I graduated from my masters last October and am unemployed since

RedMeatTrinket · 2019-07-07T20:22:21+00:00

Sorry to be an asshole here but we didn't GMOW by liking our job and living with our parents.

All I hear is "I want to party and have no responsibilities." Go get yourself a job and don't quit until you find another job. That's the way it works.

MGTOW is not about avoiding women; it's about freedom and independence in your life with the ability to make your own decisions and guide yourself. As long as you live with your parents you are not MGTOW.

user_miki · 2019-07-07T20:16:01+00:00

you need medication.

Try also vitamin D.This was good for my depression.

Goaliej · 2019-07-07T20:21:19+00:00

What's are your degrees in? Please be specific. Thank you.

Bluex22 · 2019-07-07T20:44:04+00:00

Start waking up early & working out to set the tone for the day. That does wonders for me. Literally life changing & I don’t use that lightly.

801735 · 2019-07-07T20:06:04+00:00

I felt trapped and depressed.

What was the opposite? Are you pursuing it now?

I have no interests.

Whattchagonnadobouit?

I long for my severely depressed undergrad days

... yeah, but what about your here and nowm tho? ]=) It's where you currently are, no?

I am a walking dead body with anger and hate.

Tired of it yet? ]=) We can wait, you know...

[deleted] · 2019-07-07T20:35:29+00:00

As well as seeing a doctor I wonder if some form of counselling/therapy might help?

RT-AC66U · 2019-07-07T20:40:04+00:00

You quit a job without having a better one?

godworksout · 2019-07-07T21:56:22+00:00

Workout. Surround yourself with positive vibes only. I would suggest you start watching Jordan Peterson videos and see if anything he says resonates with you.

It’s going to take a while to shed the perceived need for validation from women so in the meantime find some male mentors and give yourself goals to work toward. If you aren’t working anyway, maybe volunteer doing something you would like to do.

Unfortunately, things compound and all drag you down simultaneously so you are going to have to work on things and fix them before you become a statistic.

kbj1987 · 2019-07-08T15:31:56+00:00

Go to see a good doctor (psychiatrist). Follow his recommendation not only until you feel just a bit better but rather until you are back on your feet, with a good job and a good daily life. But that alone is not enough to get better for good.

I would also strongly suggest going for some physical activity, something that will make you sweat for some 30-45 minutes at least two-three times a week. It could be anything, just jogging/running, joining a gym if you can afford it, anything that you at least somewhat enjoy. Preferably outdoors... This is real, it's not some "positive thinking" crap - but that physical effort really helps build up good hormones and also helps calming down anxiety or bad thoughts. I know this, I was trough some bad depression shit myself and that really helped (I took just running, 2 later 3 then 4 times a week, starting at 30 minutes then slowly building up, I got myself a sport watch and that helped me with all beginners' problems of going too fast and then having to stop early, first outings would be a mix of a walk and a run, 50/50 with the run at a slow pace initially ). Or that can be something else that you like or liked in the past, biking, rollerskating, swimming, whatever makes you sweat and feel worked-out afterwards.

Also talk to a good friend, maybe ask him/her to get you out sometime, it could be this running/biking/whatever activity done with someone...

Or help someone with some manual work, cleaning the house, work in the garden, something useful that also takes your attention from your thoughts. If you do not know what it could be - ask your family and friends.

Do not tell women or acquaintances of your struggles..

You will get out of it, it will take time but you will...

Throwaway33060 · 2019-07-07T20:10:46+00:00

Damn brotha only advice i can give is just put the effort in to improve your mental health like actually going to see a psych doctor, taking your meds, etc. Then once you have that straightened out look for a job you enjoy and start saving. This is coming from a person with severe anxiety attacks, clinical depression, and serious ptsd. I know how it feels when your mental health is in the gutter and it sucks dick. Prior to getting my shit together I was constantly paranoid and didn’t smile for a long time. But once I really put all of my focus on mental health and nothing else things did start to get better.

VectorLord275 · 2019-07-08T00:29:26+00:00

You really need to start focusing on your health as quickly as possible, only until then you will stop feeling like a dead body with anger and hate. Look into bodybuilding and the blahah ice cream fitness as a beginner program.

Title	I graduated from my masters last October and am unemployed since
Author	frasiercranebluth
Upvotes	15
Comments	25
Date	July 7, 2019 8:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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