has t…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:38 PM
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keep her as a plate for now So I compromised and told her I'm only fucking you yep you dun goofed. Well I guess if you plate another girl you can drop her straight.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:06 PM
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try kegels, i've only just adopted them so can't speak from experience how effective this is. No porn More foreplay - finger her, there's a certain technique to it, once you get it, it's a great way to get her off and fuck her with no performance anxiety. Another thing i do, if you come anywhere close to cumming, slow down. Do like 10 slow thrusts followed by 6 hard and fast ones, and slowly reduce the slow thrusts and increase the fast ones.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:31 PM
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plenty of attractive bald people out there. Its only a problem if you let it be one
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:17 PM
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Next morning after waking up, she apologized for her behaviour. You passed.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:16 PM
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Awesome! Truly great story! But be careful, you are "there" but you can still keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:12 PM
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if you can date a woman of her quality without kids, why would you date one with them? Equally important: if you can't date a woman of her quality without kids, then you won't be happy with that one either. This sums it up best for me
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:51 PM
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most people have said I've changed. Girls who were friends with me were horrified but now seem to have accepted it, although they seem more weary to introduce me to their friends haha. Guys are praising me, some wing-manning me even more because they realise it's likely to happen, others are bitter but generally see me as an inspiration seeing as I was a quiet nice guy before, so they can relate to my "before" and it gives them hope of being in my position at the "after" (By no means am I yet sa…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:44 PM
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if you're bald, grow a beard. There's plenty of bald attractive men to base yourself off too. Your body looks decent so it begs the question; how do you dress? You say well, any pics? I will also say this, you do NOT need to be gorgeous. Reasonably good looking, yes. But that comes with being in shape, dressing well with well fitting clothes and you MENTALITY. Now, it's clicked for me recently. If a girl tells me they're not interested, my reaction now is disbelief and shock and I'll ask "Are yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:31 PM
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Fuck being humble. This. "Humility is overrated." That is my response when someone calls me arrogant. I still have a long way to go and lack a lot of experience still, but oh boy, just by adopting the mentality and mindset, women think I'm a major player suddenly. By agreeing and amplifying or just ignoring, a woman hamstered from a question of "Do you have a girlfriend?" to "You're a lying bastard, you're cheating on your 5 girlfriends... but I want you so bad"
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:19 PM
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Read The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi on top of that. It goes into depth about plate theory and why that should be the default state. Remember, Rollo himself is married so he clearly isn't anti-LTR, but there's a process, which he explains
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:09 AM
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Are you a girl?
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:49 PM
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if you really want to help him, tell him red pill truths in flowery language. Why does her refuse to lift? Is it because "only douches do it"?
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:46 PM
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Similar to me then. I'm doing it till the end of the year, but 2 week gaps are ok I guess. Porn is the harmful thing in here mostly so if you do this, try to fap without it. Keep improving. If you want friends, talk to people before and after you session at the gym, make friends there i guess. You may get a solid gym partner.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:45 PM
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You don't have a gf any more. If it was a plate then you dont need to care. But in an LTR, no way dude. Go bang some other chicks and spin plates
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:00 PM
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6 foot and 185lbs and fat? You need to lift man. When you lose all that fat you will be a skeleton. If you're a newbie lifter, you WILL lose fat and gain muscle. Basically, calorie deficit, and within that, about 200lbs of protein. On the days you don't lift, do some cardio, or if you're in good enough shape, do a 100m sprints and walk back to the start point, and repeat 10 times.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:58 PM
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what is your goal from nofap?
