My wife left, I lost my house, lost my kids, I live in a friend's basement... but at least I can treat myself

HungryBrain1 · 2019-06-10T06:28:59+00:00

That sucks man. You have a friend and this will get better. What a nightmare.

ActionManDan90 · 2019-06-10T06:33:27+00:00

Nothing is yours in this world.

The wife, kids, house, money... none of it's yours. That is the illusion that you have been sold. You acquired something that doesn't exist.

Tonyb33 · 2019-06-10T07:06:51+00:00

I have been there. However you have your health and I bet every week you have a surplus of cash. Maybe not a lot but a consistent surplus. Have a break consolidate then come back fighting. Your reality is of a fisherman the first year not knowing the water catches few fish, each year he learns and catches more. What you wife has stolen is your historic earnings, not your future earnings. Let your experience boost your earnings and your experience of frugality boost your savings and very shortly you will have it all back and more.

jeffreywolfe · 2019-06-10T09:27:07+00:00

I can afford nice meals but instant ramen with egg is my guilty pleasure.

Chin up mate! It only gets better from here.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2019-06-10T06:25:16+00:00

You do you, bro.

TheSpiderKoussaila · 2019-06-10T08:40:26+00:00

At this point i think that it's safe to say that it's the government that is married to your Wife, owns your house, and owns your children, While you keep deluding yourself that, it's all yours and you are happy and keep hustling, What a Joke!!!.

PS: you can recover from this although it'll take some time and patience, be safe and good luck.

[deleted] · 2019-06-10T07:26:00+00:00

You'll make it and you'll be reborn carved out of wood on the other side. I can see first pin holes of light myself. I almost gave up so many times but kept clawing even when it seemed like there was no hope. I've still got a ways to go, but at least I'm moving forward again.

jimjames1967 · 2019-06-10T11:16:36+00:00

I was in your exact situation one year ago. Thank God for friends.

The_Tall_Aussie · 2019-06-10T10:45:17+00:00

Stay strong mate, like a phoenix you will rise again!

TheIndividualChef · 2019-06-10T12:14:15+00:00

Where you at man? You wanna go out for a good dinner and talk?

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-06-10T10:04:41+00:00

Hallelujah

CodeDaniel · 2019-06-10T10:18:04+00:00

Keep your head uo in this hard Time.

Life will get better. Give it time and GYOW!

Welcome brother

_n1codemus · 2019-06-10T10:43:46+00:00

That soup is the ugliest shit I have ever seen.

Littlematt241 · 2019-06-10T11:38:19+00:00

Stay strong brother.

oliver_21 · 2019-06-10T12:34:03+00:00

Congrats for escaping the plantation. This storm is temporary. NEVER let this happen again.

Thermotastic · 2019-06-10T13:15:14+00:00

Dude, doctored ramen can be amazing, egg, green onions, red pepper flakes, pepper. Good stuff.

Don't worry, I'm with you. You have the support of us.

AaravX64 · 2019-06-10T11:02:49+00:00

Leave the kids. Fuck the whore. Go to court. Get some more.

Helikzhan · 2019-06-10T12:58:37+00:00

Looks good. You know what matters in life. Good food, a bed and lots of free time.

ImNotReallyJesus · 2019-06-10T15:52:06+00:00

Hitting bottom is awful, but can be transformative. You wallow sit in self-pity or thrive in self-determination. The choice is your's, but you are in a place where many have been in your position and now thrive. They opened their eyes that it is not just a woman's nature, but you live in a gynocentric matriarchy/cucktocracy that caters to women. It is the path of MGTOW to walk in this world knowing that. Once you realize that, you can thrive again.

[deleted] · 2019-06-10T16:24:38+00:00

stay strong and don't do anything stupid like attempting suicide or going over to her residence drunk demanding to see your kids EVEN if she's denying you the right to see them on your court allotted days. mgtow is growing and you're not alone. think about that. hypergamy hyped on steroids due to decades of feminism is largely the cause and it's by design to destabilize societies. so it's not you that's the problem no matter what the bitch might tell you. don't fall for that crap. men are the prize and not women. focus on you and those in your life that would be there for you through thick and thin. not that you can't enjoy a conversation or the such with others but they shouldn't take center stage in your life.

pwnzusauce · 2019-06-10T18:57:40+00:00

You have some exquisite cuisine there that takes me back.

Add some sausages if you can!

screwdeathlivelife · 2019-06-10T21:31:11+00:00

What, treat yourself to what looks like a puddle of shit.

Phwoaar, you show them bitches..... /s

FindingKeeping · 2019-06-10T11:51:08+00:00

You gonna be all better in no time man

Imperial_Plastics · 2019-06-10T13:52:48+00:00

I hope we can all take a moment to appreciate the small miracle of a friend with a basement... would have saved my 20s

badaboomxx · 2019-06-10T14:21:06+00:00

Remember brother, there is only one way now, UP. Good luck.

xevolverx · 2019-06-10T19:58:55+00:00

Ive been there. Glad you have a friend. Mine decided to rob me of what i had left.

WhiteIverson991 · 2019-06-10T20:41:17+00:00

Dude been there still haven’t fully recovered financially but- the last few years have been the best years of my life. I say congratulations, today is another wonderful day without a bitching wife and screaming kids. I love my daughter to death, but the one thing that divorce and pain showed me is that it is far better to be poor, living in friend’s basements eating ramen and drinking cheap beer than to be with a nagging disgusting leech.

[deleted] · 2019-06-11T00:31:37+00:00

Dude I am going through something similar right now!

She was a gaslighting narrcisitic parasite that I put a kid in. Well guess what I am going for full custody of my son so I can make sure that she doesn't have a way to corrupt him with her bullshit buzzfeed ideologies.

She tore me apart and I am just getting the ground back underneath me.

Bro I know it sucks but you're gonna make it!

I believe in you even when you don't believe in you!

Welcome to the movement. Some of us had to learn the hard way but it lead us to where we are no a community of men that support and encourage each other to cast off the lies of dating marriage and "love"

Title	My wife left, I lost my house, lost my kids, I live in a friend's basement... but at least I can treat myself
Author	186cm_LT_untermensch
Upvotes	249
Comments	35
Date	June 10, 2019 4:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bytpay/my_wife_left_i_lost_my_house_lost_my_kids_i_live/
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