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[–]beingamannotadayjob7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Don’t be thirsty then.
You can be an attractive man who is approaching women.
It’s only creepy for girls if they see you as a low value man. As soon you have other aspects of your life sorted out or you’re just good looking and witty, then don’t worry about being perceived as the thirsty guy.
[–]Dboy22332 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I mean I consider myself attractive but I get rejected by women when I get iois. Get make outs at the bar women touch me etc but the rejections are getting to me. Definitely not the most handsome but I lift and eat right and have a lean body. Been told I look like Conor mcgregor ...just don’t know if working out is enough for these women these days.
Social media and all these 6’4 gigachads its like your a creep if you don’t look like them.
If I’m lifting and eating right I wouldn’t be low value per say would I? Even if my face isn’t the best?
[–]beingamannotadayjob3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Don’t blackpill yourself, bro!
Looks are only the first impression that might get you some IOIs, but IOIs is not as important as closed sales.
Improve wherever you can. Style is a good way to get IOIs or also jewellery/tattoos.
I don’t know how talk you are, but you don’t need to be 6’4 to get bitches.
If you get IOIs but then get rejected, then there are two possibilities:
With this information, you should audit yourself the next time.
Don’t worry to much about looks.
[–]Dboy22332 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I’m 6 foot and a half bare feet no shoes. But yeah man it’s like I’m not o Pry or barret so I’m not having success. It’s fucking with me hard core.
[–]beingamannotadayjob3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you’re too results orientated and not enough learning orientated.
Sometimes it is better to see everything as an opportunity to learn and get better at things and then get the results because you became better.
[–]Dboy22332 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk man just think If I really was attractive I’d be getting numbers and getting lays. They seem to like to put me down. I’ve only approached black women though they seem to like to reject me in person but I bag em off apps idk should try white women
[–]brngamer0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If it was easy every man would be getting laid. To get the best, you have to attract them.
They don’t expect gigachad (lol), they expect a man that can take care of himself.
[–]Dboy22331 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Feeel lioe cuz of social Media they want Tyler Maher or Kevin Durant. You gotta basically be a 10 man
[–]brngamer0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I once thought this too.
IMO. Most of the Insta guys with killer abs and a tan that travel all year round have a shelf life.
Celebs will always have the extra factor. Accept it. If your girl was that good or truly wanted that type of guy she would be trying her damndest to get into those circles.
Women want the D. You need to give her the tingles for her to want your D. The sidebar leads the way.
[–]Dboy22331 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess man it’s just depressing when you see all these gigas especially in a big city like I’m in the women get used to it and if you have any minor flaws they don’t want you. It’s hard out here and some dudes don’t have to do shit not even work out cuz they’re face is perfect
[–]brngamer1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get that out of your head man. Focus on yourself. Build it and they WILL come.
RP is not meant to be easy.
[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Talk to everyone instead of a select few. There will be a carry over.
[–]Dboy22330 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m just Gona be the guy that starts to get rejected by everyone and then I’ll have no pre selection
[–]Sylvester_Sterone0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Talk to everyone. Both guys and girls. Both old and young. (When quarantines over)
[–]Dboy22330 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do people y’all to me at the gym it’s usually un wanted. Like I said I’m lean and have good diet but I still get rejected. Even random dudes dap me up at the bar but I’m still having trouble with women during the day even when they give me iois
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