I am in a relationship and it has been a year of happiness, acceptance, love and respect. She knows all of my flaws, respects me and support me in every possible way. This is my 3rd relationship and I feel blessed to have a healthy relationship because my past two relationships were full of drama and left me depressed.

So coming to this one, she's good and sometimes she gets a little bossy but for my own benefit. She wants what's best for me. But then I come to this subreddit and see people going hard on women. Thinking they all are same. But with her I don't feel so and we've have 50-50 contribution in this relationship. So my question is do I need to be more masculine and toxic just to make myself feel great ? She listens to me and sometimes I listen to her and I feel comfortable with it. So can someone tell me that it's okay to not go so hard on women ?