The aim of this post is to outline the problems newborn alfas have when attempting to have a red LTR after spinning plates for a while. It is all about understanding that it is never safe to get complacent.

Women. In the beginning of a relationship , they all cook and clean. They all fuck you daily. They see you as a high SMV male and would love to do anything to please you. Do not make the mistake of thinking that this girl is exceptional. Women are supposed to do that. All of the women I have seriously dated after becoming red have cooked , cleaned and fucked me daily. Try doing that experiment if you think that your first serious red relationship is anything exclusive.

The problem comes when we start speaking of maintaining their will to do shit for you in the long run when you have not done it before.

A great strategy is to start ordering them from the beginning of the relationship while also managing her perception of you as a high status man during the years. Tell her to cook rice and broccoli. Bring some exotic fruits , tell her she is making fruit salad. Buy the products needed for your favorite meal and tell her you are teaching her how to do it. Tell her you are taking her to X at Y. Tell her what to wear when you are visiting her. Oh , she organized something? Tell her to wear lip gloss at that certain thing she organized.

You need to invest in making her the woman you want her to be. But do not neglect your SMV since she is doing everything for you. You may be the concrete leader but her perception of you is volatile and will never be concreted. She is just a woman. You need to keep lifting , socializing and managing your status , keeping it high and bumping it higher.

Reward , dont pedestalize. She cooked this? Good girl. She did that? That's my woman. It does not even have to be verbal. A kiss or a smack on the ass can also do the job perfectly.

The more she fucks you , the less you dread her. But having daily sex does not mean that you should not dread her at all. Passive dread is your friend , use it sparingly when needed. Also , the greater sexual things she does for you , the more comfort you give afterwards.

We are human , we all make mistakes. You became complacent and things are going downhill? Learn from it. This is not the end of your life or your relationship. Just jump back in the game with a wiser mind and a stronger frame.