To sum it up. I went out a couple times with a girl that friend zoned . We where both gym class mates but she disappeared while I continued focusing on my martial art. Not really avoiding her but I just needed my distance, I noticed she would tease and test me during my workouts the very few days she would come. It got to the point where she challenged me the first day of finding out I was promoted to a instructor and dropping 30 pounds in 4 months. She became a total troll during my class and I ended up having to make an example of her. She left 10 minutes into it and stopped coming ever since other then 1 or 2 more times. I've been neutral with her and always kept it it semi friendly even after flakes and mind games but never really chased her.

Last night she appears and I really was shocked to even see her there. We locked eyes for half a second and she must of seen the look on my face because I was blindsided by how much weight she put on. I'm sitting ringside vip tickets and she's in the back seats. The whole time I get this vibe of being stared at and I was right. I was told about how I just missed her "Say hi" everytime I was not there. Went as far as took my seat when I left the event early since I was only there for a short time.

I've never seen this reaction before and it made me offset to know I effected someone to that point. Writing this actually helped me realized how much I must still be in her head though because I've only interacted with her a handful of times.