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[–]krenovinspired29 points30 points31 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Gotta love the comments on that thread, though ...
People jumping through convoluted hoops in order to make the dude TA. Justifying that this isn't really sexual harassment on the part of the female employee because he "egged it on" by saying "not tonight". It's a textbook example of a double standard.
As I like to do, I flip the script on something like this and I can totally seeing everyone calling a female boss TA, while laughing their ass off at the dumb dude for sending pics of his 'unit'. And can see the commenters making comments about how stupid the male employee would be. There are a few of those on this thread, but most commenters are trying to go as easy on her as they can. They never would be that easy on a dude.
[–]Stahlboden3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Now that a woman is a sexual harrasser it's suddenly everyone else's responsibility to prevent her from fucking up:
His "not today" wasn't "no" enough
He was egging and leading her on
He intended to see how far she would go and this somehow justifies her
He, as a man in position of power had responsibility to stop the damsel from distress.
Suddenly "no means no" and affirmative consent don't work anymore.
[–]GoHurtMyFeelings0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly what I thought too. Its pathetic, reddit is full of cucks.
[–]80173519 points20 points21 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Not the asshole.
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[–]8017352 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He might want to let her know of the availability perhaps, tho, as "a fucking loser nice guy". Especially if the other person doesn't know.
[–]russianbot_15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit, those comments. Everyone shitting on OP for not saying 'no' enough times (because apparently you're still asking for it if you say no only 5 times). People saying he wasn't sexually harassed.
Women Can Do No Wrong, and Always Blame the Man on full display in there.
[–]scarletlagomorph10 points11 points12 points (2 children) | Copy Link
As a business owner, if I were stupid enough to hire a female employee you had best believe that I would have done the same thing. Not to see how far she would go on a personal level, but to see the real quality and disposition of someone in my employ. Someone that engages in this sort of behaviour has serious boundary issues. The only thing that I would have done differently is make the text dump policy known. Just a brief message like, 'Be advised, all texts and media sent and received from your business line will be dumped to a communal write-restricted volume on the SAN for purposes of ensuring proper workplace boundaries, transparency, and ease of access if someone has to step in for you. Any pictures of your bits you send to your SO will be viewable by your co-workers. You have been warned.'
[–]NohoTwoPointOh2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
That is generally the sysadmin's job. Usually comes across as a banner or somewhere in the new hire paperwork. Either way, what kind of fucko sends explicit photos on COMPANY network/servers/phones???? When has that ever been ok?
If a man did the exact same thing, they would be calling for his head.
[–]scarletlagomorph1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Or the IT coordinator. In most jobs that's true but I run a tech business so it's generally understood that any directives of that sort are going to come from me. It's still relatively small but it's exclusively male and I make it clear to every new hire that I don't care in the slightest about their personal lives so long as it doesn't expose the company to liability but if anything like that happens they're fired. No review, no appeal, no second chances. You don't get a second bat at the wicket to destroy what I spent years building.
[–]treesplease1211 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
He is the owner, she is the new hire, and within three days she is trying to entice him into her web. Incredible
[–]wilkins_micawber10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
You can assume she has had success doing this in previous jobs.
Why put in the effort & hard work when you can just screw the boss?
[–]treesplease120 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly; straight to easy street. Favors, higher pay, show up late and still have a job
[–]ragna771 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey guys....i want no dick pics. Just letting you know beforehand😂
[–]NYCCOOP 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SomethinLikDis1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I like how they still find a way to say the man is in anyway at fault for somebody else's actions
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She went straight to the top dog
[–]Stahlboden0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
But of course!
[–]LazelimGiros0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I am living in a 3rd world country but damn... U.S needs to do something about their women. They are like first class citizen and men are second.
[–]The0neThatDisappears1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
Fake bullshit post. But the comments are pretty eye-opening. I can't believe how many simps and bitches are trying to point fingers at the man.
[–]wutc1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
Probably fake, but funny nevertheless.
...And the comments are typically pathetic --- "OP is TA because..." followed by a long rationalisation of why he is a bad man.
Reddit is overrun with bitches and manginas.
[–]LiveTheTruth321-3 points-2 points-1 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I cant tonight meaning he wanted to or was thinking about it. He shouldve stayed professional and call her out on it.
[–]FlyingSxSnek1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
No... My friend, "not tonight" means, surprisingly enough, "not tonight". Not "maybe some other night".
[–]Stahlboden0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"
she didn't say no"