tl;dr - I failed all the shit tests, we had a kid, I failed more shit tests, she rebounded with a BB.
Now this happened from August 2011 to around now. We had been together for about 2 & 1/2 years.
The first time we had met in person (after talking for 3 months), it was implied we would be having crazy sex the moment we got to our hotel room. She got me all excited, only to POOF! Shit Test #1 Tell me last minute that she would come back first thing next morning, she "didn't want her parents to think she was that kind of woman." We eventually went on to have crazy porn star sex, she was smokin' weed with me, slurping up my jizz without restraint.
We continue to talk after I go home, she sends me some nudes. We do some web camming, it goes well most of the time until one night she Shit Test #2 randomly starts crying halfway into masturbating... We just hang up because it got pretty awkward...
We met up for a second time in my state, crazy pornstar hotel sex, everything is going good, then on day 2, she throws Shit test #3 at me. I just got out of the shower, I planned on smoking a cigarette, and out of nowhere she goes silent on me. I'm kind of shocked, confused as to what exactly is going on, I didn't do anything. I smoked my cigarette, and she's back to normal.
Now maybe I'm more Alpha than I realize lol, we moved in together eventually. She throws out porn star sex like there is no tomorrow, she's suckin' dick, enjoying being eaten out, letting me wake her up in the middle of the night, even bought me a car until...
BOOM! She's pregnant.
This is where she starts to change her demeanor. She starts being more bitchy, and giving me shit test after shit test... Maybe I retracted to beta? She wanted me to smoke weed in the bathroom, but would be upset that I was always in the bathroom smoking weed. She stopped giving me blow jobs. The sex slowly starts dwindling. She started an argument the morning we would find out if we were having a boy or a girl. I was working full time supporting us, things were OK.
Our daughter was born, she got down right shitty. We essentially had a dead bedroom, she would only put out once a month, twice if I was lucky. She had to return to work while I did the whole stay at home dad thing. I was never trusted with our daughter no matter how awesome I was. I changed diapers, I made sure she ate, her and her mother got on my case because our daughter was always sleeping (like most newborns do). They were always trying to denigrate my parenting, make me feel like I was doing it wrong, and that I had to do things THEIR WAY.
We moved into a trailer, I went back to college, our daughter was literally an "easy child". Bills were paid, baby was happy and healthy, I was getting good grades. I was the man o' that house, and I was running a damn good ship. The baby had a set schedule, slept through the night, ate tons of solids, I was drinkin', smokin' my weed, and maintaining a 3.0gpa. I had one semester to go until...
BOOM!
All hell breaks loose on summer break, we start fighting more and more over NOTHING, her parents got involved in the relationship and kept adding fuel to the fire, trying to control EVERYTHING, feeling I wasn't doing a good enough job. Well the more I resisted, the more they persisted until...
BOOM!
There was a huge fucking blow out. I left, she filed a protection order against me, falsely accusing me of abusing her and our child, that I was using multiple drugs, and she negated all of my financial support, claiming she had been supporting us... All those good times, Gone! Over night! Even though the reality was that I was a decent guy who treated her well and was a good father, she felt I was some domestically abusive violent monster who gets fucked on drugs and beats up women and children. She eliminated all of the 2 & 1/2 year relationship, and all of my contributions. I didn't get SHITTT, everything was in her name.
Of course family court fucked me real hard, they refused to hear anything I had to say, ignored hard evidence, catered to her. I JUST got off supervised visitation last fuckin' november! She was in contempt for willingly withholding visitation and they addressed it but did nothing about it. They knew she had a live in boyfriend, having our daughter calling him daddy, unphased! Family court is a fuckin' horrible place for men and children.
2 & 1/2 months after our relationship ended she met a nice new BB. Quickly moved him into her home, got engaged, and started having our daughter call him Dad/Daddy within' 6 months! She actively tries to prevent our daughter from having a relationship with me, then turns around and blames me, saying it's my responsibility not hers, never sends photos, tries to keep me out of the loop.
I suspect BB to be a rich african jew, rides around on a Street Bike, and quickly claimed on his facebook that my ex and our daughter was "HIS FAMILY" You gotta be some kinda man to want to marry a single mom fresh off a break up and embroiled in a ongoing custody battle. She's quite average in terms of looks, and he ain't no winner either.
I'm not to worried, my daughter knows EXACTLY who I am, and always gets super excited when she sees me. She literally lights up, and runs to give me a big hug.
-sigh-
Recently I've been reading TRP and I see it all lining up... like oh shit... this happened to me! this describes her PERFECTLY!!! this is exactly how things progressed & happened! :O
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