So I'm fresh off a 30 day ban after not reading the sidebar but I'm back and better than ever. Not to ask a question, but to give advice. This will be my first official post.

I find myself in a different position than most men. I am a male nursing student. 19 years old, sophomore in college. N=2 (HB6's) On the sheer basis of exposure I will be dealing with women more frequently than let's say, a construction worker. With that being said, it gives me more opportunities to see through their bullshit.

I will start with an anecdote and relate it to the bigger picture.

Once a week I visit a local hospital and perform a clinical rotation to satisfy my requirements for the nursing program (7-3). This means I wake up at 5 to leave at 6, and be on time at 7. I live on campus and so do two other girls in my class. They both have boyfriends. I will call them A and D. I hooked up with A when I was bluepill two years ago. We made out and I sucked her titties but she let me go no further. I don't really care and I almost forgot it even happened. Anyways she is a HB 6.5 and D is 7. A is going for a minor in women's studies. She is also in a LTR with D's older brother. How are they friends? I have no idea. I would not be able to deal with you knowing that you are banging my brother. Anyways....

All these bitches do is complain. All they do is talk about how they didn't get enough sleep. Obviously. You went to sleep at 1230 and woke up at 5. Of course for breakfast they were drinking frappucinos. All they do is talk about OMG how am I gonna get through this day. All they talk about is the naps that they are going to take when they get back from the hospital.

Meanwhile I go directly to the gym after my shift, feeling better than ever. They ask me how do I do it. How do I remain calm. I want to tell them it's because I'm not a lazy bitch. Instead I say something along the lines just like, "Just appreciate your current situation"

I don't use logic on these bitches. I realize that they are creatures of emotion and that my rational brain is a bit too much for them to handle.

Fast forward, I had a fairly good day at the hospital, and we're driving back. D spends the entire car ride talking about her pregnancy scare. They are both on birth control. I remain non-judgmental and I'm just like hey, if you get down like that I'm not judging. They call each other sluts and talk about head and anal. These bitches are just weird.

I am not the best at telling stories or writing but I will improve with experience. The point I wanted to get to is that women are highly impulsive. Real men plan ahead. They do not complain. We have an agenda, and we are going to get shit done. The bottom line is this; nobody is ever going to feel sorry for you. I deal with people who have worse life situations than most of you. Last week I had two patients; A 38-year old gay man with HIV, and a 97 year old Holocaust survivor (he still had his tattoo)

The point is this. There are three things you should aspire for in life. Health, Wealth, and Happiness. These things will make you an independent man. Don't get caught up in your feelings. Yes, we all go through shit. We all lose loved ones. We all grieve.

But you have to realize that the immense pain you feel in the present is what will make you a hardened man.

Bitches are okay with being mediocre. They all know deep down that they have until 30 to find a beta bucks. They know that they get the spoils of war. They know that they don't have to fight for their survival because one way or another, daddy will take care of it. She is a princess. Better yet, some idiot she is fucking will pay her bills. Better yet, a beta orbiter will buy her gifts. The shit never ends.

Men, when is the last time somebody bought you an unwarranted gift?

The answer is most likely not recently, or never.

And you should be happy about that.

I take great pride in the fact that nothing in my life will ever be handed to me. I was born to be a hustler. To bust my ass in school, in the gym, and when times get tough.

Stop seeking validation. Find it within yourself. You are a man. You have the potential to be great.

Of course, it is easier said than done.

But I promise you; if you stop making excuses, and you stop being lazy, this world will be your pearl. You won't get mediocre results.

You will get extraordinary results.

I hate to say it, but the grind never stops.

Today should not have been easy for you. Tomorrow should not be easy either.

Every day you wake up, you have a choice to work hard, to get one step closer to your goals. You have nobody else to blame but yourself.

Men; do something great. Never forget your value.

It is infinite.