So a few months ago I ended a long term relationship. It hit hard, not gonna lie. I spent a lot of nights thinking about all the shit that led to us breaking up, and I realized I cared wayyy too much about keeping things together when I can barely keep myself together.

I wanna take a long, long break from relationships. Learn to play instruments I never had time to learn. Meet people who wanna go on cross country road trips with me. Spend whole weekends reading sci fi books without someone interrupting my flow. I don’t want to ever feel like I need someone else to be satisfied with life.

I heard about this sub, and the description fits what I’m looking for. But the description and content don’t really match? I’m looking for motivational stuff, stories of you all living your best life, advice from guys who’ve found peace in solitude.

Is this still the right sub? If not, are there other subs that people can point me to?