This is dumb, but I've got it on my mind so I'm gonna type it out.
Some backstory: I'm in the military (I do nothing of value. Don't thank me) and I got orders to Japan about 6 months ago. I was dating someone at the time and we broke up bc we didn't think it would work with me across the world.
Ffw a month and I'm on Tinder, not looking for anything serious because I was about to move to Japan. However, I met an amazing girl and fell for her quickly. I explained my situation right off the bat and she was fine with being casual for the couple months until I left.
It was fun and we started getting more serious and she wanted to date for real. She said she was fine with doing long distance since I'll be here for a relatively short amount of time. This was great and I was happy. Finally, I fly off to Japan feeling confident in my relationship and excited to see what my new unit was like and exploring Asia. I was pumped. Now, the first month or so was hectic. I was settling in, learning about what I'll be doing out here, and making friends. The time difference made talking to my girlfriend difficult but I was fine. I've deployed before and gone months without talking to loved ones so being able to talk on the phone almost every day way amazing to me.
At first, my girlfriend was missing me dearly and told me how much she was crying bc I'm gone, but she got used to it and I thought we were good. We facetimed and updated each other on our lives frequently. Lately, she's basically gone cold on me. I get a few texts a day from her and they seem just.....uninterested. It kills me. I wish she would either talk to me more or just end the relationship because this is untenable.
I honestly feel like I'm stuck in limbo and can't move forward in life bc of my girlfriend's lack of attention. I want it, but she doesn't feel like giving even a little. I'm scared she's decided a relationship isn't worth it, but just hasn't found the heart to tell me.
[–]CiceroVoltaire9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't worry, Jody will take care of Suzie for you.
Enjoy Japan. I think (some) Japanese women are most beautiful, take full advantage of the opportunity while you're there.
[–]JihadNinjaCowboy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She is banging. Women have a limited attention span.
She is attentive to the new dick in her vagina; to the loyal distant boyfriend, not so much.
If he was smart, he'd formally dump her, and start banging Japanese women.
[–]Scorpiontail2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop being a simp and ghost her. Have some self respect, man.
[–]Jbij061 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He is still in denial." No way of knowing while I am over here." Okay bro... "She started working more". Some guys just can't handle the truth. Even if you can't prove it break it off so you can be treated the way you want. Clearly she is cheating but if not she is then neglecting him which requires a pink slip.
[–]Cuntplainer1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry, she's moved on. Find a Japanese girl.
[–]The_Brother_Pig0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He says that his life has stopped because she does not care, good, very good, when the redpill comes, it will hit hard and he will be forced to wake up or fall. Soon he will come to his senses.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I never get the LDR thing. Even if you are that interested to be faithful and make it work, that chances that the other person will as well are infinitely small. And woman have dick being offered them all the time. She gonna crack eventually. He should be in Japan fucking everything that moves when he is not out exploring this country that is new to him.