Men get all beady and resentful when women aren’t in a hurry to settle down before age 30.
They tell us we should be marrying young, having children young, etc.
The problem is, why would I give my youth, freedom, beauty, and womb to a man who cannot or does not want to financially provide for me?
At my age, I am doing fine. But most women my age (22-27) are still figuring out their lives. Many are NOT making enough to comfortably support even half of a family or do things like pay a mortgage. Many are still in school, many are still at the beginnings of their career.
If I have to work some shitty job that pays like $40k a year in a high cost of living city, why the hell would I want the stress of a man and baby in my life? So we can go on food stamps together? Where I live, a family of 4 making $90k is low income.
Working full time and having a kid is already a full and stressful load. Now add poverty into the mix and you’re under a living nightmare.
How many men under age 30 are ABLE and WILLING to support a family? How many want to marry ME and not some qt pure Asian mail order 19 year old?
Why not just wait until you’re 30 to marry and are making $80-90k? Why not wait until you’re 32 and have a baby? If you’re going to work full time and NOT be a stay at home mom, what is the benefit of doing it when poor?
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
So a man should financially provide for her and take care of her but only when she's had her fill of other men and is good and damn well ready? Fair enough. Play away. See how that one works out for you.
[–]Londonnj8 points9 points10 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't worry I think I got her a bit rattled by using her own logic, I said "Why would a man want to take you when he likely is in a better position than he was a 27(income steadily increases with age) and can afford to now date those youthful and beautiful young women and properly take care of them. So why would he in his right mind choose you over them? You expect to capitalize on your appearance until it runs out then expect a wealthy man to swoop in and save you? What a laugh.
Wish you the best but I'll tell you right now your fighting a losing battle remember there's always going to be new youthful, beautiful 22 year old women"
[–]Careful_Description3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I read the first paragraph of another comment and was like "damn she got rekt". Scroll downed to find out that was just the tip of the iceberg.
And her reply?
Top kek
[–]Londonnj0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol sje contiued to tell me how she just wants to 'live the middle class dream' then said she needs at least a $90k a year to afford a condo in a decent area. Which I called her out on it. I actually feel bad for her this chick is in for a rude awakening and from the looks of her post she is already starting to become aware of it.
[–]Careful_Description1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She's asking where these men are in a manner where she thinks she can just pick them up like her food from a grocery.
[–]LeastGentlemanAlive5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
A female friend of mine recently asked me, if I found women in their mid thirties without any clear plans for the future attractive. She was obviously expecting a certain response with the way she worded the question. It was basically about a friend of hers that was going crazy because she was 35, single and didn't even have a decent job. She probably wanted to hear something like "Who cares if she has plans for her life?" or "It's ok to erstablish your carreer in your thirties and start a family later on". Lol, nope. Didn't want to go full MGTOW on her, but still dropped some truths.
I responded something along the lines of: "As a good father for my potentialy children, I want the very best for them. Medicinically that means a mother giving birth before 30. Socially that means raising them in a stable relationship of mother and father. To prove that stability, a relationship should last 5 years before considering children. If you combine those two requirements, women above 24 are too old already."
Since she herself is 29, that even got her to panic a little - and that (returning to topic), ladies, is why you should marry and have children young. There are more and more men thinking like that, if they haven't gone their own way already.
[–]Cristi_Tanase4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL.
No where in the world (with some few exceptions) the "alimony" is present! Just in the Anglo world countries (UK and former colonies). Check for yourself on wikipedia.
Oh, and the Islam radical countries have similar shit, but not all Islamic countries have this.
All other countries have none alimony. There is child support, for a child, and that is all!
[–]tramese0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
they want to sell themselves as brand new after being used up by their whole country.