Part 1 of 3 https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bytbd7/how_i_embraced_mgtow_she_wanted_to_have_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app

(Per advice of a commenter on the last post I made, some changes are being made to unimportant parts of the description, but nothing that changes the actual truth , just some things to prevent doxxing).

My phone exploded after I left the appointment. All I received were a combination of livid texts, accusatory tests, and a host of phone call attempts. She was determined to convince me this kid was mine.

Livid texts: You are a fucking liar , the ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP you lied to me about your vasectomy. Thats a lie a day for months! It’s so much worse than any potential cheating you think I did. Which I DIDNT CHEAT. But even if i did, can’t you even comprehend how lying for the entire relationship is worse? You implied the entire time you were fertile. Just because you didn’t want genetic kids doesn’t mean you can’t have them. There is a BIG difference.

Accusatory texts: your full of shit. You didn’t get a vasectomy . I know my body. I know I only slept with you. Your vasectomy must have healed itself or never took. You ALWAYS wore a codon for a reason. You ALWAYS asked if I was on birth control for a reason. And when we prove it in court, maybe you’ll come around to your senses again and MAYBE I’ll let you visit your kid. MAYBE. Either you are a liar or you became fertile, idk. You fucked up. You’ll be licking my boots to make up for this offensive accusation. Oh by the way, I’m charging the doctors visit to YOU. You wasted all our time with your little stunt . They have YOUR BILLING INFO ON FILE.

Voice mails: literally sobbing and anger , and i couldn’t even understand what she was saying, despite wanting to.

I was riding on cloud 9 reviewing these text messages, dying laughing. Normally I kept read recipes off, and she knew that. but I explicitly turned them on right after I began getting her texts to make her mad. That only led to even more calls, and more messages.

( i did receive the bill from the doctor later on, but i 100% wanted me to be the one paying. Figured they may testify for me if some accusations were made about abuse or mistreatment, and that they would be more willing to be honest if I paid them myself. No idea if this is true or not.)

Then I got a call I was not expecting ( few hours later). Mom: honey I’m very confused. Jen, She called me crying saying something along the lines of you publicly humiliating her and threatening to starve your unborn child ? What on earth is going on? Are you going to be a father?!

(my mother was really close with Jen. They always hung out , and always had girl nights out. My mother really seemed to want me to settle down with Jen . And Jen knew that completely. This was a desperate move).

Me: mom, nothing she is saying is true, AT ALL. I can’t get into it over the phone, but just understand that I’m not going to be a father. She cheated on me and I can verify it.

dad grabs my mothers phone

( my dad HATED Jen. DESPISED HER WITH A PASSION. He was supportive of me. Great parent. But he constantly told me he felt uneasy around her. Like she was playing a game. I never believed him, at all. No idea how, but he clearly picked up on something I didn’t see. He was the one who turned me on to Tom Leykis. So either he was paranoid, or onto something.

Dad: son, this bitch, i fucking told you she was crazy. I told you DTB. She’s got those crazy eyes. I got you, come home if you need to stay here for a few days to hide out. As long as you need. She can’t be pregnant when you are shooting blanks after you snipped it.

Mom in background: HE DID WHAT?! WHAT DID HE SNIP?!

Me: thanks dad. Both for spilling the beans to mom, and your kind offer. Ill call you in a little bit. Shouldn’t be an issue tho.

few hours pass

Phone rings, it’s my bank.

Bank: sir, I’m sorry to bother you, it’s about your credit card. I just wanted to double check. There was a charge for a $3,000 at [insert electronics store] for a TV. This is a lot higher than your average purchase amount. Was this you?

....will be continued.....the last part is shorter so I’ll throw it up soon.