Q4Men Why would I want to get married young if I can’t be a stay at home mom? WITH ALIMONY protection if I get divorced.

60 points526 commentssubmitted by TheMarbleSlab to r/PurplePillDebate

Men get all beady and resentful when women aren’t in a hurry to settle down before age 30.

They tell us we should be marrying young, having children young, etc.

The problem is, why would I give my youth, freedom, beauty, and womb to a man who cannot or does not want to financially provide for me?

At my age, I am doing fine. But most women my age (22-27) are still figuring out their lives. Many are NOT making enough to comfortably support even half of a family or do things like pay a mortgage. Many are still in school, many are still at the beginnings of their career.

If I have to work some shitty job that pays like $40k a year in a high cost of living city, why the hell would I want the stress of a man and baby in my life? So we can go on food stamps together? Where I live, a family of 4 making $90k is low income.

Working full time and having a kid is already a full and stressful load. Now add poverty into the mix and you’re under a living nightmare.

How many men under age 30 are ABLE and WILLING to support a family? How many want to marry ME and not some qt pure Asian mail order 19 year old?

Why not just wait until you’re 30 to marry and are making $80-90k? Why not wait until you’re 32 and have a baby? If you’re going to work full time and NOT be a stay at home mom, what is the benefit of doing it when poor?