So I'll state my case (ignore my user name). I've had a Chinese gf for 6 months and for a while things were going downhill. She was in the dominant role and I was submissive. We went out and always did her stuff whether it was restaurants markets or any other place. I tried to argue my way out of this but she didn't respond to logic. Its like she assumed it has to be her way or no way whenever we did anything together.

But in a surprise I kind of stumbled upon a cure and i didn't realise a t the time how it worked.

Well what happened was that we went to her place and she says she never let any guy have sex with her there. But I kept pressing to do it anyway. I tried all the messing around in bed to get her panties off to fuxk her. This is different to how we usually do it, usually its a big routine with me having to take a shower before, her getting to decide the positions in bed ( and her 'moving' more ie kind of keeping my dick passive while she cums). Anyway overall I was really aggressive on bed this time.

In the end she didn't let me bang her but it's like her attitude changed. She was OK with playing pool after this which she never agreed to before and even seemed happy with me beating her. Almost like we switched roles.

And I think that was what happened, like a redpill revelation - I dominated her hard in bed and she was super sweet and a great girl after that, her personality improved dramatically.