My final message ending an extremely toxic relationship, I think the text speaks for itself

ElMatador_33 · 2019-06-06T06:17:42+00:00

Never explain yourself to these hoes. A 2-3 word text would suffice.

mgtow_daddy · 2019-06-06T06:19:11+00:00

1) You don't have "good friends" apparently

2) Save your breath. You just expose your weaknesses sharing all that crap. Ghosting is the way to go. Do you write a letter to a scorpio who stung you? No, you learn from your mistake and move on.

ls2087 · 2019-06-06T06:27:33+00:00

She doesn't give a fuck this just gave her kicks and made you look weak. Nevertheless congrats for wising up to her bs and glad you found MGTOW.

ConstantChinner · 2019-06-06T06:17:55+00:00

Why even waste your time with that text? She doesn't care and she probably smiles to herself because she upset you so much. Just block her and be done with it.

bansheeman · 2019-06-06T07:04:14+00:00

You appear to be simping hard with this text

Pliyii · 2019-06-06T06:28:23+00:00

Breh tbh that text is a loss for you. That girl 2, you 0. Never sound like a victim.

crityouallday · 2019-06-06T06:25:36+00:00

This is mgtow we dont have relationships with females here

BrizzLatency · 2019-06-06T09:18:11+00:00

Wtf your "friends" were fucking your girl

Zilo88 · 2019-06-06T06:15:09+00:00

You should have stopped at "it's over". She knows what she did; you don't owe her anything, least of all an explanation.

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T11:43:40+00:00

Best way to handle them is:

really short message that will get them fired up.
Remain silent after no matter what she says, make sure to have your read receipts on too.

Desolatrollz · 2019-06-06T09:34:48+00:00

That's a waste of time "it's over" thats all you had to say

ElMatador_33 · 2019-06-06T07:22:15+00:00

This would have gone better in person. Just my final thought. Do as you may. I’ve been in your shoes and regret showing women how much they affected me.

anduxo · 2019-06-06T10:20:19+00:00

Too many explanations for a little kid to handle.

UmbraAnimo · 2019-06-06T11:23:15+00:00

You didn't have to send the second text.

Edit: After reading past the first text, you didn't have to even send the first.

CaptainJoe777 · 2019-06-06T17:07:14+00:00

Too much my friend. You sound butt hurt. Just say...you cheated....BYE!!!!!!!

bosshog234 · 2019-06-06T19:12:46+00:00

Women lack accountability, so unfortunately a lot of the intent of your message will not land for her.

If she cried when reading it, those are crocodile tears.

A woman’s reputation is far more important to her than the truth. She may care about that, but assuredly not about you or genuinely what you think.

I’ve sent similar critical messages to girls in the past, and largely that was because I was projecting my values onto them.

Surly a satisfying message for you to send, but for her it doesn’t mean enough to make it worthwhile. In the future, maybe write and don’t sent knowing ultimately she won’t give a shit, or whatever suits you, but she sounds like garbage, so should be a pretty easy walk away there.

Reading into it, it seems there was an element of self deception covering its own tracks, and you do seem butt-hurt, but that only gives her validation that you cared.

She still won’t know remorse or ever consider herself accountable in her life, but cold short indifference is all the situation warrants.

Just be glad to not have a disease and to have time better spent.

AtrophyOfSoul · 2019-06-06T21:33:06+00:00

The best way to deal with this would have been to say nothing and ghost her. All you did by sending this message was feed her ego. Next time around don't waste your time, or energy.

Bazat91 · 2019-06-16T02:10:43+00:00

Wtf was this shit? You block and you're done... ffs it's pathetic to write all that crap.

Title	My final message ending an extremely toxic relationship, I think the text speaks for itself
Author	FuegoMoses
Upvotes	26
Comments	42
Date	June 6, 2019 6:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bxda9n/my_final_message_ending_an_extremely_toxic/
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