This seems to me more of a bullshit accusation. The way she is putting it like he held her hostage and she is at risk. I think she is just piling up “evidence” to use in future court hearings

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-07-30T09:10:44+00:00

Fiest of all, OP, Don't link to that subreddit directly. We don't want a bunch of whining children come here to tell us how "misomimistic" we are.

Now, in this interesting story, one of the following two things are at play here :

1) This story is somewhat true (I have strong suspicion about it not being true tho).

So, why can't she leave him? Because, even though she says that she can't tolerate him and hates him, in reality she is fully addicted to him and actually subconciously attracted to him a lot. Her inherent nature makes her like him for his "rude/violent" behavior. In fact, that's what she likes about him the most.

Her hamster spins at light speed when the guy exercises his dark triad.

Women feel attracted the most towards the Dark Triad Personality Traits. And it seems this guy has it figured, completely. He is a full fledged IDGAF guy with a strong Abundance mentality. In her Eyes, he is violent, rude, unpredictable, exciting, in short, the literal "bad boy" in her eyes. Whenever he exercises his nature, she becomes resentful, but at the same time her hamster spins at light speed to make her addicted and attracted towards him. She does not understand why it happens, of course, as a female mind can't go beyond a certain point when it comes to logic (females primarily use Emotional Reasoning).

So even though she wants to leave, she won't, does not matter what happens. Because biologically and psychologically she is addicted to him, completely.

2) The second possibility is, she is lying about the whole thing and actually is just looking for validation on the internet. In short, nothing like this happened and her hamster is trying to rationalize her wrongdoings by painting the man as the "violent monster" and herself as "the Damsel in Distress".

In short, that post is just a poorly written script for a short film that went wrong.

As soon as she feels she is wronged, she started making that script of stupidity.

TheUltimateThug · 2019-07-30T09:12:08+00:00

As a sheriffs deputy, I love when people assume that we beat our wives and girlfriend because apparently we’re power tripping murderers. With that being said this sounds like bullshit. I get that it’s easy to write something off as fake, but this? It sounds like a poorly written script for a movie about police brutality. The clique (evil cop) super villain. The last officer that tried to pull this shit at my department got fucking crucified. So realistically, the husband will have to make a post about what REALLY happened. She’s likely blowing everything out of proportion because she FEELS wronged. On top of that I always tell new officers not to get married. She only sees the Uniform and not the man in the uniform. You guys think your average joe has to worry about false allegations? Cops literally train for false allegations. Example above. Sad thing is I put my life on the line to protect people who hate me. Love being a cop. 👍

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-07-30T07:25:10+00:00

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My husband (m, 32) and I (f, 28) have been together 8 years. We have two children my sons are 7 and 4. I am starting to feel very depressed and I don’t know what to do. I feel like he’s gonna break me and I just won’t care anymore. I’m so scared of him sometimes my hands shake when he’s around. I can’t explain why it’s just him. His voice the way he stands everything he’s always on the defense. I’ve been taking pills and drinking too much for years trying to live through the pain. I just am holding on to threads of hope because sometimes he can be a very good husband and I just want him like that all the time. He just sees even the tiniest disagreement to be me “disrespecting” him. He thinks I’m talking back if I say anything else then “yes” or “no”. He manipulates me and I can’t fight it I just end up crying in his chest. My happiness depends on whether he wants to let me have it or not.

He thinks I belong at home. I do everything I cook and clean and take care of our children. He gives me no help because he “works hard”. He tells me I wasn’t made to work so I don’t understand. And even though my husband pays our children dust 80% of the time, he still acts like they’re his more then mine. He will say, “my son” on purpose just to annoy me. My husband also does not like me speaking to people. He says I’m a people pleaser and I can’t read people like he can. He doesn’t even let me talk to my own father hardly because he thinks my father hates cops. I don’t even trust myself anymore I just rely on my husband for everything. I cry to him all the time even though he’s the one making me cry. I wouldn’t tell him that but still I want comfort from him.

He has no trust in me. He accuses me of flirting even though I’m just being nice. He even said the other day I was looking at the mailman for too long. I do everything possible to not look at or talk to other men but no matter what I do, he finds a problem. He will come home to just “check” on me. He follows me. He has a tracker on my car and he has my phone tapped.

He will lock me in our bedroom or bathroom with him and berate me for hours. He calls me a whore, a slut, a bitch. He always wants me to ambit to doing things I didn’t or feeling things I don’t. He won’t let me sleep or leave or anything till he’s satisfied.

I hardly ever say no to my husband. He will say things like he can go to other women if I don’t have sex with him. And I know he’s cheating on me anyway, he leaves in the night and says he’s going to work if I ask but I don’t believe him.

My husband has hit me before but not too often. I hardly ever have bruises he can inflict a lot of pain on me and not leave a mark. But once in a while he is careless and he leaves them. He never apologizes when he touches me like this, he tells me it’s my fault for “escalating” and “provoking him”. He will only say he’s sorry through buying me flowers or gifts and saying he loves me. Sorry is just not in his vocabulary. He tells me I’m lucky and I don’t know what abuse is.

Another thing I despise is that my husband is inseparable from his gun. He will never not have it. And if we are arguing or I do something he doesn’t like he will toy with it. I just hate that he could kill me at any moment and he knows it. One time he was drunk and made us play one sided Russian roulette. I really will never forget this it almost made me hate him.

Part of me really wants to leave him but I know can’t. One time when he beat me particularly bad like a year and a half ago for trying to leave him our neighbors called the cops. And nothing happened to my husband. He didn’t get arrested or in trouble at work or anything. They told us to “work it out”. My husband will kill me he constantly reminds me that I made a vow till death do us part, he has told me he would rather see me dead then with another man.

I have no idea what I can do. Or if I can even bring myself to leave him I’m addicted to him. But I know I should. I think I am trapped for life.

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