It was never been about what AWALTs do. It's about what they can do. What they're entitled too.

How could a man feel safe in a government bound marriage where they could have everything taken away (including their children) after their wife cheats on them and strips them of any semblance of pride.

It's not what they do, it's what they can do. It's not safe.

NAWALT is irrelevant. The deal is one-sided. GYOW.