Destroyed by a feminist woman who abandoned me for a criminal

richbeezy · 2019-02-01T16:46:38+00:00

Hanging out with Leftists will only result in shit like this. There is a reason why society was the way it was for hundreds and thousands of years, because it worked. Now the left is trying to reverse all of the progress society has made by coming up with all this “open relationship” bull shit.

You see the results, now fucking run away like you’re life depends on it and never look back.

MadRussian07 · 2019-02-01T16:35:19+00:00

Not going to insult you but for now on focus on your own goals and self improvement dude

redditappiphone · 2019-02-01T16:45:25+00:00

Yeah early 20s are tough dude women start to find older men with assets are more attractive and attainable. Focus on you on your 20s and dude by your 30s you’re in control of your own sexual/female interactions. Not sure who said it but read it on here. “ women aren’t there for the hustle or the grind, they hang out at the finish line for the winners” just the world we live in play the game well my reddit friend.

user_miki · 2019-02-01T16:54:59+00:00

Why you seek validation in a woman and not yourself?Where is your independence?

This is another classic AF and BB.She did to you a favor by dumping you.Take the red pill and move on.Put yourself first always.

This is MGTOW we shun women.

histrybuff1066 · 2019-02-01T17:01:22+00:00

From the limited info you provided. It looks like this.

A. She suffers from borderline personality disorder/ narcissistic disorder ( look it up groups here in reddit of people that have been abused by these personalities.

B. Because u realized there is something wrong with all this but still can let go, you compromise with her on anything in order to stay with her. You probably suffer from codependency. Caused by core trauma from your childhood from ur parents specially mom.

C. U are young. Don't date stay away from leftist woman. They esmaculate man. Your thinking is part of s brainwashing campaign that has been going on in the west for years and years on the schools media ect. Open ur mind to other political ideas read history and look at present failed examples of leftist states. Venezuela , Cuba. North korea. And yes the eu..

D. Btw. Ur are not in love. It is an addition to either sex etc real healthy love is a two way street of caring and and empathy. Where there is no way ur partner would hurt you.

E. Stop playing che guevara, look how he ended up. Btw I know about all the above, I was born in Cuba, I am a recovering codependent, i have seen with my own eyes what socialism leftist views destroy like a cancer. Including women like this.

We all have to learn our own lessons in life. Without interference. Let her follow hers even if it is to her own detriment. You cannot change others. You can only change yourself.

F. The last thing., there is a lot of truths. Regarding what mgtow. Will tell you about women. I have seen it time and time again if u let women have control over u. You will suffer. My only successful relationship. Was with a women that provided good advice. Did not try to take over, and in the end realized you were the leader.

All this brainwashing started with ur mom. Pls read actual studies in psychology etc read read

Fix yourself not her.

N19864 · 2019-02-01T17:27:09+00:00

You are a leftist, there's your first mistake. You dated a feminist, there's the second mistake. You warn her that she is attracted to destructive men, but you do not see your own attraction to destructive women. That's your third mistake. You accept an open relationship, and thus devalue yourself in your own eyes as well as hers. No man with an ounce of self-respect would accept such a relationship, never-mind his "partner". Are you willing to raise someone else child thinking it was yours?

Through out history of mankind, no man worth a grain of salt would accept what you accepted. What is wrong with you? Learn to respect yourself. If a woman thinks she is in charge, expect her to lose respect and love for you and watch as her hypergamous nature kick in at full throttle. And the sex will dry up.

If that thug suddenly begun treating her like the way you treated her, she will lose interest in him in a heartbeat. She is currently attracted to him because he is masculine, though destructive and perverse in his form, but masculine never the less. You are, on the other hand, a cuck.

I find it normal for a man to wanna have a girlfriend in his life that will one day probably give him kids and build a family together.

There's no problem with that. Most would but few would avoid it current climate.

Work on yourself and learn some self-respect.

ThaiEscapePlan · 2019-02-01T17:14:21+00:00

"it's not you, it's me." Seriously. I guess Seinfeld was dubbed into Greek.

Buddy, have you spent any time on this sub?

