How do you guys deal with the horniness and emptiness of going monk mode? After two years of dating a darling hotie (one free-spirited, chill-loving, tomboy badass artsy hippie party girl), she just broke up with me. The reasons are me being uncomfortable with her moving in with some random dude from work, and recent stuff like her doing naked partner-yoga with some other dude at a nudist beach.

Things are different this time around, she's super excited to move in with this brit guy, and told me how they have so much filmmaking interests in common. She turn me down for living together, as she wants to have people over all the time and I would rather have a mancave.

I understand I don't need to take on this bullshit, but at the same time am at loss when I try to fill the emptiness that the intimacy with a girl provides.

I would like to know how can I go monk mode besides going to the gym. All I can think about right now, to get over this breakup, is picking up the next random THOT.