[LTR] Interested in your take

jodyjodyb · 2017-08-16T20:57:18+00:00

I'd say you're too young and too successful to be in a relationship. You could definitely be shooting fish in a barrel. Just make sure you're inoculated against false-rape charges, being baby trapped, and other pitfalls.

TunedtoPerfection · 2017-08-16T21:14:03+00:00

You need to make a decision as your kinda just hampstering both options which locks you in this "struggle"(it's not).

The problem is your internally struggling with some concepts and when you look at everything to decide your divided.

If you haven't had a phase in your life where you are spinning at least 3 plates at once you need to experience that. There is so much you learn as a man when you roll over in bed, having fucked one woman, only to have 5 text messages from a number of other equally attractive woman begging for your cock. You do not understand abundance mentality until you have women literally fighting over you. You do not understand Amused Mastery until you bump into plate 1 while at the park with plate 2 and your only honest recourse is to smile with a shit eating grin and introduce them to each other... and possible offer up a threesome.

So if you haven't done above... go do that if she sticks around while your doing that, awesome... if not, hey your a kinky guy and you like kinky things it wasn't gonna work out.

That being said your issues are as followed:

You have spent 9 months with this woman, so there is a sort of attachment there I'm sure. But you do not understand that time is gone and it is never coming back. You need to view this in terms of your happiness going forward. In this situation the past is the past and doesn't really effect the future. Just because you were happy with her 6 months ago, doesn't mean you'll be happy with her 6 months from now. So just remember sunk cost.
She has huge fake tits, women get those to be fucking checked out. What she doesn't like however, is being considered as JUST a set of huge fake tits. She dresses in huge flowy dresses because she hates the leering. You need to show her that you won't do that exact thing if she puts on a tank top.
If the first words out of your mouth when you see her in a tank top are, babe your tits look great in that. She will burn that tank top the moment she takes it off. She doesn't want to be HAWT or boner-inducing simply because she put a shirt on that shows off her tits. But if you really like that style because it brings out her femininity and that's a very attractive quality in your eyes, she will buy 10 more like it. SHE has to be the sexy one, not her tits or ass, she has to know you want ot fuck HER, not her parts.
Keep looking at other women you are attractive to and better yet, get style advice from them when your with your girlfriend. Remember the other women aren't "sexy" or "hawt", but they have an attractive feminine style that you enjoy. Business women are great for this, chat them up with your girlfriend in a friendly manner. Attractive business women deal with this shit all the time, they LOVE helping another "strong independent woman" be sexually free, yet not feel like a piece of meat. This is a two fold tactic, you induce a bit of background dread and you get your woman dressing sexier for you.
You can teach a woman to be a slut for you, and doing that creates a very strong bond between you to. But it is about comfort and being sure you have no hang ups about it. But if you still think "Women that do XYZ sexually are bad people" you won't be able to pull this off until you can accept those things without judgement. Women love being a man's little slut, they just don't want to be treated differently afterwards.

HanSupreme · 2017-08-16T21:06:15+00:00

Don't force the issue, you sound like want to get out anyway but you're looking for a second opinion/ voice or something.

I'd say get out, it's not even worth it for your own sake. If she doesn't have what you're looking for, you're wasting your own time, and eventually it'll get to you mentally. Might as well get out now.

NYCSPARKLE · 2017-08-16T20:34:03+00:00

I know the feeling. It's the trade off of dating good girls.

Do you have other plates? Would she be open to threesomes?

I know some red pillers are into super wholesome girls, but I'm all into girls that are a little kinkier. I can't date a girl who wears grandma bikinis to the beach, for example.

midgetpooooo · 2017-08-16T20:42:18+00:00

Do what you want to her while you're fucking. Want her to talk dirty? Tell her to say "your cock feels so good" when you're fucking her. Finger her and make her lick her juices off. Tell her what you're going to do to her when you're out in public. Point is...get her turned on so much she'll be that kinky girl you want. You need to teach her.

CarnivOre93 · 2017-08-16T21:48:12+00:00

You could- mold her how you want her physically and groom her to satisfy your sexual needs by impregnating her mind with the idea that being with you sexually is a privilege. My wife has the idea that sucking me off is rewarding for her. The other day she walked up to me and struggled to unbotton and unzip my shorts while I distracted her and when she finally opened her present she dropped to her knees and destroyt it!

aconsolationprize · 2017-08-16T22:17:19+00:00

To me, LTRs are a fuck yes or no kind of thing. The fact that you are at "meh" really speaks volumes here.

Gottalovesluts6969 · 2017-08-16T22:20:25+00:00

Fake tits and she's acting prude? You're beta bucks.

Title	[LTR] Interested in your take
Author	sirtori66
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Comments	16
Date	August 16, 2017 8:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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