Alpha fucks/beta bucks?

Women stating Ted Bundy is hot? The same Ted Bundy who would have sex with his dead female victims for days after? Who would have sex with their severed heads?

All the women who send love letters and sexy pictures to murderers in prison?

Women have the hots for criminals/dangerous guys. You got lucky. You learned a lesson early in life. Women can be toxic and make stupid life decisions for tingles.

If you want to settle down and have a family, wait until your 30s and have your life sorted out. and choose wisely. your future self would never have selected this woman as a life partner.

best of luck to you and focus on yourself.

mamny83 · 2019-02-01T17:16:46+00:00

Cuck.... Hopefully you grow out of your leftist sjw mentality and become a man one day.

PlantsAreAliveToo · 2019-02-01T18:32:53+00:00

She told me she loves me still and maybe one day things will get back to normal again.

Let me translate that for you. "She considers you as backup plan if all else fails".

You are her safety net. She will pursue every avenue available to her to get a better mate, but if all else fails she still wants you around to provide for her children while she betrays you behind your back.

lostapwbm · 2019-02-01T17:19:47+00:00

I try to get over her but she cannot get out of my mind.I'm still concerned for her despite what she did and I fear what this guy might do to her...

You're not a pussy. You're just an 20-year-old average guy who doesn't have the ability to righteously not give a fuck about a woman yet.

Let me explain her behavior first. She's a young fertile female, which means that her genes are driving her to seek the fittest male in terms of resources and/or protection for her offspring possible, which in the hunter-gatherer level at which humans are still more or less operating, the male who is most comfortable with bashing other males in the head with a fucking rock. So when she sees Anarchist fuck-boy rioting and doing whatever shit he does, her pussy is getting wet. Women, generally don't do violence and will actively avoid immediate danger to themselves, but they are sexually attracted to violence because it is an indicator of genetic fitness and capacity to protect them and their offspring. And females, across multiple species, use sex to enlist males to support and protect them.

But more important than that is Anarchist fuck-boy gives her direction. He has a total worldview in which she is a part, not the center. Women derive security and confidence from being just a part of a larger whole. Basically, she is just a part of his plan, even if his plan is fucked up, so she doesn't have to come up with one of her own.

I'm still concerned for her despite what she did and I fear what this guy might do to her , like I said he's mentally unstable , I cannot seem to grasp how she fell for that guy despite his reputation(other women have too).

Exactly. Because other women have too, now it's her turn. And what a triumph it would be for her if her pussy was the one that finally tamed the savage, Anarchist fuck-boy.

Yes I know you will tell me to move on but I still have feelings for this girl and I desperately want her to come back.

Why? Is there something on her that none of the other 3 billion women have?

She told me she loves me still and maybe one day things will get back to normal again.

What does her 'love' include, other than giving you the same pussy she gave to other men?

maruthescruffydog · 2019-02-01T17:56:53+00:00

Yes it's because women want real man and not Soyboy nice guy, cuck faced male feminist manginas despite what you think and what they tell you .now enjoy the hell that you have help create with your leftie progressive polictics and don't cry here and your type is worse than them as you enable them and sell your own sex out for a wiff of pussy.

thearmchairwarrior · 2019-02-01T19:39:38+00:00

Leftism is for retards. I'm sorry there is no such thing as equality among anyone or sexes etc..

People are not born all the same, same height or intelligence etc... But People should be judge the same by law.

Problem with leftist is you think everyone has the same abilities etc... Which is not true lol. I want to play in the NBA, but not going to happen lol. I'm not monstrously tall :p.

Point is the whole left thing makes no sense at all.

If people can't pay taxes, they shouldn't have a say in what to do with tax money! instead leftist force tax payers to listen the majority of lazy non working people. This is why the west is failing. Forcing productive people to listen to lazy socialist sons of bitches. Who leech of society ie tax payers.

Men pay for their lazy ex wives for doing nothing. They are paying them for ever and ever. Same goes for lazy workers in the EU. who can't be fried or be paid a kings ransomed.

Greece is a liberal/communist/socialist shit hole.

