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FoodieCAll=Women pretending to be interested in you, be secretly only want a free dinner. 33% of women admit to doing this.

tr3bjockey

July 10, 2019
69 upvotes
/r/MGTOW

https://mustsharenews.com/women-dates-free-food/

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Title FoodieCAll=Women pretending to be interested in you, be secretly only want a free dinner. 33% of women admit to doing this.
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tr3bjockey

Upvotes 69
Comments 18
Date July 10, 2019 8:43 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cbm68g/foodiecallwomen_pretending_to_be_interested_in/
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[–]tr3bjockey13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Ways around my fellow men to deal with this.

  1. Don't spend more than $20 on a date.
  2. Make the first date starbucks or a coffee shop, then make 2nd date her house for dinner. Go to trader joes or a cheap restaurant, buy a can/jar of spaghetti sauce and a box of spaghetti noodles and make dinner for her. If she kicks you out right after dinner, you know you're a foodie call.
  3. If going to a restaurant, eat at home before you go to the restaurant and only order a small dinner side salad. If she care in any way about you, she'll order something small also. If she doesn't care, she'll order the most expensive thing and you'll know you are a foodiecall.
  4. Once you found out you are foodiecall, excuse yourself by saying you need to go to the restroom, pay for your part of the meal with the manager, and walk out, let her pay for her own food. You have undone the foodie call.

[–]RedPillConfessions-3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wise words. Notes taken. Thank you master yoda

[–]tr3bjockey5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I almost forgot this part too. During dinner if she's texting someone or she gets a call and has to excuse herself to take the call, directly do #4, don't hesitate.

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The text and call are from the guy she's hooking up with after your dinner.

[+][deleted] -9 points-8 points-7 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Never expect anything but to pay the price when getting on a date with a girl, drinks or dinner.

Also if you can't afford an expensive dinner for one and a regular dinner for you... reconsider your life in general.

But I don't really get why we are giving "dinner date" advice on this sub, most guys here are preaching a very solitary lifestyle, and the minority with girlfriends are obviously not concerned with such thing as a foodicall.

[–]tr3bjockey4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You can avoid paying the price, you must have skipped #4 to have to pay nothing or do #2 to pay the minimum.

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It's not about what you can afford, it's about minimizing the manipulation. Better to spend on great restaurants with your buddies than to risk getting used.

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Why the dinner date advice. You can't expect a man to become a monk and not hookup. I don't agree with paying for a prostitute which exposes men to a greater risk of disease. I would also add that men should get vasectomies so that they don't become a revolving wallet.

[–]bansheeman2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

With all due respect, you need to learn the same lesson you're teaching. You said not to spend over $20... that's simpin' plain and simple. If you're meeting a woman, you schedule a coffee shop date and then show up early, buy your own drink and choose the ideal table. When she arrives, stand up, greet her and direct her to the cash register area to order after notifying her that you've already got your drink. You pay $0 or you're a simp. If you have some balls, get her to pay for your drink.

[–]tr3bjockey1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's exactly it. You tell her your saving the table and she goes get her own drink which she pays for herself. HA! To keep from having to pay for a refill, go for a walk.

[–]hypergamous7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Been telling women that I'm doing a multi-day fast and that they are welcome to engage in a conversation about chess and philosophy at a local bookstore, versus the "pay for my food" request.

It's sorted out both the ones looking for freebies as well as the ones not capable of playing chess or reading.

[–]tr3bjockey2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You could also meet them for drinks. Make friends with the bartender before. Tell him to give you ice tea in a shot glass. Find out what the special for the day is and offer her that to drink. Keeps it cheap.

[–]Electronic_Record5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dinnerwhores

[–]tr3bjockey1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I almost forgot the big one. Never let her bring a friend to the restaurant and bar. Tell her at this point, you're not invested enough in the relationship to meet her friends or family.

[–]Global_MGTOW1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The other 70% are liars?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The othe 66% lie

[–]LiveTheTruth3210 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keyword here is admit.

[–]BonelessSkinless0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just take her out for cheap food always. Stuff like pitas and lunchtime sushi

[–]tr3bjockey0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sushi? You can easily drop $100 on sushi... I can just hear that... "blowfish? I've never had blowfish, eww...taste gross...do you have anything else I can try..." chaching...$100 bucks down drain.

[–]xissburg0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So in short women are just beggars

[–]tr3bjockey0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes...when she says...buy me a drink...have the same expectations that a bum and her will both not be writing you a check or providing you with any services.

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