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:54 PM
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I watched Don Jon, Thanks for Sharing and Shame. After those, it made me realise how fucked up my problem could get. Rather than just doing nofap/no pmo, I framed my aim as "no pmo til 2017 and if I dont make it, what kind of a man am I?" It's seemed to work so far, I'm on day twenty something, longest I've gone no fap since I was about 13
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:51 PM
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So much this. It's nice to be aware of shit tests and negs, etc. But the mindset is the main thing that is needed. If you have abundance mentality and genuinely have no fear of losing her and just try to amuse yourself (amused mastery) then you're well on your way. This basically means you are outcome independant. Sometimes, I'll even say something outrageous, for the sake of it, only to try and recover it, without being a pussy about it though. I saw someone share a video of RSDJulien before wh…
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:45 PM
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Read the sidebar dude. You aren't going to get spoonfed this stuff. We all had to go through it. I will recommend 2 books though: "Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. This on top of the side bar reading. There's plenty more than that, but those are good places to start
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:37 PM
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I'll add, you want at least a gram per pound of bodyweight per day. So if you weigh 150lbs, aim for closer to 200g
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:33 PM
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could be a shit test or could be her subtly telling you she wants to progress from talking
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:58 PM
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Then I got cocky, making comments that other women are interrested This should be implicit. As in, you don't mention it, nor do you say you are exclusive. However, if she brings it up, then neither confirm or deny it. Although joking about it works well too. Agree and Amplify. "So you're other side ho was busy today?" "Ye, it sucks, I was looking forward to seeing her" in a tongue in cheek manor. The conversation ends at me. Dont contact her then. Less is more. If she still has some attraction f…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:49 PM
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yes but nowhere near enough seeing as you see so many shoulder injuries in the gym. However I do see your point
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 02:30 PM
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I woulda gone for back personally
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:46 AM
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Text for logistics. Less is more. If you're on her radar, she will think about you more if you dont text her.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:15 AM
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believe me, it's not hard either. I did Stronglifts 5x5 for 5 months and got to 100kg 5x5 at 70kg
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:55 PM
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believe me, it's not hard either. I did Stronglifts 5x5 for 5 months and got to 100kg 5x5 at 70kg
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:55 PM
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In the gym it's the tanktop-wearing bro with no gains to show for. Guilty, although the only time I'll talk to people in the gym is to ask how long they will be or if they can spot me.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:53 PM
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Dance classes? Salsa dancing? Or is that to much strain on the body? Im guessing you're from US so bars are out of the question. Your best bet is doing the GLL approach anxiety course. If you have bundles of time, and are willing to get out of your comfort zone, this exactly how you would want to approach it.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:47 PM
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only thing I can see it being helpful for is approach anxiety. If you get over that, you can approach and refinae your technique with ease. But a better program for that is the GLL approach anxiety course
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:42 PM
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Completely normal. Try doing some martial art or boxing, it helps but there will always be that fear. I remember my leg shaking the first few times I was in an incident, and I was proficient in kickboxing (tbf the guys were older and bigger and it was 2-3 against 1). Also remember this for next time. If anything just charge in without thinking (as long as weapons aren't involved)
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:39 PM
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ahhh eastern europe is a bit of a SMP haven for men. The women are more beautiful on average and they largely outnumber the males.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:35 PM
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I should start lifting and eat well and set my goals - that's what I plan to do since 3 months Well get to it. Add nofap to the list, you'll be having some strong erections. Believe me. Get your testosterone checked, you may be low on that too. But chances are by the time you start lifting and setting your goals, the anxiety will go and you will be fine. I can fuck her 2 times a day but not more. Oh... thats fairly normal tbh, still do the things I said but if you wanna have marathon sex session…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:32 PM
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basically spin more plates. But I like the specifics you gave, and although I'm not OP, I'll be trying to implement that as well!
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:20 PM
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At what point, if any, should I reach out? How to tell if she just doesn't like to take initiative or what..? Go for it, you're being an orbiter by flirting without meeting her. She won't miss you because you've never met her and basically aren't "real" to her Also I should mention she lives in a different state. Dude wtf, go for targets that make logistical sense, ignore her and move on! Unless you will somehow meet her
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:52 AM
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After reading another post on here I know you want to consider an LTR but don't rush into those man, spin plates for a bit, at LEAST give her a few months (and fucked her a fair amount) before considering an LTR. Moreso than ever you just have to be unmoved by her being surrounded by men and as /u/RollingRP said "If it's a matter of circumstance (and it seems so professionally), I'd say you have a lot less to worry about her on a personality/psychological level."