Sooner you get rid of your liberal leftist mentality. The better you'll be. Once you realize what a shit leftism is. You'll realize women didn't earn their rights. Rights come with responsibly. Instead women in the west got rights but no responsibility for those same rights.

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-02-01T17:19:57+00:00

She doesn’t love you. She might love what you can provide, and if she comes back into your life, remember you were the backup plan. You would be reduced to a provider, and no matter how much you provide, someone on her Facebook is being provided for more, and you will never measure up.

Also, you don’t love her. Not the real her. You love the fantasy image she helped you cultivate in your mind. The real her is trash. If you are willing to open your eyes and take a hard, honest look, you’ll be glad you got away.

PhantomCowboy · 2019-02-01T18:39:21+00:00

this kind of bad experience is normal at your age. don't focus on women. do focus on your career.

stent00 · 2019-02-01T20:07:27+00:00

Remember... Shes not yours... It was just you turn. now move along and get her out of your mind. concentrate on your studies

Disbursed-operant · 2019-02-01T20:25:47+00:00

Ok. Politics aside.

The cold analysis:

She is using you as a beta orbiter. Once the bad boy is done with her, she'll come looking for a safe space for a while until she decides to try and monkey branch again. It's called hypergamy and it's just how women are.
You're both leftists, and in another discussion I'd be happy to discuss political consequences that could arise from that, but here I digress and say you are much more likely to experience a harrassment lawsuit, metoo fiasco, or false rape allegation from a leftist feminist.
Your urge to have a family can go two ways. You can either accept that your role will be that of a provider for her and your kids, and that will have to be the satisfaction you gain in life. A servant. If she leaves, you still pay her. If she stays, you pay. If she is unfaithful and ungrateful for what you provide her, you pay. And at the end what is your legacy? A hole in the ground or an urn with your ashes that people will look at every now and then? But if that's what you want, it is a choice you can make.
I would encourage you to abandon this voluntary slavery and begin to focus on yourself. You have to free yourself from ideology, especially if you're in the "social justice" crowd. That's important because mgtow is about focusing on you, and not bending yourself to the ever-changing rules of others and always maintaining agreement. Mgtow will let you talk to whoever you want to talk to, about whatever topic you want and not care if they call you names. Mgtow will have you focused on your physical fitness, your education, and your financial success. The legacy you leave is a path for others to follow after a life of success.

I hope that helps a bit.

jacketguy · 2019-02-02T03:43:22+00:00

u have a soul tie .. try to break it

ilikerelish · 2019-02-02T10:37:39+00:00

Let me give you the breakdown. You were her toy. In the beginning you were new, interesting, and exciting. The sex was good and plentiful because of this, though she wanted to remain open to bang others (red flag). As the relationship blossomed you became boring, and over time you became 'beta bux' in her mind. A good stable provider of attention, emotional support (tampon), and finance. In becoming that, she knew that she had you, but sexually having all of that and your obedience made you repugnant to her. The sex became weekly because it was "duty sex" just to keep you appeased, she wanted nothing to do wirh you sexually anymore. When a woman ( particularly leftist or feminist) reaches this point in a relationship, she needs excitement, she wanrs to feel that same rush that aroused her with you in the beginning. Just like a child with a toy, she needed a new toy. The anarchist is the new toy. He is dark, mysterious, even dangerous. She wants that newness, challenge, and excitement to last as long as possible, and he is perfect for that because he is an unfeeling, dangerous beast. I would not doubt that he is her exclusive sex partner, while she may not be his. The thing is... the moment they hooked up the first time the clock began ticking. She will leave him too eventually. If she ever manages to tame him, as she did you, it will be over just as quickly as it was with you, and she will probably use the same cliche lines. If she cannot tame him, then she will still leave when she sees that he will never be stable enough to support her. This is where you must feel sorry for him. She will likely claim, when she is ready to abandon him, that he was abusive or a rapist destroying his life. She may still be in the "cock carousel" stage in her life and move on to the next, but as she approaches 30 -35 she is going to want stability over drama and danger. She will try to find yet another man to tame. If she fails to find one because she is past her prime, that is where her civility toward you come into play. She wants to keep you interested at arms length as a back up plan. If the cock carousel bucks her odd into 'the wall' she wants to know that she can slide down it into your awaiting arms, and have you a provider if she gets desperate later.

