Can a woman love a man as a man can love a woman?

selfism_mike · 2019-06-03T20:24:33+00:00

No.

The biological purpose of male-female interaction is the production of offspring. In order to bring up offspring successfully the female is coerced by nature to invest hugely into first carrying them to term and then nurturing them until they can fend for themselves. Any female who has defects in performing that task will have less successful offspring and so increasing the probability of termination of her germ line.

A male has also to be coerced to invest in offspring, as he has the option to impregnate and leave, and if investment from the male is not necessary, then males will indeed do that.

In harsher environments, in which offspring benefit from the male's contribution, selection of faithful contributing males is favored, and the way nature gets that accomplished is to hijack the baby schema, which binds the mother to the child and protects the child from receiving violence from adults, and turns it into an instrument of male-to-female attachment. The male has to become deeply attached to the female in order to be made to invest into the offspring, because the female is the primary support for the offspring.

There is absolutely no requirement on the female to have similar romantic attachment to the male. What is required from her is that she better figures out how to keep the male around long enough to reap for her offspring and for herself the benefits the male provides. Women are selected for being deceptive, at least in those harsher environments.

Women loving men makes evolutionary no sense at all, while men loving women is an insurance policy for the survival of females and their offspring.

In laymen terms: they never gave or will give a shit about us, as nature did not disable them in the way we were disabled for the sake of increased offspring survival success. Females are in general incapable to love men, their love is reserved for their children.

swankvagabond · 2019-06-03T19:56:54+00:00

Unfortunately, no.

There is a hierarchy which could simply explain the reason:

Men love women, women love children, children love puppies.

Johan_24 · 2019-06-03T20:05:05+00:00

How many lovesongs have you heard written by women?

LuciferAOP · 2019-06-03T20:02:10+00:00

no because women only love money and power.

RedPilledSimp · 2019-06-03T21:06:07+00:00

OP, from what I've seen women hate themselves the much. Just Google with "auto mutilation." You'll find most of the cases are XX syndrome sufferers. So if they despise themselves so much, how in Earth could they "love" something else? And don't start: sure there are enough nutjob males around.

IDDQD4Life · 2019-06-03T20:59:30+00:00

Imagine a hunter-gatherer society. A man who loves is going to stick around and make sure his mate and their offspring survive. A man who is incapable of love is probably going to fuck off on his own and his mate and his kids are going to die. The ability of a man to love a woman is a mutation of brain chemistry that is obviously selected for by the fact that such a man's children are more likely to survive.

On the other hand, it is an evolutionary advantage for women NOT to fall in love. A woman in a hunter-gatherer society had to be ready at a moments notice to take a new mate, to find a new provider and protector post-fucking-haste after her old provider/protector was killed by a wild animal/disease/exposure/whatever.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-06-03T19:57:26+00:00

redshieldheroz · 2019-06-03T20:04:54+00:00

Your answer is in the verse of the Bible. It was post here before. Ancient wisdom yah know

crityouallday · 2019-06-03T20:05:08+00:00

Nein!

ThePenitentMan38 · 2019-06-03T20:50:38+00:00

Can a woman love a man as a man can love a woman?

No, woman don't love man. Men are just pieces of meat and women are shopping for the choice cut.

user_miki · 2019-06-03T21:12:03+00:00

NO.

Seriously NO.

MuleFool42 · 2019-06-03T22:36:16+00:00

Men love women for being themselves, pretty unconditionally, as long as there is consistent sex.

Women love what men can do for them. They can't really have feelings for someone who doesn't have a job and can't take care of themselves. They have not respect for jobless males, whereas having a job and being independent and self sufficient is not a requirement for a man to love a woman.

Title	Can a woman love a man as a man can love a woman?
Author	KnuggeB
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	June 3, 2019 7:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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