AWALT. Enough said.

I was in a 7 years relationship, married for 2 years. My wife decided to call it quit out of no where and wanted to rush through the divorce without any marriage counseling etc... She said she is no longer happy being with me after all this years. After a few months of sorting our financial situation and signed divorce paper. She started dating my cousin. That is where I found out I don't think she ever loved me at all I was there to lift her up when she was at her low, supported her through her college years. This was the hardest pill I had to swallow and learn that no matter how good you are to them, love them. If they decided to leave they will. I am sure this did not happened overnight that she is actually dating my cousin[26M] for a year now after our divorce. I trust people too easy, I just can't believe a family member would do that. My cousin was my best man, and like a brother to me. Now I find this to be very disrespectful, so I cut ties with their family, I also can't believe that his parents actually think that is acceptable then again his mom is divorced and has no shame. I am wondering why someone so close to me could do this and ruining my relationship? Is it her fault, his fault? or I am just blinded? the 2 most trusted people in my life that i trusted with my life betrayed me, I know I got played because I would tell him all the details when the divorce was happening and he act like he does not know anything. Cant believe she didn't have the guts to tell me the truth!

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TL;DR: Ex Wife dating my cousin a few weeks after I signed the divorce paper. I got played big time,Life lesson learned.