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:46 AM
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because I could literally fuck anything with a hole otherwise lmao. Also, being seen with 3s and 4s is definitely not good for pre selection.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:37 AM
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"the less invested partner is the one with the most control"
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:38 PM
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You need to stop being a little bitch. Period. At this point, it's not even about getting laid, you just can't control your impulses, addicted to that dopamine rush.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:34 PM
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It does wonders to your self esteem, I'm so much more confident now I've stopped fapping (temporarily until the new year, may just go no porn from there on, or maybe just restrict it) and fuck on the regular now. It's like I'm a new person. The way I stopped masturbating, was that I framed it as an attack on my manlihood. If I didn't have the willpower to stop masturbating, how can I call myself a man? You WILL find other ways to control your urges, well that was my experience. I played tinder a…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 03:27 AM
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Completely up to you. My test for minimum attraction is, how will I feel if I were walking with the chick on the street and a friend saw her? Would I be embarrassed because she's ugly? If the answer is yes then I pass. If they're just plain then I'm good to go.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 03:21 AM
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It's funny how the hard/soft nexting option never occurs to me when it's in my own situation but its clear on paper on asktrp. When a girl starts messing me about I usually lose my frame. It's been improving recently. I just don't contact them now and focus on other prospects. Tying yourself down to one girl when you're not ready or too quickly will likely be the undoing of any red pill programming on people here.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:58 PM
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Let me know how it goes next time you go out!
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:10 PM
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I wasnt successful before red pill. I was one of those guys standing on the side doing nothing. Afterwards, my aim of going out was to have fun, me and my mates would dare each other to go up to girls and grind on them, grab their ass, etc, aaaand for the most part they reciprocated. It made me realise (quite obviously tbh) how down girls in the club are. Now, this is with none of these games. Twice I've done this in the last few weeks. Literally I just walk up to the girl, maintaining eye conta…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:26 PM
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coffee>drink>her place for me on a first date. (Living with parents, ugh) After that I meet them at their place, hang out chat, drink some wine, fuck, maybe drink more and fuck more, even just go for a walk and go back to hers and fuck even more.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:19 PM
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First of all you said you're overweight. Sort your diet out and lift weights. Trust me, exercise is great stress relief and really does help you feel better. A well balanced diet also helps regulate you body better. If you want me to be more specific then hit me up on here or pm
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:16 PM
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it happens. It happened to me the other week. I just gave up for a bit and chilled out. We had a bit to eat and she actually initiated sex again, as if she had something to prove.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 03:33 PM
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just do it, you may have to eat a bit more to bulk but that's it
/r/askTRP24/10/16 03:30 PM
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However, the FOMO is still strong with me: if for whatever reason my plates are unavailable and I'm unsuccessful getting laid when I want to, I feel like a big piece of shit. I go from king of the pussy all the way back to feeling like a lonely loser on a Saturday night in high school. I understand this completely. I felt even worse because I was armed with red pill knowledge and still felt like shit, which in turn made me feel even more like shit. Vicious cycle
/r/askTRP24/10/16 12:03 AM
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you summed up all of our experiences of being exposed to trp for the first time haha. Good luck, keep reading and you will eventually accept it
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:07 PM
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FFS this is why us Indians seem like thirsty losers. Well at least when women want an Indian I have less competition.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:35 PM
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i dont believe in procreation Please explain that to me. Procreation is the basis of all life forms.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:08 PM
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he's 20, the only thing at that age that will make living at home a nightmare is that finding a place to fuck can be a logistical nightmare.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 05:05 PM
