New term, Hypergamophagy, credits to u/TheLastMgtow

GayBlackNerd · 2019-08-01T04:42:31+00:00

That's next level.

I've seen this happen many times, even seeing a girl put CP on her husband's computer and calling the police so that he would be labeled a sex offender. He can't even see his kids...

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-08-01T06:16:19+00:00

https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS. Thank me later

gtowerthrowaway · 2019-08-01T04:46:09+00:00

Not sure I buy this.

Women are cruel to exes, but the truth is that if you're not her current lover or someone that otherwise benefits her, you mean literally nothing to her. You're like a bum on the street with an outstretched hand.

Guys feel love more deeply than women, so the treatment strikes us as unnecessarily cruel. Just a month ago, I was banging her every way from Tuesday, and now she couldn't care less.

An interesting concept though. If anyone has some examples from nature, I'm willing to consider this.

sootlord · 2019-08-01T11:02:40+00:00

This is a fresh red pill. Thanks for sharing this, reminds me of what my ex tried doing to me.

MethaCat · 2019-08-01T09:31:33+00:00

This is terrifying, specially because it makes sense on a competitive evolutionary context (in which we live in).

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2019-08-01T04:53:26+00:00

Hence, MeToo.

RedPillConfessions- · 2019-08-01T05:38:22+00:00

Good way to put hypergamy.

Aposematicly · 2019-08-01T05:46:57+00:00

Not quite praying mantis level ... yet

KneeDeepThought · 2019-08-01T12:56:13+00:00

Excellent grab OP thanks for sharing. The world makes so much more sense when viewed through the unflinchingly cruel but true lens of evolutionary psychology and selfish genetics.

MAJIIC · 2019-08-01T17:07:37+00:00

This connects a lot of dots. Let's pin this or something. This should honestly be in Rolo's book. Someone should bring up the concept to him when he streams.

[deleted] · 2019-11-26T00:57:40+00:00

You don't have to wait a generation for the effect to make sense. It's not (only) about competition from the kids of a previous mate. For a woman, any man is either a useful tool or a dangerous enemy.

Men are either useful or creepy

You see, from the eyes of Hypergamy there are only three kinds of men:

AF (the current best option for sex)
BB (harmless men that can be exploited for resources)
Creeps (all other men, the "useless")

If you are not fit enough to be AF and not compliant enough to be BB, you are a creep.(I am not trying to insult anybody with this, just describing how I see the game theory)

Women will test the AFs for fitness and try to please them if they prove worthy. They will alternate between flattering and scolding the BBs to keep them providing resources without sex. And they will try to absolutely destroy the creeps in their vicinity.

Creeps are useless because they cannot replace either an AF or a BB. If they could, they would not be creeps. They are dangerous because they can still win in the short term by luck, or deception.

In prehistoric times, a creep can always find a time to kill the AF. Then the creep is still not strong enough to fully replace him. So the woman loses her AF. If she takes the creep as a replacement, she makes a suboptimal hypergamic choice.

The creep can also deceive the woman about his SMV and get her pregnant with his weak genes. Then the woman makes a suboptimal hypergamic choice.

Or the creep could just outright rape the woman. If she gets pregnant, she is forced into a suboptimal hypergamic choice.

If many creeps band together, they can take control of the group and make rules that force women to be with them on their terms. Then the women are forced into a suboptimal hypergamic choice.

All these scenarios still exist in modern times

School shooters a basically modern creeps that kill the AF.
Incels are hated because they think about it.

PUAs are hated because they fit the model of the deceptive creep.

Rapists are what they have always been.

Far-right and religious extremists are always recruiting creeps to overthrow society.
MRAs are hated because they seem like a light version of that.
MGTOW are disliked because they seem like a passive and individualistic version of that.

So for a woman, it actually makes sense on some level to deeply hate creeps, out of fear of these scenarios.

Example of hypergamophagy

From the general theory, we now get to the point of hypergamophagy. Any woman will first try to stay away from creeps. Her chosen partner will be some mix of AF/BB. She will then try to push him towards compliance to her needs and wants.

If he is successful in his life and she is satiable, both could find a reasonably happy arrangement now.

What if he suffers a stroke of fate, loses frame and shows weakness? Or another man shows interest in her and raises the bar? He could be disqualified as an AF for lack of respect from her.

What if his career takes a hit and he cannot buy what she wants? Or he decides to refuse her increasing demands? He could be disqualified as a BB for lack of generosity to her.

If he fails mildly or only in one role, he might be replaced and put on the back burner in case her monkey branch does not work out.

If he is disqualified fully from both roles, he would become useless in her eyes. Then he is by definition a creep. Neither AF nor BB. An obstacle and a constantly lurking danger to her hypergamy. She is now close to a creep and cannot bear it. To her it is like sitting next to a rabid dog. She is now led by the visceral hatred of creeps that protected her in the stone age. She must either:

Get away instantly
Make him leave instantly
Make him harmless

Physically leaving is not easy during divorce court proceedings. And there is always the danger that he might try to win her back and try to get close to her. So she must make him so weak that he poses no possible threat to her subconscious anymore. She will now make him suffer in every way she can, until either his spirit breaks or her perception changes or the separation is completed.

Other examples

This is where the feminist thought process originates. The fish don't need bicycles. They only need AF/BB, (entertainers and slaves,) so average men with a spine are just useless creeps to them. A constant danger that needs to be neutralized. So they push acceptance for all behavior that makes men weak, calling it "empowering". (Praising someone for weakness is a typically female type of psychological attack.) And they call everything that might strengthen average men "toxic" and conflate it with actual antisocial behavior.

As soon as a BB "ally" actually dares to openly want sex, he is not harmless and compliant anymore. So he leaves the BB role and is called a creep. The only thing that differentiates a BB from a creep is his outward obedience. By this metric, all BBs are secretly creeps. This is exactly what pop culture tells us about male sexuality.

Women are surrounded by creeps most of their lives. This causes a visceral disgust in them, so it makes sense that many express a constant fear of getting raped. Rape culture actually exists, as a constant fear in their collective unconscious. In a futile attempt to banish that fear, they want to make the BBs even more harmless slaves by forbidding any expression of sexual intent from them. That is incidentally what is happening in workplaces right now. Where next?

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Men are usually neutral towards useless men and warm (if sad) towards past lovers.
Women tilt towards enmity.

This is an attempt to describe why women sometimes try to destroy men, especially past lovers, with seemingly irrational hatred. There might be an evolutionary reason for that strong hatred, rooted in the stone age danger of useless men.

It is trouble to be viewed as a useless man. That is why people don't talk about MGTOW.

ITrollRedditEveryDay · 2019-08-01T13:48:25+00:00

Woah some new content dank

CAYF · 2019-08-01T23:30:39+00:00

Fuck. This concept blew my mind.

New term, Hypergamophagy, credits to u/TheLastMgtow

Comments

Revelation: women don’t hate men in the way they claim (that we’re “physically threatening”); women hate men because of our genetic multiplier.

Men are either useful or creepy

All these scenarios still exist in modern times

Example of hypergamophagy

Other examples

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Title	New term, Hypergamophagy, credits to u/TheLastMgtow
Author	RICHIESCO12
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Date	August 1, 2019 4:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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