I always liked to consider myself "alpha", but I never took action. I always thought about what could have been, but wasn't. I always thought "I don't need to change my views", but I did.

I logged onto this subreddit with intention of just looking around, but holy crap has this been eye-opening. I love it here. You don't bullshit and beat around the bush, and the post about the 26 year old virgin is what made me a believer. "Just get an escort and get it out of the way", its that brutal honesty, that unforgivingly harsh logic, that made me want to stay here.

I've been changing physically for the last month, working out more and so on, but only today did I realize its the mental part that is the true game changer here. I didn't come here to get laid, I came here to be the me I could be, as corny as that sounds.

This post will probably be deleted, I think I broke 4+ posting rules, but I just had to say this:

Thank you.