So just split up with a Narc ex gf of 8 years. have a 5 year old daugther with, who i practically care for full time since I havent left the home yet. ie, still paying half of the bitches debts before i leave just so she cannot continue to contact me for monetary BS.

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Anyway, IM on tinder. with this girl. Everytime I ask to meet on a date, she's suddenly busy. but engages in conversation. One day i say im horny, she speaks more. Then she says "im awkward on dates. i had a lot of sex /hhookups, so gained a lot of experience but now want to date more... but its not going very well" . she had an appointment to change her gynocologist the other day and has mentioned one of her weird hookups. the guy ripped her during sex and then said he's going to bathroom, then left. Savage! i felt sorry for her but im notoriously a bit too simpy/chumpy for my own good. when i said its bad, she went "oh bad things happen during sex i suppose" .... SMH my soul just died hearing this

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Red flag ? don't date? Just smash? don't even smash?

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