So when I was a blue pilled idiot, my ex moved to from her home province and in with me (new province for the both of us).

I was under the impression she was going to bring her car, but spontaneously last minute, decided not to. I knew this would be a problem as I use my car everyday and it's manual which she refused to learn how to drive.

After about a month she planned to buy a new vehicle which I thought was great. However, this is where I fucked up. Partially blue pilled mind, and also just didn't know the specifics if im being honest. Young and dumb if you will....as ive never bought a new car before.

She suggested I co sign as that was the only way for her to get it. She was waiting in full time employment so it would secure the car for her. Btw, she did get a job afterwards so no problems there.

However, I noticed the loan went on my bank account. I had no idea this would happen with cosigning....she convinced me this wouldnt happen as I inquired how it would affect me. Her family owned a car dealership, so naturally I trusted her.

Now we've been split up nearly 6 months (thankfully). I made sure to tell her to get my name off the loan...I didnt want it on my bank account. She assured me it would be done. And you guessed it, she didn't.

With regards to the loan all I can see is the interest, minimum payment requirement and the balanace. Ive been recording the balance to ensure she pays it so it doesnt fuck me over and so far so good.

How do I get this off my bank account lads? Ill admit I fucked up, despite being decieved.

Edit: would love to know who downvoted me and why. Just asking for help for a mistake I made and now want to go my own way which is hard to do when you're still linked to your ex.

Meanwhile, guys who got married for several years get all the help in the world for 10 years of dumb mistakes.

Doing stuff like this to guys who actually want help/advice is only going to push guys away from this. Thats my .2