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you sound very passive aggressive to me
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 05:01 PM
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bullshit, tinder's been working well for me and I'd consider myself only slightly above average looking. Yes it is more skewed than real life but doesn't mean it's unplayable.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:58 PM
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you're too fixated on her, i dont know why. You haven't fucked. You spent some time together which I guess you enjoyed. But there's so many women who have more to offer, or at least can offer that. How can you consider her an LTR when you havent even fucked? You need to read the sidebar again, you definitely haven't read it thoroughly
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:53 PM
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Text for logistics only, this is the perfect girl to do it to, moreso than others. It will drive her crazy if she's constantly on her phone and you're not texting her.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:28 PM
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Do YOU want to go on that trip? From what's been written, she wants you to go on this trip and you're dragging your heels. I'd say don't go unless there's something you haven't said here
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:21 PM
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I know she's a woman but she's hardly there "because" she's a woman ala Hilary. I think you'll find she actually has some balls, sort of like Thatcher. Well that's what I think. Apparantly she said she'll trigger it in Feb/March. Only time will tell. And I wasn't only referring to brexit. I honestly see Islam as a major threat. With most people barely replacing themselves (not reproducing , declining birth rates) and that fact that most muslim families seem to have 5+ kids, the next generation i…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 02:19 PM
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As someone who's seen a few, this is how i felt
/r/askTRP23/10/16 02:14 PM
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Lift, gain muscle, lose body fat (get visible abs as a minimum) Up your fashion game. By wearing the right fitting clothes and styles, any guy will look tons better. Approach! Real life plus also online dating like pof and tinder. Bars and clubs are good.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:01 PM
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Leave her. Read this subreddit. Lift, get a better fashion sense, get tinder and just find other women in general. The reason you can't leave is probably because you have no other options. You need to make other options for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:58 PM
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There's a lot still to be done...
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:49 PM
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UK here, I'm not too far away dude.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:31 PM
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not the end of the world tbh. Just try to maintain frame next time. If she's attracted to you and not crazy, one slip won't fuck it up. The key is just holding frame now onwards and not worrying about it. What's done is done i guess
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:25 PM
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Yes if she's hot. They could just be rooting for you and wishing they were in a similar position to you and basically living through you rather than actively hoping to get with her.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:20 PM
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up to you if you want to carry on starting strength (Im assuming this is what you're doing) or you want to do PPL. I'd personally do PPL as so: PPLPP mon to fri And when you start to stall, go back to SS or 5x5. But you could still get a lot of juice out of SS with those numbers. Training 5x a week is awesome though. I did it a month or two in the run up to exams. Woke up, gym, revise eat sleep repeat. Got me out of bed 7am and forced me to sleep before midnight.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:16 PM
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I'm no expert in dread game but to my understanding, you don't initially let the girl know explicitly that you have options. It starts off implicit. E.g. Talking on the phone to her with female voices in the background.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:09 PM
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If you dont mind your friends or people in general seeing you with her then go for it. This is my barometer for if a girl is not good enough looks wise.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:55 PM
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Jesus, it's so fucking accurate.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:22 PM
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I read the title and the first thought that popped into my head was, "Well there's something new" Just a reminder that crazies gonna crazy
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:22 PM
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I actually read the title and thought it implied you needed a lifting partner and thought "ffs OP some people can go at it alone" But yes, I agree with what you actually meant. All lifting will do is make the game easier. You still have to participate.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:04 PM