That is what your story tells me. There is no shame in it. Generations of men before you fell for these tricks. You are no different, or worse; just another man duped by another woman. There is salvation for you though. You have been through it, and have the presence of mind to question it. Many men don't ever question and go right back into the game just as ignorant as before. By questioning you acknowledge that something is wrong, even if you don't know exactly what. There is hope for you yet.

What to do from here? First stay out of her life, and keep her out of yours. If you were not good enough for her before, then she is not good enough for you now or in the future. There will always be another vagina available to you if you want it (especially as you become established in a career and life), and the love you shared, that was just an illusion she presented to you, that only exists for a very select few. If it is truely love, you will only know it on your deathbed when she hasn't betrayed you (even then it is uncertain). Focus all of your energy on building a respectable career, a great life, and general enjoyment in your life. Care for your health, and find friends who appreciate you. Take up hobbies in things you are passionate about. Do not let this woman or any other derail you from this path. If you want to fuck, do it. Just be very careful that you can prove it was consentual, and don't be foolish enough to catch feelings again. It is all an act to enslave you. Whereas you may love them, they will never love you back the same way.

REMAINSkull · 2019-02-01T17:34:55+00:00

if you don’t get her out of your mind you will lose all manhood and be a CUCK. Respect yourself more than a piece of walking and talking flesh. You are speaking about this woman and “i want to have a legacy” as if you’re 80 years old and you have no life left, wake up and realize that you’re only in your twenties, there is no rush. only women have to

MrStone1 · 2019-02-01T17:50:36+00:00

That guy she started fucking

He's an undercover cop

He isn't a psycho, His job is to go in there and fuck hippies!

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2019-02-01T20:35:21+00:00

And now you know to leave a woman when she says shit about “polygamy” or “open relationship”. That just means she’s cuckolding you.

tuxaioonoma · 2019-02-01T20:56:32+00:00

Φίλε, όντας και εγώ στην ηλικία σου, καταλαβαίνω πόσο δύσκολο είναι να ξεκολλήσεις από μια κοπέλα, ειδικά όταν είχατε και δύο χρόνια σχέση. Θέλοντας να είμαι πλήρως ειλικρινής μαζί σου, όσα σου είπε στο χωρισμό είναι ψέματα και θα σε έχει μόνο ως καβάντζα. Δυστυχώς, οι γυναίκες στην ηλικία μας (μέχρι και τα 30) ζητούν την "περιπέτεια" και, γι' αυτό στρέφονται προς το "κακά" παιδιά. Καλά έκανες και την έκοψες τελείως από τις επαφές σου.

Η συμβουλή μου, όπως και των υπολοίπων μελών της κοινότητας, είναι να δώσεις προτεραιότητα στον ΕΥΑΤΟ σου και να πραγματοποιήσεις που στόχους που έχεις θέσει.

witheringslights · 2019-02-02T03:02:44+00:00

I feel sorry for her. Psychopaths can have a startling hold on some women. She is under a kind of spell, and possibly isn't aware of it. I can't explain it either, but as OP points out, dudes like that are invariably successful with women. It's deeply and profoundly sad, but I doubt she can be helped.

OP has to drop all contact, though possibly warn her parents, if they are around. She may listen to them.

DubsPackage · 2019-02-02T12:15:51+00:00

This is a very simple problem.

Spend time with friends, your dog, your parents, your family, other people, other women.

It will help you to move on.

Try not to be bitter.

What you are feeling is "puppy love" and "puppy heartbreak."

It's just your youthful hormones making lovey-dovey feelings.

I know it hurts, but you'll gradually get over it.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-02-01T16:42:26+00:00

Girls like this know they are psychopaths and want a man as evil and psychopathic as her....She looks like an evil woman who needs an evil man she can control and use! She could not use you to kill or steal for her...

