How can I stop yearning for love and just live alone?

selfism_mike · 2019-06-25T10:13:37+00:00

Biology is a very tricky thing, and it has designed you just so that you can easily be screwed with.

Get some standards first, meaning you only agree to a relationship with a woman if she treats you a certain way. (I rather think keep away from women altogether, but I am trying to look at the issue from your point of view.)

As soon as a woman shows any joy in your misfortune (for example you stumble and her first reaction is laughter and not concern that you could have been hurt) drop her very fast.

Now I will get flack from the nice community here, but if you want some practical experience how to get treated like the love of someone elses life goto south-east asia. Again, not saying to get married or something, just meet some woman who is not a total bitch and universally entitled from the get-go. Again, don't marry, because that means throwing your key to happiness away.

The point of this exercise is, that first you experience that women treating their men lovingly (up to a point) is not an exception, but dependent on culture. Second, the neural nets running in your noggin produce a measuring-stick of what YOU can expect from a woman. It will repel you solidly from those who are losers, especially in western society.

Dangerous game, I know, but women are taught from the beginning of their lifes what they can expect from a man, namely everything, while men don't have a right to intimacy and sex even once they deliver their goods.

There is only so much we can do theoretically in our minds. The experience of some lovely girl truly caring for you is not one of them, and if that lack of experience drives you so crazy that it derails your life, you better come up with a plan.

It will be playing with fire, don't get me wrong. But medicine is just another poison to fight the one already present.

user_miki · 2019-06-25T13:00:16+00:00

Some guys cannot support the MGTOW way.MGTOW is not suitable for everybody.

We are not a cult to hold guys by forcing them ,you decide what to do, and there is no shame if you go back to plantation.At least you tried.

sir_wankalot_here · 2019-06-25T09:54:54+00:00

Start chatting with women via online apps. See what shallow creatures they really are. Ask them direct questons, besides a hole, what else of value can you bring to a relationship? Even your strong independent wahmyn can not come up with an answer.

The real gold comes from married women or women in relationships. So one had three kids, she admitted that she was a serial cheater and cheated with every guy she was with. Her excuse was she only could get off if she cheated.

She then admitted that the guys she cheated with, she had unprotected sex, so indirectly she admitted a possibility cucked the guys she was with.

Ofcourse she didn't come out and admit all this at once. You need to trickle truth or as I prefer to call it, tickle truth. You need to ask vague, non-judgemental type questions. Eventually it all comes out.

Real life, same thing. Over beers, one woman admitted her sister cucked her husband. She then indirectly admitted that the BF most likely killed her husband for insurance. To make things more screwed up, she had two other kids before this happened, they looked different from the cuckold kid.

HipsterNgariman · 2019-06-25T10:38:01+00:00

It's a hard feeling but at the same time it's like alcoholism, tabacco or gambling. It's a vice you can say 'No' to. Except it's harder because you're wired from birth for it, to spread your genes. I stop believing my genes weren't worth being spread and reduced my sex drive exponentially. What's left is the love for my friends and hobbies, and you start to see how over-sexualized society is. Teenage girls dress like prostitutes and reject aroused men to pretend they're not riding the carrousel. I have goals in life and wish to go my own way. This subreddit helps though sometimes some users may have bold comments (because apparently they can be a better mgtow than somebody else). Be open-minded about what is said here but approach it with a critique mindset as well as empathy for what some people may have experienced in life.

Vaxel00 · 2019-06-25T09:32:35+00:00

Get a dog, or a sexdoll.

Both.

pwnzusauce · 2019-06-25T13:24:59+00:00

You want a reminder about why not go into relationshits? Visit your local divorce court/family court before anything you do.

AcrobaticAge · 2019-06-25T18:53:37+00:00

I know that feeling.

Why fight nature? I just get into short term relationships and friends with benefits.

I have never cared to be a monk.

hilbert999 · 2019-06-25T09:41:09+00:00

What exactly is love to you? I bet you can’t clearly define that. It’s a question that has plagued philosophy, literature and even science for thousands of years. And yet people walk around presuming they know what it is even with little to no life experience.

Romantic love recently is nothing but a capitalistic product designed to sell you stuff. Think about the usual elements our culture has come to associate with romantic love: valentine’s day, candle-lit dinner, “getaway” vacation — name me one that isn’t designed to get you to spend money.

Knowing that your idea of love has been spoon-fed by a capitalistic and consumption-oriented mass media is the key to distance yourself from it.

There is no shame in wanting to find a living being to share life with. But good luck finding a woman who agrees with your view on what love is . I agree with getting a dog. Or multiple dogs. Heck, create a rescue center and enjoy the purest form of love you can possibly find.

Title	How can I stop yearning for love and just live alone?
Author	mimosapudicaheart
Upvotes	10
Comments	31
Date	June 25, 2019 9:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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