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Great post my man. It's posts like these which keep us on our toes and prevent us from getting too complacent (and hence becoming more blue pill and beta)
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:01 PM
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I remember when I had to take my dog to have him put down (cancer), and also my other dog that we used to have that we ended up giving away to another family member. Both times I had to isolate myself for a good 10 minutes and just cry my eyes out. Just thinking about both of them makes feel sad. He was a part of your family. You're grieving. It's natural.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:10 PM
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Good thing I found TRP before I met this chick I'm with. This is happening to me. I've been thinking, "wow, I'm so alpha to her" and that we mesh very well. Luckily the red pill voice in my head kept saying "AWALT. AWALT. It's too early for thinking about her as LTR material. Just carry on spinning plates" This article summed up my worries perfectly. Even when I couldn't express this same concern in writing
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 06:01 PM
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Amazing story. Mark may very well be red pill. The way he handled it was terrific. Thank you for sharing this
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:55 PM
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Honestly depends what you mean by "make it". I'm turning the corner after 6 months. I'm getting the Abundance mentality which for me is what I suffered to truly understand. Now I'm getting that, it's easier to apply red pill now, almost naturally. The amused mastery makes sense. However, I still have a long way to go. Also, if you want decent looking, dtf women. Get Tinderplus for a month in a big city and swipe away. It costs less than a drink, and if you're in a big city like me, you will reap…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:32 PM
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Fellow indian here. What do you mean follow at home? Also, don't do it for some dumb reason like looking better than your ex's ex.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:21 PM
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Last time I went to the club. I danced with a HB8, made out, felt her tits and ass, etc but was too wasted to sort the later part out. In clubbing, you dont need to say anything. Just walk up to the woman, with solid eye contact, grab her hands and pull her onto the dancefloor and dance! Granted, it takes a lot of balls to do, and I was fairly drunk. But my point is, you dont need to talk. Eye contact and projecting a confident image of yourself is all it takes. I'd say I'm above average looks w…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:12 PM
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first off, wtf is this taboo? You need to not be embarrassed by it
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:02 PM
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I don't see what the problem is. If you want a plate, who cares what she's doing when she's not with you. If you want an LTR, then don't. You've only been seeing each other 2 months. Try to keep the plate dynamic going.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:49 PM
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hey, we're all on the path of learning. I am too. I was rereading some basic side bar material to reaffirm some views and try to hold back those beta tendencies that we've been conditioned to have. I regard whatsapp as text tbh. Most of my messaging goes on there. Sometimes I will sext with girls occasionally but if it's just pointless smalltalk just read and ignore it. I got a bit too drunk with this girl yesterday (2nd date and 2 bottles of wine down) and she got emotional telling me that beca…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:45 PM
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i cringed while reading the OP. Everything was all so BP I had to wonder why he was asking on here
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:44 PM
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good method that good looking loser uses is to text something like "hey sexy" or similar. When she replies, instantly call her, ask her how shes been and then set the next date. google "good looking loser texting" and check the article out. Works like a charm. Or as /u/fnordsnord said in person is best.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:34 PM
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coffee dates are pretty cheap on top of all the parties that go on. Even just go for a walk.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:31 PM
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use texts for logistics. It honestly does wonders.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:29 PM
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ok, you're definately low on confidence/self esteem in that area. A good way to boost it is to pick up some sort of martial arts/combat sports. It's not to use it on the guy, but it's good to know if anything were to happen, you could deal with it. In this way, you won't feel uncomfortable around the guy
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:26 PM
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no, it's the opposite. Women are used to guys giving them attention 24/7 through text and social media. The fact you aren't giving her that same attention is probably making her more keen for you. Just tell her to come over and bring a bottle of wine. Then you're set for round 2!
