I’ve made two lists about my relationship with my gf. It’s not looking good but wanted a second opinion before I went thru with ending it. If you want more details say so in the comments.

Here we go. Girlfriend. Positive.

  1. Submissive.
  2. Makes me feel good.
  3. Cooks and makes lunch.
  4. Seems to care.
  5. Companionship.
  6. Sex.
  7. Likes cuddling.

..........…....... Negative.

  1. Makes me angry.
  2. Makes me feel like an abuser.
  3. Makes me tired.
  4. Gossipy.
  5. Throws tantrum.
  6. Cries a lot.
  7. Different polarization’s on hot topics.
  8. Is a huge procrastinator.
  9. Needs a lot of reassurance.
  10. Depression and other mental issues.
  11. Whiny.
  12. Costs a lot of money. (Need to get exact cost per month.

Relationship. Positive.

  1. Companionship.
  2. Nice to have someone to sleep with.
  3. Makes me feel good.
  4. Gf is submissive
  5. I enjoy making people feel good.
  6. Sex if I want it.

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    Negative
  1. I am tired every single day.
  2. I’m the only source of income.
  3. The apt. cleaning is very haphazard and irregular when gf is not feeling well.
  4. I pick up after gf.
  5. Gf cries a lot. Makes me feel like a bad person.
  6. I’ve lost most interest in sex.
  7. Always asking for more stuff.
  8. Doesn’t take no for an answer. (Keeps whining and bargaining.)
  9. Gf seems to lean towards strong modern feminist side.
  10. Feels like I can’t show weakness in my own home.
  11. Stresses me out.
  12. Has admitted in the beginning that she’s with me for a stable future. Financial as well. Later told me she loves me. (I also told her at the time I was in it for the sex, have since lost interest.)
  13. After an exhausting day at work I come home to gf in tears because she burnt dinner or something similar.
  14. Seems to be a fight/argument every other day.
  15. Often don’t want to be around gf.

Would appreciate advice on this. As a side note we’ve also talked about the relationship before about a month ago and since nothing has changed except laundry is down on time now.