Just turned 40 and I was seeing a woman in her late 20's for 2 years. Very attractive but a single mother and unemployed. Not sure if she had BPD or traits of narcissism but the relationship was toxic. Everything was cool at first until she repeatadly kept breaking up with me. She broke up with me again in October and I finally told her to go away and leave me alone. She tried her best to get back with me but not this time.

What I find amusing is that she's doing her best to piss me off. Posting pictures on Facebook, adding guys that were interested in her before and more recently she started attacking my appearance. Her mom has joined in whos also a single parent of 5 and is in and out of relationships which are abusive and toxic. Her mom actually said on social media "you were too good for him anyway" this made me laugh!