Women only see power....Women are amoral creatures who don't care about morality or truth!

[deleted] · 2019-02-01T17:29:21+00:00

Cut all communication, for good. Stop going to politics meetings as you don’ t control any of it. Going there only diminishes your dominance. Work on the three: your fields where you will excel -career, hobbies, studies. Your looks - hit the gym and buy new clothes to see your sexual worth go up. Save money and get things you want... this will boost your overall significance and you will stop feeling like shit in a few years. For now all that cortisol will help you move forward.

deathtocontrollers · 2019-02-01T18:21:03+00:00

Hello guys , before you all lash out to me let me tell you that I'm a beta male and a pussy and a cuck and everyone's been telling me that so far , I can handle insults , I found these communities a few days ago and I have been destroyed by a woman so here's my story ;

If you decide to become a rational human being one day and grow a spine, your simp sins will be forgiven.

We started as an open relationship and we both agreed that there would be no problem for us to sleep with other people as well(she insisted on that) until last year which we went exclusive.

Are you descended from the ancient Spartans?

She started by telling me that her sex drive has gone down , that it's probably her hormones going crazy as usual and I agree with her.

She fucked men she sees as superior to you in every way and she stopped being attracted to you.

kaldariaq · 2019-02-01T19:21:36+00:00

This is the right place for you. Find something in your life that you can validate yourself by.

Do not let women be your source of validation.

mentalidade_logica · 2019-02-01T19:32:32+00:00

Your presence here is your first step to self-healing, congrats!

"...she said she loved me and even though she slept with other guys..."

In my younger days we called women like that SLUTS - period, VD carriers! Definitely not someone you want to bring home to meet Moma.

ulfasar · 2019-02-01T19:33:28+00:00

First of all you should read some older posts or frequent posts in this subreddit IMO. We shun women, we are not trying to befriend or date them. Most of us been there, done that, gone through the frustration you recently felt over and over again. We are sick of their lies and all, they’re not worth the sex you get in the end.

You’re not alone I know exactly how you feel my friend, you should just forget about that girl and move on YOUR own way, that feeling will pass in 3-4 months. That girl says she still loves you cause you’re now her one of the backup men, if things go wrong with that psycho, she will text you and say she want you back to dump you back. Don’t let her!

All women are like your girlfriend, trust me. There’s no exception, sadly. If you still consist of having more girls to fuck you should check theredpill but I don’t think it will help. BUT, please forget about marrying them. Example is better than precept anyway. Hope you get over it.

VIETnamPTSD · 2019-02-01T21:33:37+00:00

yes I know you will tell me to move on but I still have feelings for this girl and I desperately want her to come back.

Well she ain't coming back, it's fucking over and you know it. But in 10 years she's the one that wants you "desperately" back because she needs financial support. I hope for your that in 10 years you'll have the balls to tell her to fuck off.

like I said he's mentally unstable

She is the one that is mentally unstable.

The universe is giving you the chance to dodge a bullet. Do you want to get hit by a bullet Neo?

Like I said most people call me a pussy and I can accept this

you shouldn't.

It's normal for a man to wanna have a girlfriend in his life that will one day probably give him kids

Those won't be yours Neo.

Btw, you have been dating a self-proclaimed feminists that only let you have sex with her once a week and didn't initialize the sex. Your where this -------------------------------- close from a false rape accusation.

And drop your retarded political views, Nurses aren't as valuable to society as Doctors and never will be.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-02-02T01:51:37+00:00

You definitely cannot trust this woman. You're young enough maybe you can find someone who deserves you but I think you need to find meaning outside of women. Work, study, exercise, whatever it takes to better yourself. And never forget female nature. AWALT so protect yourself by looking after yourself first.

DrExtra · 2019-03-12T22:31:38+00:00

Cringe

hfbvm · 2019-02-01T23:50:22+00:00

Is this copy pasta

Title	Destroyed by a feminist woman who abandoned me for a criminal
Author	Devastatedboy
Upvotes	33
Comments	49
Date	February 1, 2019 4:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/am3seg/destroyed_by_a_feminist_woman_who_abandoned_me/
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