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:40 AM
1

sounds like you want to spin plates
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:37 AM
1

just break up dude
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:32 AM
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don't worry dude, i was there at one point. I also had a major inner conflict going on. Keep reading posts and articles and eventually it will click. It's helped you along so far, you're basically just trying to fit the last pieces of the jigsaw.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:30 AM
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1) Its happened to me too, but slowly they are learning too. I havent mentioned TRP to them, but I've told them why i've been having more success recently 2) The most i've got is that they call me an "animal" now. Tbh i take it as a compliment 3) Most of my friends dont have gf's so dont have to deal with this LOL
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:25 AM
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you aint even fucked her for starters
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:22 AM
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Lmao you actually are being a bitch. Just keep it discrete. Mommy doesn't need to know
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:21 AM
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I like to think of it as a roller coaster, it's a thrill and lots of fun but it has to come to an end
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:18 AM
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Hell no. Only maybe if i had kids
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:16 AM
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21, well it started because i knew feminism was bs so i actively looked at antifeminism stuff, that led me to mgtow. They kept mentioning red pill so i looked it up and found this. I was not getting laid, not even close. TRP made me realise what i was doing wrong, 6 months later im 22, fucked 2 girls, one is now a plate, with several in the pipeline (My N count will go through the roof soon, exciting times)
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:14 AM
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thats mgtow. But idk if thats what you want buddy. Also, she's not yours, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:07 AM
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Ignore, spend as little time in the house as possible or if you're in the house just keep to yourself. Headphones, especially noise cancelling ones
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:05 AM
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From experience, you have to stand your ground and not take any shit from that guy. Go about your day and if he starts any shit, you let him know exactly what you think. or just tell him to go fuck himself or something. You have to appear strong and show no weakness.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:03 AM
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actions speak louder than words. KINO
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:48 AM
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you hit the nail on the head. She barely knows you, you want something that doesnt require much commitment. You basically want to get in her pants without committing much to it. The pendulum swings in your favour once you bed her. Then it's about maintaining frame. Then by all means try out these fun date ideas. But you still want to be fucking every time you meet.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:46 AM
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There's a difference between being an asshole and holding frame. LOL "Did I fuck her too hard" believe me she will let you know if you did that. For me, when a girl begged me to "slow down", it was the biggest ego boost ever. IMO solid frame comes from either outcome independance or abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:33 AM
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sounds like a lot of effort for someone you may not even meet. Smalltalk is best left for in person. You don't want to be proposing a first date doing hiking. Sounds like you're trying too hard or she will at least perceive it as that. If she wants to meet you then she'll at least be a bit compliant with a simple "How's your weekend looking" or "What does your schedule look like?" . For a first date coffee or drinks will do. In fact fuck doing hiking until you've fucked her a few times. You want…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:28 AM
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As a person who's been TRPing for 6 months and seeing the light at the end of the tunnel (1 ONS and another fuck this weekend which will most definitely be a plate, plus a few others who for logistical reasons I haven't fucked yet). I'll try and shed some light. I will start by saying I'm 5"9 155lbs (but <10% bf, yes im pretty fucking skinny, working on that) and Indian who just graduated from University in June. I was never an incel, but I had to come to terms with the fact I was a major beta, …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 12:08 AM
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I have to agree with this. It reminds of a comparision rsdtyler made betwee game and tit jobs. In that all the game women noticed are game because it was bad game, same with fake tits like you said.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:12 PM
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you're saying this in a place where we generalise half of the human population?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:39 AM
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Nah, I think you dealt with it well. If she's insistent on meeting guys demoting her to a plate seems reasonable
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:06 AM
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Yes. and I'm saying he fought at super middleweight which is under 168lbs and after weigh in when he's rehydrated and fed then he will be easily into the 170's. Plus froch is skinny ripped. He's still a beast mind you. Also I'd have to see pics to believe that. Im just under that weight (147) at 5"9 and Im still skinny (looking). I will qualify myself by saying I boxed last month at 132, yes thirsty, starved and bodyfat easily in single digits but a month later here I am comfortable a stone heav…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:01 AM
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and 24 hours after weigh in he's probably gained nearly a stone. You do realise boxers are dehydrated, starved, etc when they go into these weigh ins?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:04 PM
