So a year and a half ago I moved in with my father because I was getting tired of my moms shit.

A couple months ago she kept on texting me asking me if I went to go see my grandma in the hospital because she was sick, and I was low key getting annoyed so I responded and I had a conversation with her. I told her how I was feeling and why I didn’t go.

Out of no where she got angry and said I was being disrespectful and I need to grow the fuck up. I did use profanity in our conversation but it wasn’t towards her. I was just explaining how I felt.

I simply told her that I don’t want to hear from her again and she told me that I need to do things for myself, which I’m already doing. Almost a week later I get a text from her saying how good of a son I am and I had my read receipts on so she made sure that I saw it.

All of a sudden she starts apologizing. But I never accepted until this day cuz she’s going to do the same exact shit.

She also have a habit of texting/calling my dad to get me to do things. Like as an example me and my dad was going to go voting together and I told my mom this in advance cuz all of a sudden she wants to spend time with me and see me and all of that shit.

The day of I’m chilling at home and she keeps texting me begging me to go with her. She had the audacity to call my dad and tell him she was going to come get me in 30 minutes from my dads house.

She also texted me wanting for me to come over for dinner this past holiday and I told her I wanted to be left alone and didn’t feel like dealing with anyone.

Her response was: “Well you’re hurting me by staying away. You were never like this before you went to your fathers. You’re 20 years old and don’t want to visit your mom on holidays. It’s not natural. One day you’ll wish you came and seen me more. You only get one mom”

She always use that “you’ll wish” bullshit to get her way.