Yesterday I ended my four year relationship, and I have you all to thank for it. I started lurking around this sub after seeing it linked from other parts of reddit, and it has become something of an addiction. Reading examples of guys having their lives destroyed by women they trusted struck a chord with me, and made me realise I should get out and be my own man. Take control of my own life before someone else took it for me. I feel bad for doing this in some way, because she really didn't do anything wrong as yet, but for me the risk outweighs the reward. I can't wait to start the next chapter of my life.

This is just a short introductory post, I look forward to participating in this community.

All the best.