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225lbs? Surely most could do that, albeit with bad form since most people are scared of DL. 2 plates on deads is piss easy
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:51 AM
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Just like people accept children or pets for what they are and love them
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:23 AM
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No, it's definately true that if you're muscular, girls will put up with more shit that you say. Below you said this: I noticed a change in the sense they don't treat me like a complete leper (or at least passive-aggressively imply they do), they just tolerate my presence. although it didn't make up for it completely, it certainly helped. Remember the 3: Status, Looks and Game. If you have 2 of the 3 you're good to go. With the lifting you have the looks. Working on game is what you need. Since …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:20 AM
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You don't have to stop playing pokemon, heck I'm nearly 22 and I still play it but it shouldn't define who you are or be how you are perceived. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:33 PM
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could include college age too as I dont see that as too dissimilar from high school
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:30 PM
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make sure you're doing the core compound lifts: 1) Squats 2) Bench Press 3) Deadlifts 4) Barbell Rows 5) Millitary Press As a newbie at the gym especially, these lifts should take priority over the others. I said this to someone earlier today and seeing as you sound like you're going into the gym and doing random stuff I will repeat it here. Consider Stronglifts 5x5 and use that routine until you've milked it for all its gains. If you have any questions about it, feel free to reply or pm me.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:24 PM
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"It doesn't matter what your actions are, but only your thoughts count" lmao what a quote
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:59 PM
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What I love about 5x5 is that it is very simple yet very effective. The essential lifts are covered meaning the amount of learning about lifting with proper form is minimal You dont need a top of the range power rack, all it needs is a rack for the bar, and the safety bars in the case of failure. I googled "power rack" and found this. Just think how much membership for a gym will be. In the long run, something like this is a sound investment (as long as you keep lifting)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:53 PM
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First off, good to see that you want to change your life. Now, I'm new to TRP myself but I've always been in shape/into fitness through various sports so I can give you advice on that: Just start lifting. There should be a gym in your area that has barbells and a power rack and bench. That is all you will need initially. I'd recommend doing Stronglifts 5x5 to begin with and couple that with a diet rich in protein but on a calorie deficit. If there aren't any gyms around, like you said, you can m…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:21 AM
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A favourite from the comments: How many feminists does it take to screw in a lightbulb? It takes twelve: One to change the bulb. One to hold the ladder. Ten to blog about how there aren't enough women climbing the ladder.
/r/MGTOW13/04/16 10:04 AM
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Push Pull Legs is a solid program, I follow this one which is very similar to what you put up. However in the link I posted it recommended doing Starting Strength (very similar to Stronglifts) or another beginner BB routine first. Why you ask? Because something like Stronglifts gives you a base level of strength to work with. If done right, within a few months you could be up to 1/2/3 plate bench/squat/deadlift and to be honest it will push you way further than these. You can do it, but it would…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:16 PM
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I've always been a big fan of hiphop, but I'd always assume that 'that girl' was different to the 'bitches' referred to in the songs and that although I appreciated the music, they weren't people I should aspire to be like because I didn't want to attract those types of women. Oh how naive I was.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:15 PM
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where did you get that your ideal weight is 195-210lbs at 6"2? The only thing I can find to do with ideal weight is to do with this
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:03 PM
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Push Pull Legs may be what you're looking for It has the strength training elements to it as well the high volume of a bodybuilding routine. However, you are in the gym more frequently, about 5/6 times rather than 3 Also check the fitness subreddit and ask there, you may get more/better responses there
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:19 PM
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As a man in university, I agree. It's only worth going to university if it's a good university in a respected subject. It always baffles me seeing people study a pointless subject at a no name university. You're literally pissing money away
/r/MGTOW07/04/16 03:40 PM
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how so? duckface is just for the camera whereas this squinch and eye contact, when done right gives you a look like you're really focusing on what is being said. Sure in the context of the video it can be compared to duckface but in the context of this discussion it is much more
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:36 AM
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I cant help you but Im a younger british indian so I empathise with you completely. Im very curious as to how this pans out for future reference
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 10:59 PM
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This legitly looks like something a RP or mgtow user would write
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:10 PM
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If they're seeing your cock, I think at the stage they will want you regardless of size. Plus 6.5 inches is above average by quite a bit. It's not huge but it is bigger than most
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:19 AM
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That is an awesome analogy, I will have to remember that one!
