Movies: college is the best time of your life. You get drunk every week and have parties and get a girlfriend. Then you graduate and buy a house and car and start a family.

Real life: you need at least 3.8 gpa for 4 years just you can have the chance to have a realistic chance into getting accepted into a decent graduate program, or you have to do you your bachelors in engineering or computer science, doing linear algebra on friday and saturday nights. you might get drunk or go to a party a few times at the beginning, but when your grades get raped, you will not get such ideas anymore. there is no girlfriend in sight, all the girls can get guys much more muscular and taller than you via tinder, it appears that the same 3 guys are fucking all 33 000 girls on campus, so your only option is to have hook up with obese girls, but you probably decide to pass. Then you get stress because you know the only way you can ever get a girlfriend on your own level is by getting a good job with a good salary, and this pressure makes it even harder to study and causes anxiety which decreases exam performance, but you still have only one choice which is to spend your friday and saturday nights studying, which is hard as fuck to do when your libido is over 9000 and you are still a virgin. Eventually this takes a toll on you and you wonder why life has to be so shit, which is when you start to read subreddits such as redpill and mgtow. then you realize the biological nature of human sexual relations and get angry that your parents, friends, and society in general lied to you your whole life. you also realize how dangerous and counterproductive 3rd wave feminism is, and that if continues human civilization will implode. even if you graduate and get a good job, at most you will be able to afford a tiny shoebox in the sky because neoliberal globalism has caused real estate to be a commodity for the ultra rich, who move around and buy dozens of properties apiece around the globe, shutting out even high local earners.