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:16 AM
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First things first, list down your hobbies. What do you do outside of your studying? What is your spare time spent doing? I see below you listed these: I'm interested in trying to learn an instrument, developing electronics, hiking, travelling. But I can't for whatever reason make the time for it. For me there's always work to be done. And when I need a break I'd rather chill and browse the web. Most recently its this forum. I'll start with your excuses. I studied maths at uni, so some overlap w…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:08 AM
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I understand your situation, although they've never said this to me yet, I know my parents think the same of me. My Grandparents were living with us until they passed away and I'm sure this will be expected when they get old. However, I think I will only consider this when they're approaching old age and actually need assistance. For now it sounds like you need to leave the nest and spread your wings. You'll likely be in a phase of stagnation and never truly be independent if you stay there. If …
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:46 AM
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Holy cow, those were brutal. What's the tv show called?
/r/MGTOW18/03/16 04:24 AM
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so we agree that him joining boxing for the sake of being near more alphas is stupid right?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:31 PM
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stereotyping much? I aprreciate that boxing will attract that kind of crowd but I know plenty of people that go into boxing and are more level headed because of it. The whole "there's always someone better than you out there" argument. However, being alpha at boxing and in those areas does not in any way imply that they will be like that when it comes to women
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:42 PM
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I made a video in response to the whole Preponderance of the Evidence in reaction to reading this
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 04:59 PM
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"This is definitely my lack of abundance talking" You know, deep down, what to do
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:49 AM
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You can be angry all you want, but that won't change a thing. It's also a big drain mentally to be filled with hate and it clouds your judgement. A few things that are easier to do when you've calmed down: 1) Ask yourself why things are the way they are. Ask why are women like this and is it all biology or are there also other factors that make the path for them to become so entitled that much easier. 2) Ask yourself where you yourself have gone wrong. What can you yourself do to make the odds i…
/r/MGTOW16/03/16 05:46 AM
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I will go against the grain and recommend boxing. It sharpens your reflexes and because there's less technique to learn. I mean there's a jab, cross, hooks, uppercuts, footwork, head movement and then you just have to learn to combine them. Then this means you have to learn to think and strategize a lot more quickly rather than practicing that arm bar 100 times and still not be able to pull it off that effectively in a spar. Plus boxing is an awesome hybrid of cardio and strength training.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:00 AM
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I was going to comment on how you were being beta but then I checked the title "The problem isn't her - it's me". It looks like you've learnt from this. I like to remember the phrase "She's not yours, it's only your turn"
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:36 AM
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One word: Pussy
/r/MGTOW15/03/16 05:57 PM
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Yes, I've had girls flirt with me in the past and I would only realise when it was too late. Some are so bad that it's joked about quite frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 05:18 PM
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This never gets old
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:15 PM
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I guess you could say it will be more like a vlog. I guess my goal is just to articulate my thoughts, because what I do is I read and watch a lot of videos but I never really discuss my own thoughts. Also I think this will help me identify weak areas in my speaking in general and how I can improve my speech. Obviously it's early days so whether it becomes full on Red Pill or not is very much up in the air.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:18 PM
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Point taken about the audio. I'll sort that out first before making more videos.
/r/MGTOW15/03/16 11:14 AM
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Point taken about the mic. I'll do something about that asap!
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:13 AM
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I'm in disbelief. I know I'm still swallowing the red pill but she is actually a psycho, I would legitimately be scared if I was that guy
/r/MGTOW14/03/16 03:47 AM
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Thanks! I'll wok my way through these and take it from there!
/r/MGTOW12/03/16 03:01 PM
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As someone who's doing a masters degree in physics, I really appreciate the analogy. As soon as I read the first paragraph it clicked straight away, but i read the whole thing for completeness
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:06 AM
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